The Broken Heart Hurt-Pain in the Chest Area Feeling

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The hurt in the center of your chest is something I am very familiar with.
It hurt so bad that all I could do was just sit there and try to look at where it hurt, if that makes any sense.
It would ease somewhat, eventually, and over the Years, it went away.

I had to finally make a choice, would I continue to feel this way, or would I let it go. I choose to let it go. I could focus on it again and feel that pain all over, but I made a choice not to do that anymore. I grieved, and then moved on.
It takes time give yourself time. it will get better if you choose to get better. Find something you love doing go to craft classes pottery classes woodworking surfing whatever would possibly make you happy do those things. And know that God is real, Jesus really Is real, I promise.

I cannot say I have experience ALL bad in life since birth, but I feel that I have had way more than my fair share. And yes, I completely understand the pain you feel.

I have felt it for years, and it just keeps increasing. It intensified when I lost my son, and now it is a daily thing due to the horror and atrocities that take place on this earth every second of every hour, of every day.

Knowing that jesus is real doesnt help pain from isolation and abuse, because a person still gets destroyed from being isolated (No family, no friends, no Love, no human contact)

also -- you can only "let something go" if its a past event -- You cant "let go" of isolation you currently experience where you have no friends, no family, no love and no human contact no matter what is tried

you cant let go of poverty and illness, and sickness

the "let go" comment only applies to like a past event

And besides, even when one lets go of a past event, the damage from that event and suffering remains

Like to use an analogy, say someone had a head injury in a car accident -- even if that person lets-go of the memory of the accident and does not dwell on it -- that person still has brain damage and headaches and still suffers from the accident

so in short:

1) the letting-go of something does not change the suffering and damage it causes -- the suffering still exists, symptoms still exist

2) letting-go doesnt apply to present day things, like isolation, physical or neural-chemical problems, loneliness, lack of money for all the things you need.

Letting go is a weak Zombie-Aphorism that people are programmed with

the reason why i know #1 above is true -- is because even when i let go of or do not thing of any past events, the effect from those events remain

Thoughts dont affect how one feels.. so regardless of what I happen to be thinking of, i feel the same with the same consciousness state.

So like even if i were to watch a TV show and have no thoughts about anything bad, im still in anguish

Just like different thoughts dont affect the pain of a migraine headache or toothache, to use another analogy.


I dont see why you would say letting-go has an effect on well-being when it doesnt. Maybe its because you have a spouse, friends, family and are not in total isolation and have not experienced all bad in life since birth -- thats probably why,.

Understandable -- thanks for your non-sociopathic reply

theres going to be sociopathic replies and anger in this thread, count on that, you might not want to come back and read replies. Bless you and good luck.

I used to be like that, then I started being a massive fucking asshole and life has gotten brighter every day.

It's simple really...

Fuck the world
Fuck the people in it
Fuck everything


You believe in those three directives, you will be happy as can be.

This doesnt work because like i said -- releasing trauma doesnt bring good in life or have any effect from forced-loneliness and from neural chemical symptoms and physical fibro pain

even if i release trauma I would still experience suffering and hurt from having no family, no friends, no Love, no human contact no matter how many hundreds of people are met over decades. Still would have poverty and other problems

So you see, releasing emotional trauma doesnt lower suffering at all, because there is still no-good in life. besides the releasing effect doesnt fully work and the person still experiences permanent damage -- but thats another point aside from the first point that it doesnt change being alone, poverty, physical pain and other things

Honestly, I wish that things like Releasing Trauma and doing spiritual alchemy reduced pain & suffering

In my experience, it does not work, does not reduce pain & suffering

thanks anyway.

yes I do know that pain. My heart hurt so bad like someone was squeezing it I thought I was having a heart attack. I felt this crushing like I could not breath. I had tests run even but they found everything normal. Broken heart pain is very real.

It takes a long time to heal. My heart is with you.

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OP, that's the first symptom of AIDS

To clarify, are you saing that being evil makes you have good luck where you then start to have friends and a spouse?

or are you saying that being evil makes you care less.

Im not able to be evil , and if i did, that wouldnt cause less effect from isolation.

I cannot change who I am and just be the self

I think you have a girlfriend, or get laid and that you have friends or a family, or you have a child -- i dont believe you experience 100% full isolation where you have no human contact

because if you did, you would say that being an asshole doesnt work to reduce suffering.

This reply doesnt make any sense & is sociopathic

the original post does not elucidate any symptoms of AIDS at all and specifically speaks of the broken-heart feeling in the chest area that is similar to the butterflies in the stomach in the solar-plexus area

Also i clearly explained that the symptoms are a direct result of fraud, abuse and forced-isolation, that those cause that symptom

So your reply makes no sense & You have sociopathy.

I dont understand why people do strange creature-like sociopathic replies such as

"that is AIDS" ::embedded insult picture::

and

"::embedded insult picture:: Youd think you woudl learn from the first time"


Though this thread DOES seem to have slightly less darkness & evil than most threads, only 2 replies so far were sociopathic & evil.

oh uneducated one, let me shed some light:

The Thymus is where the AIDS virus resides and reproduces, therefore that's where your pain is originating from, look:


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Oh yeah, heart ache can manifest into real pain. I personally suffered it before.

Almost feels like a heart attack (for a young person who never had one) and the threads of your psyche feel like they are unraveling and tearing apart.


Breathe deep and meditate to solve the issue. Mental cleaning is advised.

I get what you're saying. Unfortunately, expressing this feeling only invites the wolves to come in and feed. They sense what they perceive to be weakness, and will instinctively pounce. That's what animals do.

Not saying you're weak OP, just making an observation on "human" behavior.

Just ignore him; he likes to yank everyone's chains.

The world looks brighter because your heart is growing darker.

I understand your pain is very very real and I feel for you honestly I do.

What I was trying to say is that the pain for me was unspeakable really, I understand your pain, I lost my daughter to suicide. I grieved for a very long time, about two years but then after that I realized that if I focused on it and thought about her all the time I felt terrible, and the pain in my chest returned. Now I still miss her and I love her and wish the best for her but I've made a choice...I cannot make that part of my life my focus. I have to still be here and live life I have things to do, so I can't be sad all the time I do have a choice, I could be sad or I can move forward and I chose to move forward. But you do have to grieve first, while you're in the grieving stage this won't make sense to you but it will eventually.

I'm sorry you are hurting Op,and yes I have felt what you describe a couple of times.Know that you are loved,you really are,and youare important.

Brief you really don't get it so stop your trolling or shilling. Whatever.

I can tell you the pain is life changing. That is the purpose. The pain is called joy-pain to some. As they say in the music "a person can be addicted to a certain kind of sadness". Some claim it is Divine intervention. But it hurts like hell. You can't out think it. Don't try. Stop wearing your heart on your sleeve and toughen up. You are a select few that understand these words.

Its not about other people and how they act. It is about how you choose to act to their behavior. Change, your mind is your weapon. Good luck.

I lost my son to suicide. And yes, I agree with all you have said. My heart felt like a bowling ball for a good couple of years, until I realized the things you speak of. Now, I compartmentalize my paid. For instance, his anniversary date is coming up ~ during this time, I allow to feel the pain again, to mourn him and miss him.

But I understand what OP is saying........sometimes, the pain in our lives is just something you cannot get away from. It is a part of your life, constantly in your face. For me, now, my heart hurts all the time, not only or just because of the loss of my son, or the myriads of god-awful experiences I have had the pleasure to endure.......but the state of this planet, the hurt, the pain of so many innocents, all due to the power-hungry, blood-thirsty, money hungry greedy oxygen-sucking humanity.

OP, on the other hand, you may be experiencing the dark night of the soul many of us go through.

You can die from a broken heart

[link to www.heart.org]

Broken heart syndrome, also called stress-induced cardiomyopathy or takotsubo cardiomyopathy, can strike even if you’re healthy. (Tako tsubo, by the way, are octopus traps that resemble the pot-like shape of the stricken heart.)

Women are more likely than men to experience the sudden, intense chest pain — the reaction to a surge of stress hormones — that can be caused by an emotionally stressful event. It could be the death of a loved one or even a divorce, breakup or physical separation, betrayal or romantic rejection. It could even happen after a good shock (like winning the lottery.)

Broken heart syndrome may be misdiagnosed as a heart attack because the symptoms and test results are similar. In fact, tests show dramatic changes in rhythm and blood substances that are typical of a heart attack. But unlike a heart attack, there’s no evidence of blocked heart arteries in broken heart syndrome.

Seriously, see your doctor.

Yes...and when you start to become more aware of your feelings it turns into fear/anxiety. I think it is all the same. It is that feeling when you just want to scream "NOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooooooooooooo!" so loudly it echoes through eternity.

Life....you're doing it wrong. You are not the only one who has been hurt repeatedly by others. I've had friends who I thought were real but turned out to be backstabbing, money grabbing jerks. I've had boyfriends, even a fiance, who cheated on me annd tried to take me for what little I had. Its just a part of life. If you were meant to go skipping through the meadow holding hands with every Tom, Dick, and Harriette you came across then there would be no wars, no crimes, no hate. You cannot experience true love until you experience hurt and hate, its a balance.

My suggestion is stop looking for it, dont allow yourself to become jaded but guard your heart (not everyone deserves it). Focus on you and the things you want to do with your life. People will come and go.

I feel this too in the same way
i can't wait for this job of mine to be over so I can take a break, gain some sanity and most importantly do an ENERGETIC CLEANSE

You are literally being HAUNTED by old patterns that manifest in thought and energy...sometimes being "haunted" is the only way for your real self to get through to your meatsack body and tell it to acknowledge reality.

Its especially tough when the reality is unfaithful lover or being played by a pantomiming "lover"....don't have an answer, but i know what works for me...

romantic love is an illusion, created to distract and destroy the human spirit...advertising impossible long term expectations (the feeling of love is fleeting and is purely of this body, it is not a spiritual truth) is a surefire way to devastate the populace and lead them astray.

further, if you can't realize this, as i didn't for a long time, you can't have discipline over your passions (i don't really yet, its the hardest thing in my life)

just because you are feeling hurt doesn't mean its the truth...its just a function of this biological body...

love is just a function of our biological body, its the greatest lie in our popular culture and it has been placed there purposefully

Sorry to hear of the pain you are experiencing my dear friend.
This world constantly gives us heart breaks and those who seek to find that tranquility and that deep longing in others will be heart broken.
Sometimes we get so broken that we just wanna give all up and leave it all like as if life no longer hold any purpose and no value for us.
It hurts like hell, and just eat us up from the inside.
I know because I've been there too even been at the edge of just taking my own life because nothing made any sense anymore.
Just too many games too many empty words, too much noise and people being so busy with just being busy.
But you can do it dear heart.
You can take that brokenness and go deeper, find the true you behind the tears and the pain, behind all the fake promises given to you.
Forget about those, befriend your innermost, there is guidance and there is a love that never lies never fails and never goes away.
Our hearts are broken because we cling to this world and what it hold, when we grow from our wounds we embrace all of us and we start to live a true life, connecting with who we really are and with that One Life that connects us all, beyond all the games and all the stories.
You have in you an amazing miracle of love, you can grow past that hurt and brokenness, love yourself and heal yourself through that.
Not to be the same but to become who you really are.
The Spirit have faith in you and so do I
You are loved and you matter.

Lots of love to you