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Coffee Klatch
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Heading to Missouri tomorrow. Told the local family to have bail money ready for me...lol. Looks like baby daddy has decided this just isn't working out for him but doesn't want my daughter to leave the state. Daughter has an appointment with a lawyer tomorrow. We will either head for Oregon or move her back into her old apartment. Depends on what the lawyer advises. No custody order is in place so she technically has full custody, but Missouri has the strictest laws in the country when it comes to removing a child from state. She could get back here and be told the child has to return to Missouri in a few months. I won't know if we go with plan A or B till I get there. Always told my girls no matter what, if you call and say you need me to pick you up I will be there. So I will fly out tomorrow not not knowing which plan we are going with. We are hoping for a quick resolution and the green light to go, but planning for 6 months of lawyer bills.
Quoting: Southern OR Well that sucks sort of. I hope she can come home to Oregon with you but I am sorry to hear that it could be trouble. Is your daughter working now? Maybe that can be the catalyst, that if he can provide for her and the baby there (outside his home) she needs to go back to where she can make a living. You can say she has employment waiting with your company. Make it a mgmt. position that she wouldn't be able to get in Missouri so that the court is on her side. Divorced people get to leave the state all the time due to employment so why shouldn't she. She just started back to work last week. She does love her job and the pay is much higher than here ($19 and hour on base). But it is a 1 year contract and when the last contract was up it took 5 months to get another one. Worst case we have to wait a bit longer. Most custody cases take six months. And if that fails we have plan C. Plan C is she talked with her "husband", yes they are still married, he still has her on his orders to move just outside of Las Vegas come June or July. He is a great guy and said he will help wherever the can. They still have a good friendship even though they didn't work as a married couple. I don't think anyone can fight a military order, plus Vegas is half the distance as Missouri. She will get home, it's just a matter of how and when.
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