Simulate this:

Go to work every day bust your ass off give 20% of your check to Uncle Sam, give 30% of if to your EX, see your kid every other weekend when its convenient for her, of course after you wait in the driveway for an hour because she's late, pick up your kid who proceeds to tell you Momys house is better because she has more stuff and your always broke and then take your kid back 2 days later , wait an hour in the driveway, and go home so you can get ready to go back to work the next day and start all over. It's especially fun in the summer because you get to watch them out enjoying the sun all day living off support and state assistance. If you quit your Job and try that crap you go to jail.