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advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)

 
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06/17/2013 04:26 AM

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advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
no sex with my wife 1dunno1
when our first kid was born i knew it would come
after the second, it is here!

over a half year now
as if the comunion between us
(very strong and responsible while rising children)
faded to some extent, that the value of it is no way that high as it was (1996 - 2013 relationship)

no time she says
sporadic contact, sporadic touch
i need to touch her

i am strong in my boots, will never broke my family,
i love them very much

so here it is my friends
what should i do ?
i really try to bring this to everydays table for her, in order to see it, but strange is, she sees no big problem in it wtf
moral reasoning takes about 250 miliseconds
we make errors in between
perception->relation->behaviour
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06/17/2013 04:52 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
Her love faded.
"The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title."

Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity.

The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women
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06/17/2013 05:28 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
She is tired, try to find a babysitter your wife will approve of, take her out on a date. Make her feel she is special and not just a mother. You have to make time to be away from the children. She has to be away from them, but she has to be secure with who is taking care of them when she isn't there.

Those times alone with you, is important to get back to being more than just parents, you have to find the way to
become husband and wife, too. Dating seems to have worked wonders for young couples I know. You go for going out for dinner then and over night stay in a hotel so you can be alone, no children, but you can check on them.

Hope this helps you!
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06/17/2013 05:36 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
no time she says

 Quoting: Funney


Help her out, lighten her load, and maybe she'll find time again.
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06/17/2013 05:42 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
How old is the 2nd child?
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06/17/2013 05:44 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
no time she says

 Quoting: Funney


Help her out, lighten her load, and maybe she'll find time again.
 Quoting: The Loophole


this
from a guy who knows
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06/17/2013 05:48 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
you have officially become BETAized.
you can change it, but it will be a lot of work on your part to man up again.

one good place to start reading is here:
www.marriedmansexlife.com/blog/

good luck.
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06/17/2013 05:51 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
and i bet, as this has become more of a problem you have become more placating to her, telling her you love her more often, trying to shower her more with gifts? yes?

do you whine to her about not getting enough sex, or pout about it?

an this is the totally wrong thing to do.

it is all very counterintuitive. she needs you to be the strong alpha man she (maybe) married. i assume you were different when you were first together...
Accidental Stoner
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06/17/2013 06:02 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
Can't give you any advice, my friend.

Just hope the two of you find your way
back to romance.

It will happen - just be patient.

peace
Funney
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09/02/2013 03:36 PM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
oh boy
all who are eager to know how this is progressing..
here it is:

solution to above problems?

all it took was an innocent love affair

she rotated 180 degrees her relation to me!
started to be so communicative

details:
i let my FB account open (accidentally)
.. she found the conversation..
i called her in the chat as an "ICE queen".. and the next day ice as was already as a wallpaper.. i knew she read it all..

a solution ? long term ?

i am happy now
living in the NOW is a way harder,
but we get more rewards to stay in it
interesting


hf
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09/02/2013 03:40 PM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
you better be responsible for your own orgasms if that is what you are after.
Funney
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09/03/2013 03:00 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
you better be responsible for your own orgasms if that is what you are after.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32974846


it was far bigger issue than orgasms
SOLVED!

banana2
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09/03/2013 03:01 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
you better be responsible for your own orgasms if that is what you are after.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32974846


it was far bigger issue than orgasms
SOLVED!

banana2
 Quoting: Funney 379793


For now its solved mr wishful thinker
Funney
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09/03/2013 03:18 AM
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Re: advice needed (Funney needs your opinion)
you better be responsible for your own orgasms if that is what you are after.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32974846


it was far bigger issue than orgasms
SOLVED!

banana2
 Quoting: Funney 379793


For now its solved mr wishful thinker
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46220132


without this "love" intervention
there would be no change

same on this planet
only different scale

watch!
yoda





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