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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1577797 United States 05/15/2013 09:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should probably refrain from any discipline, particularly of the physical type. An awful lot of reported child abuse is perpetrated by mothers' paramours. Social workers and police see the pattern and may not consider any intentions by someone who thinks he's making a tough situation better. Your idea of discipline may well count as child abuse in the eyes of the professionals. |
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Slueth (OP) User ID: 38096388 United States 05/15/2013 09:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She is not your daughter, I would say keep your damn hands off her. That is her mothers decision to spank or not to spank. Quoting: Desert Fox ^That I couldn't agree more i would never touch her !!!! But I think mama should give alternatives please that's why I'm here I'm not a monster |
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Slueth (OP) User ID: 38096388 United States 05/15/2013 09:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | leave the both of them and get on with yer life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11853442 life's too short... I'm trying to avoid that but will if i have too. I feel everything happens for a reason somehow I think I'm supposed to help figure this out. I will get the 1 23 book can you give me some of the basic ideas while I wait to order it? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1302477 United States 05/15/2013 10:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's a bit late to start spanking. But it's a bit early for you to even get involved in it, aside from helping counsel mom on the fact that it is do or die time for this kid. She needs: 1. A defined set of rules and expectations for behavior. 2. A defined set of consequences for failure to follow the rules and expectations. Basically, whatever she loves to do or play with is on the chopping block if she acts up. Put it all on the wall in writing. |
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Desert Fox User ID: 8786935 United States 05/15/2013 10:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She is not your daughter, I would say keep your damn hands off her. That is her mothers decision to spank or not to spank. Quoting: Desert Fox ^That I couldn't agree more i would never touch her !!!! But I think mama should give alternatives please that's why I'm here I'm not a monster You were just suggesting taking a belt to her, were you not? A belt to a 6 year old??? Sounds monster to me, and sure her daughter would think you a monster as well. Hell, you are not even her legal step father, if the little brat was my grand daughter and you took a belt to her, your ass would go to jail or worse. :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
Slueth (OP) User ID: 38096388 United States 05/15/2013 10:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | By age 6 it's already too late. The terrible 2's make or break the child's behaviors FOR LIFE. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 39370466 Strictly punish and correct early before behaviors expand, multiple and cement in. Only a parent or full time guardian can do this. By age 6 it's already too late. The terrible 2's make or break the child's behaviors FOR LIFE. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 39370466 Strictly punish and correct early before behaviors expand, multiple and cement in. Only a parent or full time guardian can do this. Pim afraid you might be right as I said I'm not going to discipline her.this should have been handled long ago but what to do now is the question.grounding is a night ere its hours and hours of tantrums until she gives in.im not gonna touch her its not my place! |
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Slueth (OP) User ID: 38096388 United States 05/15/2013 10:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She is not your daughter, I would say keep your damn hands off her. That is her mothers decision to spank or not to spank. Quoting: Desert Fox ^That I couldn't agree more i would never touch her !!!! But I think mama should give alternatives please that's why I'm here I'm not a monster You were just suggesting taking a belt to her, were you not? A belt to a 6 year old??? Sounds monster to me, and sure her daughter would think you a monster as well. Hell, you are not even her legal step father, if the little brat was my grand daughter and you took a belt to her, your ass would go to jail or worse. Is spanking being a monster?i was spanked I never thought my parents were monsters.as I said I'm not ever gonna touch the kid.so instead of getting all pissed how about a HELPFUL alternative please |
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Desert Fox User ID: 8786935 United States 05/15/2013 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I couldn't agree more i would never touch her !!!! But I think mama should give alternatives please that's why I'm here I'm not a monster You were just suggesting taking a belt to her, were you not? A belt to a 6 year old??? Sounds monster to me, and sure her daughter would think you a monster as well. Hell, you are not even her legal step father, if the little brat was my grand daughter and you took a belt to her, your ass would go to jail or worse. Is spanking being a monster?i was spanked I never thought my parents were monsters.as I said I'm not ever gonna touch the kid.so instead of getting all pissed how about a HELPFUL alternative please No, spanking is not a bad thing at all, her mom needs to blister her ass and leave you out, if you know what I mean. I was just pissed at the belt reference. PS, key word, Parents. Last Edited by Desert Fox on 05/15/2013 10:09 PM :TOMABANEFOX: It's more humane this way ya know, or burn on totem pole. Choice is yours. |
Slueth (OP) User ID: 38096388 United States 05/15/2013 10:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ha ha but this is no joking matter.the behavior is out of control.she acts like she is two.she breaks stuff all the time.the other day she went around the whole house spreading fruity pebbles it looked like it snowed fruity pebbles in the house ha ha. I laughed it off but it took hours to clean up. |
Slueth (OP) User ID: 38096388 United States 05/15/2013 10:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Slueth I couldn't agree more i would never touch her !!!! But I think mama should give alternatives please that's why I'm here I'm not a monster You were just suggesting taking a belt to her, were you not? A belt to a 6 year old??? Sounds monster to me, and sure her daughter would think you a monster as well. Hell, you are not even her legal step father, if the little brat was my grand daughter and you took a belt to her, your ass would go to jail or worse. Is spanking being a monster?i was spanked I never thought my parents were monsters.as I said I'm not ever gonna touch the kid.so instead of getting all pissed how about a HELPFUL alternative please No, spanking is not a bad thing at all, her mom needs to blister her ass and leave you out, if you know what I mean. I was just pissed at the belt reference. PS, key word, Parents. ... Quoting: Slueth I couldn't agree more i would never touch her !!!! But I think mama should give alternatives please that's why I'm here I'm not a monster You were just suggesting taking a belt to her, were you not? A belt to a 6 year old??? Sounds monster to me, and sure her daughter would think you a monster as well. Hell, you are not even her legal step father, if the little brat was my grand daughter and you took a belt to her, your ass would go to jail or worse. Is spanking being a monster?i was spanked I never thought my parents were monsters.as I said I'm not ever gonna touch the kid.so instead of getting all pissed how about a HELPFUL alternative please No, spanking is not a bad thing at all, her mom needs to blister her ass and leave you out, if you know what I mean. I was just pissed at the belt reference. PS, key word, Parents. Yeah parents is part of the problem she is acting out.the dad is a deadbeat promises to come see then no show no call. I just said the belt cause that's how I got it.the mention put the fear of god in me.and her own grandma spanked her good apparently last weekend with the desired results..one poster said it may be to lat but its never to late just more of a challenge.i have tried saying stuff like if your good tonight you can have ice cream positive results not negative threats.it just isn't working.tonight she made a spectacal at the older daughter music recital.we had to take her outside it was very embarrassing and the mom was in tears .i just want to help I think that's why we hooked up I do |
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Slueth (OP) User ID: 38096388 United States 05/15/2013 10:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ya her diet is bullshit she crys everyday for the effing happy meal bullshit.i said the exact same thing that McDonald's crap isn't helping.when they come to my house its home cooking and apples.ice cream if she is good .problem is the other night she got up and ate seven ice cream sandwiches at some point in the middle of the night.she is a little devil.i really care for her she is sweet half the time and I try to be a friend to her I'm not her dad or step dad but would like to be a positive role model for her |