I have never understood why this should be such a huge problem for Christians. So what if Jesus was married? Does that really distract from his miracles, does it distract from his teachings? I think not.

I actually believe that Jesus must have been married. The reasoning is very clear. His half-brother James was a Jewish Scribe or holyman. In order for him to be of such an order and status, James would have been forced to be married. However, under Jewish law, James could not married untill all older siblings were married. Therefore Jesus had to be married in order for James to be allowed to marry. If this is too much for Christians to accept, then I have no help for them.

I am not anti-christian, not anti-bible. I do consider myself a Christian. As I sit and type this, I have a Bible on my desk, less than two feet from me, that I often read to quiet my worrisome mind.

I see no harm in Jesus being married, in fact, I actually find comfort in it. It shows that Jesus was no only capable of emotional love and guidence, but of phsyical love, quietly upholding the commands of our Father, as Jesus led us to the Kingdom of Heaven.