A letter I just left for my Ex. I AM FREE!!! | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27944628 United States 03/31/2013 04:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You seem so proud of yourself! The fact that you posted that Letter on a public forum proves that you weak. So weak that you couldn't be a man and sit her down and express your feelings towards her without being hurtful and demeaning. Furthermore it's sad to see the responses supporting this low life behavior. Indeed it's a sign of the times when the love of many have grown cold. This is a sad day for you. ... the day that you have become nothing more then a pathetic excuse for a man. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24957083 United States 03/31/2013 04:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That tv is half hers as is everythng else you are taking fool, its only yours to take if she agrees lol Quoting: Anonymous Coward 37208486 Op is not married and this bullshit that the woman owns half of everything you have is utter bullshit too. Women need to learn their fucking place. This is why I don't ever invite women to my real home. I always invite them to my apartment where they think they control everything once I do. I've kept women in multiple apartments like it was a zoo for me and they all do and try the same shit on me, every one of them, total and absolute control. I LOL'ED Indeed, you'd be surprised how easy it is and how easy it is to manipulate women once you know their mindset. Once you sleep with them, they think everything you own is theirs and they help themselves to it. The TV, the computer, everything. They never ask, "Can I use your TV", they never ask if they can stay in your home, they just do like they've been married to you for 20 years. None of them treated me like the king of my home, they all pranced around like they're some sort of queen and I'm just there for their pleasure. The idea that I could throw them out on the streets anytime never even comes up into their heads. |
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Zeff User ID: 15574462 France 03/31/2013 04:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am really sick and tired of this culture of feminism and misandry. It is poison. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28183826 roots of USA [link to www.legrandsoir.info] Berlin vs Palestine wall [link to img15.hostingpics.net] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1278422 Netherlands 03/31/2013 04:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yea good one o.0 nob head Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4166916 Hopefully she has a big brother that will give you a bit of a slap. Clearly she deserves better than a cock muncher like yourself. Maybe you are gay?? Physically sick at the sight of a female body??? Thanks for coming out to us all at GLP You must be this Anne? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 34874741 United States 03/31/2013 04:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why? So he can get screamed at and treated like absolute shit for one last time?? Fuck that. He did her a favor. I agree with Obvious here. Also, you don't know if that person will get violent. No matter how shitty they have acted, some people will totally lose it when the pot they have sit on for so long decides to walk. Potential for violence here. I think you did the right thing. I ended my horrible situation about 5 years ago and while I've had to deal with financial repercussions and other crap, it was totally worth it and I'd do it all over because as you said... I AM FREE! And let me tell ya, even 5 years later it feels GREAT!!! Best of luck. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35562066 United States 03/31/2013 04:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Funny:How I gullible most are here on this site. The guy shares his nasty letter here to his ex that he is leaving and he receives praise from a bunch of idiots who ASSUME he is telling the truth and that she is this negative controlling person. Her didn't have the guts to face her head on. What a chicken.A wimp if you ask me. Shows he doesn't have communication skills. This is his perspective and you all assume he is truthful and she hasn't told her side yet. What a bunch of unintelligent morons who will of course be offended and defend and resort to name calling me. I thought there was more intelligence here but of course not. Get your ex to log in here and give her side of the story and I am sure the guy posting will look bad from her perspective.Maybe he is an idiot but most here jump on the side of the note writer. What a wimp. Then make up your mind fellows. Remember a quote from 5th grade. There are two sides of a coin. |
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Children of the Atom User ID: 20257839 United States 03/31/2013 04:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Funny:How I gullible most are here on this site. The guy shares his nasty letter here to his ex that he is leaving and he receives praise from a bunch of idiots who ASSUME he is telling the truth and that she is this negative controlling person. Her didn't have the guts to face her head on. What a chicken.A wimp if you ask me. Shows he doesn't have communication skills. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35562066 This is his perspective and you all assume he is truthful and she hasn't told her side yet. What a bunch of unintelligent morons who will of course be offended and defend and resort to name calling me. I thought there was more intelligence here but of course not. Get your ex to log in here and give her side of the story and I am sure the guy posting will look bad from her perspective.Maybe he is an idiot but most here jump on the side of the note writer. What a wimp. Then make up your mind fellows. Remember a quote from 5th grade. There are two sides of a coin. So if you felt how he described, how would you have handled it? |
Little Miss Sunshine User ID: 24519305 United States 03/31/2013 04:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I find it so sad that so many do not take the time to consider their spouses feeling and to consider things that may actually hurt their feelings. Men DO have feelings too. Too often couples get caught up in their day to day living that they seem to forget the "love and respect" they had for the other in the beginning. I hope you're new life will give you all the things your heart and spirit are looking for. Noone should ever have to stay in a relationship where they are not loved, respected ,and made to feel like a stray dog in the street. Best of luck to you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 34963435 United States 03/31/2013 04:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm FREE! I left this letter on the kitchen table. She gets back tonight but I will be gone. I feel so great. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28183826 Anne, I’m writing this letter to you in hopes that it will help clarify a few things that you’ve no doubt become aware of since you arrived home. The situation is exactly as it seems, I have left you. The plain truth is, I am no longer attracted to you. For the past few months I can safely say that I have felt physically ill in the morning when I wake up and see your face next to mine. Everything about you has become sour in my mind, even the way you smell. To be honest I find being around you draining, both physically and emotionally. These issues are only surpassed by your negative and hateful attitude, which I might add has become progressively worse over the past year. You have become an egotistical, selfish and unimaginative person who rarely asks me what I need or want, in fact I cannot remember the last time you offered me anything of value. It baffles me that you show more passion for something like Dancing with the Stars or Idol than you do our relationship and our future. It stuns me that you cannot see how far you have fallen, how much dignity you have lost. My limits have been reached and I have had enough. Your attempt to deprive me of my masculinity and sovereignty will no longer be tolerated. So this is where you find yourself, standing in the living room, stunned. Stunned because you never expected this, because you thought you owned me, you thought only you had the power to do something like this. The 46 inch flatscreen that you enjoy so much is no longer a prop for your moronic addiction. Go and buy your own. I have taken everything that I paid for (except the things which I bought for you). Keep the fridge (I’m getting a nice big one to reward myself for this amazing decision I have just made). Finally I want you to look up the word Misandry as it’s something you are unequivocally guilty of. You should be glad that for the first time in your life someone has actually called you out on your bullshit. You can either lie to yourself as usual or you can pick up the proverbial mirror and take an honest look inside. Good luck D If she's a bitch that's really that draining, I say serves her right though how can she be stunned about this letter and have no doubt about what you're writing in it at the same time? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1278422 Netherlands 03/31/2013 04:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Funny:How I gullible most are here on this site. The guy shares his nasty letter here to his ex that he is leaving and he receives praise from a bunch of idiots who ASSUME he is telling the truth and that she is this negative controlling person. Her didn't have the guts to face her head on. What a chicken.A wimp if you ask me. Shows he doesn't have communication skills. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35562066 This is his perspective and you all assume he is truthful and she hasn't told her side yet. What a bunch of unintelligent morons who will of course be offended and defend and resort to name calling me. I thought there was more intelligence here but of course not. Get your ex to log in here and give her side of the story and I am sure the guy posting will look bad from her perspective.Maybe he is an idiot but most here jump on the side of the note writer. What a wimp. Then make up your mind fellows. Remember a quote from 5th grade. There are two sides of a coin. It doesn't matter. It's still good if it's made up. I know this is real. Been there more than once. Yeah I know. 2 sides? Not in this case. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 34963435 United States 03/31/2013 04:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I hate to give you the bad news OP, but you're gay! Your letter reads just like someone who has come out of the closet. I hope your next relationship is a much better one with your lover named...Andy. Quoting: Psychologist Steven 5537032 I'm telling you! Full on GAY! Or someone who's wife turned into a cow. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23657849 United States 03/31/2013 04:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I have no issue with you wanting to leave a woman who treated you so poorly. What I am concerned about is that you allowed this treatment to continue or so it seems. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 35757316 I have no issue with you leaving her a letter and being gone when she comes home to make this a cleaner break. Women like her will never accept her loss of control over you....and that is the point (by the way, I am female). She could do anything when she realizes she has lost control. But again, OP, I want to ask why it went on for a period of time that was so long you had these feelings about her? No relationship should end this way. You should have left the first time you had that awful feeling when you saw her in the morning. I sincerely suggest you do not start any new relationships. Seek whatever help you need to get your confidence back, do what is necessary to find yourself again and NEVER - EVER allow another human to treat you in this manner. To all others that are bitch slapping women over this thread....this easily could have been a woman leaving a man with the very same circumstances. This woman clearly seems like a bitch but it doesn't mean we are all this way. I made the same mistakes as the OP. Didn't learn my lesson and fell for it a second time. When I saw it coming again, I stood up to the control but boy was it a reality check to see how easily the same patterns emerged....shows it must have been about me too. Thanks for your words. I acknowledge that I should have taken action sooner however the big changes in her personality have come fairly rapidly. She took a new job about 7 months ago and started to associate with people I can only describe as sociopaths. To me it's as simple as the "real her" came out, slowly at first and then like a tidal wave. You're right I was in denial for a while but I also made serious attempts to fix things. In the end it became apparent that it was always going to be about "her" and so I planned my escape, making sure I had an apartment to move into on the other side of town, etc. My beef is not with women it's with this particular woman. That being said I am really sick and tired of this culture of feminism and misandry. It is poison. As for my confidence it just raked in a monster pot. Now to set up the new Man Cave. Man Cave lol, I can just bet it will be a Man Cave. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 36901342 Argentina 03/31/2013 04:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ive just did whats op doing.. couple weeks back.. she is a ribotriller/fluoxetin club one! OP.. what u feel is the separation of good and evil.. functional from disfuncional.. good to hear you will not be in the harvest.. clean up your head!! meditation .. screaming or whatever u feel like.. MEn cry too.. n let it go.. find your new person you r now after all.. she made u stronger.. thanx her inner or superior being for that..! go out and find out what your new life is about! even in this very ineresting times.. stay some AWAY fromm glp..! use the new time maybe.. getting prep!!! by real! RISE YOUR VIVRAS!!!! m |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 36226622 Australia 03/31/2013 05:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m writing this letter to you in hopes that it will help clarify a few things that you’ve no doubt become aware of since you arrived home. The situation is exactly as it seems, I have left you. The plain truth is, I am no longer attracted to you. For the past few months I can safely say that I have felt physically ill in the morning when I wake up and see your face next to mine. Everything about you has become sour in my mind, even the way you smell. To be honest I find being around you draining, both physically and emotionally. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28183826 Oh but a year ago, you were so in love right? Kuckoo Kuckoo |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4711989 United States 03/31/2013 05:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 2 seconds after she read your letter she called me. We made love on your bed 3 times, I wiped my on toilet paper then smeared the shit over your pictures you stupidly left behind. i am smoking your stash and drinking your beer and liquor. I plan to kick back while your ex supports me. Thank you, thank you ,thank you! |
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