Would you marry a man if you were the fourth or fifth wife?

No responses? Oh come on...

No way. Nor if I was going to be the third.

Last Edited by Zuzu's Petals on 01/26/2013 10:07 PM

Yep,works both ways. Thanks.

would you date someone that had four or five dates with other people prior to you?

If you are even questioning this, then run away. If you love that person, then shame on you for posting this.

I don't "date," but no, I wouldn't "date" someone that was going out with a different person each day of the week. I don't hold anything against people like that, it's just not for me. I'm either in a relationship or I'm not. Dating seems so fake and phony to me. I can't do it.

It's not me that's in the situation, but something I'm seeing a coworker do. It's bothered me a lot. I couldn't wrap my hands around it, couldn't understand why a bright young women (35 years old) would marry someone like this, who is 62 years old. I was just trying to get a feel on whether I'm way off, or too old-school.

My wife was my third.......we are happily working on our 23rd year........nothing is an absolute...my first wife..6 months, second was about two years but they both cheated the whole time.....go figure, they were young....

Good for you. Maybe sometimes you pick the wrong people and it took a couple of mistakes to realize that. 23 years.....something to be proud of. :)

NO! something is seriously wrong with someone who has such poor judgment....

And please describe how you're perfect?

I apologize for my "maleness" in this post.


I see a lot of responses on 2, 3 etc.

I am curious how that matters.
Especially if you were always #1 with him?


I find it hard to understand how any could look upon a garden and say this one flower is all that should be, or a flower alone thinking, this is how life should be.


Being "male" however, its said I shall never know.

Good topic.

The first time marriage is for love. If there is a second, third, fourth, then its all about money.

nope!

Date? Yes
Marry? After a very long courtship maybe.

I have been wife number 4.

All I can say is it sounds like somebody's biscuits ain't rising!

So, people don't ask you out for a date, they just ask you if you want to be in a relationship?

One word - NO.

too much baggage. sides why marry? no longer worth it.