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Smoking hot and in love with me.im treated like a king for the most part.she has a successful career that is being affected as well because the kid doesn't always want to go to school causing mom to miss work

She is not your daughter, I would say keep your damn hands off her. That is her mothers decision to spank or not to spank.

The kid goes from Shirley temple to Linda Blair in about two seconds.the dad is a deadbeat dad who doesn't show up to see her most of the time.last time he had her he kept her an extra week illegally he lives four hours away and moms car was broke down so she couldn't go get her .

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You should probably refrain from any discipline, particularly of the physical type. An awful lot of reported child abuse is perpetrated by mothers' paramours. Social workers and police see the pattern and may not consider any intentions by someone who thinks he's making a tough situation better. Your idea of discipline may well count as child abuse in the eyes of the professionals.

When I say Linda Blair I mean like the exorcist to she even has a mans voice it's scary.maybe she is possessed ha ha

hit her and hit her hard

a good knee in the ribs should do it

when shes out of breath she cant cry

By age 6 it's already too late. The terrible 2's make or break the child's behaviors FOR LIFE.

Strictly punish and correct early before behaviors expand, multiple and cement in.

Only a parent or full time guardian can do this.

I couldn't agree more i would never touch her !!!! But I think mama should give alternatives please that's why I'm here I'm not a monster

leave the both of them and get on with yer life.

life's too short...

Read the book "1, 2, 3.. Magic !" worked great with my kids...

Mamas going crazy from this I would never ever spank anyone's child as I said I am against it but we need alternatives .grandma spanked hard now she is cool when she is with grandma.im just trying to help

Low voltage taser works fine. Use it a few times on her and behavoir greatly improves.

I'm trying to avoid that but will if i have too. I feel everything happens for a reason somehow I think I'm supposed to help figure this out. I will get the 1 23 book can you give me some of the basic ideas while I wait to order it?

It's a bit late to start spanking. But it's a bit early for you to even get involved in it, aside from helping counsel mom on the fact that it is do or die time for this kid.

She needs:
1. A defined set of rules and expectations for behavior.
2. A defined set of consequences for failure to follow the rules and expectations.

Basically, whatever she loves to do or play with is on the chopping block if she acts up. Put it all on the wall in writing.

if you spank your children you are a terrorist. Only the state can punish its children. What's your SS#?

I'm gonna report you to the IRS

send her to Military School

You were just suggesting taking a belt to her, were you not? A belt to a 6 year old??? Sounds monster to me, and sure her daughter would think you a monster as well. Hell, you are not even her legal step father, if the little brat was my grand daughter and you took a belt to her, your ass would go to jail or worse.

Pim afraid you might be right as I said I'm not going to discipline her.this should have been handled long ago but what to do now is the question.grounding is a night ere its hours and hours of tantrums until she gives in.im not gonna touch her its not my place!

medication either you or her

Is spanking being a monster?i was spanked I never thought my parents were monsters.as I said I'm not ever gonna touch the kid.so instead of getting all pissed how about a HELPFUL alternative please

I bet her diet is a processed shit hell. Fix this first!

No, spanking is not a bad thing at all, her mom needs to blister her ass and leave you out, if you know what I mean. I was just pissed at the belt reference. PS, key word, Parents.

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Ha ha but this is no joking matter.the behavior is out of control.she acts like she is two.she breaks stuff all the time.the other day she went around the whole house spreading fruity pebbles it looked like it snowed fruity pebbles in the house ha ha. I laughed it off but it took hours to clean up.

Yeah parents is part of the problem she is acting out.the dad is a deadbeat promises to come see then no show no call.
I just said the belt cause that's how I got it.the mention put the fear of god in me.and her own grandma spanked her good apparently last weekend with the desired results..one poster said it may be to lat but its never to late just more of a challenge.i have tried saying stuff like if your good tonight you can have ice cream positive results not negative threats.it just isn't working.tonight she made a spectacal at the older daughter music recital.we had to take her outside it was very embarrassing and the mom was in tears .i just want to help I think that's why we hooked up I do

Make her stand in the corner with her nose against the wall while reaching for the sky until she passes out. Or make her write a shitty long sentence till the whole paper is filled up. This will work. Trust me i was an asshole as a kid and my aunt made me nice without laying a finger on me.

The reason you turned out to be an asshole is because you were spanked. You never hit a child ever. There are better techniques to change a child's behavior. What an ass.

Ya her diet is bullshit she crys everyday for the effing happy meal bullshit.i said the exact same thing that McDonald's crap isn't helping.when they come to my house its home cooking and apples.ice cream if she is good .problem is the other night she got up and ate seven ice cream sandwiches at some point in the middle of the night.she is a little devil.i really care for her she is sweet half the time and I try to be a friend to her I'm not her dad or step dad but would like to be a positive role model for her