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Anonymous Coward User ID: 46542582 United States 10/30/2013 11:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hit me pretty hard yesterday how 'different' I am to the rest of society. I'm sure your all about to agree and back away slowly ;) Quoting: teacup Was out. At a wedding. Everyone was getting drunk then acting like dickheads on the dance floor. I just wanted to go home. So I did. I have a lot of casual friends but no desire to make any of them close friends. I like my distance. I also spend a lot of time frowning about the things people do. I know that makes me stuck up. I realise I am a it of a snob, but I can't seem to help it!! Anyone able to associate? Why is this? The way I was raised? Or am I an alien? :P I think real relationships are hard to come by these days. It seems everyone is climbing, positioning, or acting out. Maybe the "Facebook Generation" has led to this. I don't like "going through the motions" with people, I like authentic friendships and relationships. Unfortunately, that has caused me to stand back and dismiss a lot of people I run into. So, yeah, in a way, I can relate. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 49175783 United States 10/30/2013 12:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Alien. Quoting: sssss definition: A foreigner, esp. one who is not a naturalized citizen of the country where they are living. You are not like them, i suppose that would make you an alien. ;) I have spent my entire life wondering why i was so different to everyone else. I never understood people motives, selfishness, and pursuits of enjoyment. I tried so hard for many years to do the thing they did, thinking i was the one with the problem. Eventually, when i had tried everything, and failed to fit in with the current paradigm i retreated and spent time by myself. From that point on i discovered who i really am, why i am here, and how to cope from being different. It has nothing to do with your upbringing or desires, but your soul origins/progression. 95% of this population are self absorbed morons participating in events that provide quick/temporary satisfaction. We see the bigger picture and these pursuits bore us. The point of my rambling? you wont be able to fit, unless you fake it. you are not like them, your purpose is different from most. and this you should realize. its not that your a snob, its that you have no common interests. You shouldn't feel down about this, just realize they most are working on beginner lessons where as you are past all that and are working on something with higher order. Your not the only one ;) Great response, sssss! I often think that the others around us whom seem so easily entertained by BS, by behaving stupidly, etc., etc. are simply young souls whom have yet to get a clue about the meaning of our existence on Earth at this time. In fairness to all, perhaps their purpose is simply to experience physical life for the first time, whereas those of us whom are more enlightened are probing for truth and higher knowledge. Bouncing a basketball or listening to (c)rap doesn't amuse us or entertain us. I have always refused to dance, though I can appreciate the art form in classical dances that were based on geometrical steps. The gyrations that people go through now, going back as far as "the twist", just seem so silly and illogical to me that I could never force myself to get on a dance floor only to throw my head, arms and legs around. Searching for truth and gaining knowledge is what motivates me, as I want to understand better who we are, why we are here and what we are supposed to be doing. Young souls want the latest gadget and to know where the next party is. It follows, then, that I am a loner with no friends and can't be bothered by idle chitchat with others. I don't have TV, keep my phone unplugged and don't answer the door for anyone, including neighbors. I'm lucky that any relatives are at least five hours away. I just can't deal any more with this fake World and wish that "something" would transform our lives in a major way. |