Quoting: Rising Son Quoting: mountain girl 1467962 Quoting: Rising Son
... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1467962
Its just a bunch o glp'ers thinking they are the chosen one. Mind f#cking each other.
What makes me curious is how and where they are getting such specific information from. I have heard delusional manifestations before, but none like the ones in this thread and others. I get the sense from the originators that they truly believe what they are saying.
For the most part they all do believe what they write. I have never read a nobody thread, except for this one , as they are too long to read and mostly fantasy.
We could each be the nobody or the woman of scars, we all have long lost loves that we are forever separated from.... And thats where the delusion sets in. my nobody was a liar so I ignored him.
What did your nobody do ?
If by nobody you mean someone who hurt another while they were in love, then I would be the nobody and my wife would be the woman of scars. I am still trying to figure out what everybody means by this nobody character.
My wife and I are still together after 12 years of marriage, but I have wounded her so many times throughout the years, to which she has always answered with forgiveness and unconditional love. I do not deserve such a loving woman in my life, but I thank God for her that she is, because I would be completely lost without her.
Stop thanking God and start asking questions.
The first to ask Him is what to do in order to allow your wife to find real happiness. I don't mean to imply that the answer will be to let her go - perhaps it's part of you that you must let go in order to transform yourself into that which can make her happy.
The first thing you need to work on is obvious - that deep-seeded lie you tell yourself that you'd be lost without your wife. You end up hurting her in the effort of trying to wake yourself up to your own self-sufficiency. Keep trekking down the easy road and that lesson will come via losing her for good.
When that voice pops in your head saying, "You don't need her, there's something better", it's not meant to imply the foolish interpretation that you need to find someone else better, it's meant to tell you to find in yourself something better to believe in so that you don't see your wife as a loving, forgiving savior that you need in your life to be happy.
The two of you find true happiness together in being equals; self-sufficient persons with love as their binder and not necessity. Picture and dream of the day you can vocalize with belief that you want to be with only your wife even though you don't need her presence to feel satisfied in life, and to know that she feels the same way.
Once you've dreamed the dream, go back to the beginning to figure out how to get there. You're not supposed to just be together (and thus require the other one to be there), you're supposed to grow together.