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Wife sits on her ass all day watching tv while I work 70 hours a week

 
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just confront her lazy worthless ass and tell her straight up, bitch i didn't sign up for this. get off your ass and get a fucking job!
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hesright
And get the cable disconnected PRONTO! What a lazy ass!
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Op's mealbreak is over, he's gone.
Poor guy.

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04/23/2014 06:24 PM
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Op's mealbreak is over, he's gone.
Poor guy.

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Looks like he went back to the loading dock.
chuckle
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04/23/2014 06:25 PM
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Re: Wife sits on her ass all day watching tv while I work 70 hours a week
Just make sure you can flip her over to ass end up when you get home. She can flop that shit back down when you're done.
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Are you saying sex whenever he wants it, is worth all he's giving?

If that's the case, I'm getting the raw end of the deal in my marriage....
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Yes...and I understand completely.
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And I don't even watch TV!!!

FML
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04/23/2014 06:26 PM
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Get a friggin divorce. Better to be happy in a one room apartment than miserable with a bitch in a mansion. Try it. Youíll see what I mean. Being alone? Yes, itís bad but itís not the worst thing by a long shot!
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04/23/2014 06:28 PM
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I don't think anything will do any good. I am in the sameposition I just don't care that much because she really does not make messes and I really do not have anything better for her to do anyway. oh an she does not spend money. I did cancel the cable and she was fine with it because money is a little tight. she just does Netflix and net surfing. oh we have a kid that she watches all day. my wife is admit tingly lazy and I have moved on. She does things sometimes but on her own watch and she wont do a thing if I say anything. unfortunately in your case money has been a curse.

does she spend all your monies? if no then move on. if she does then you got a problem. Put her on a strict allowance. Also cancel all vacations and buy crappy used cars. Notch your lifestyle down slowly. Spam her softly with money is tight etc and start squeezing over the next few years. Do it slowly because if you do it too fast she might freak. As long as shee is not spending all your monies I would move on. If she is you have a major problem. If she is just watching tv all day she is probably not and I would think about how it could be worse; like she is spending all your monies.

rachet down your lifestyle. she will follow and then you have nothing to complain about because you sound like you have everything you need + a lot more.

stop trying to change her she will have to get herself out. Just be glad you have someone to come home to and hang out with. be her friend. stop working 70 hours a week; go down to 40 and spend half what you are spending. you put yourself in the position of needing to work 70 hours a week. der to der. look in the mirror.
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04/23/2014 06:29 PM
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On top I have health issues working to pay for all this shit. It didnt start out that way. She had a job and quit when I got promoted, assuming I would carry the load. I would'nt even mind if she did something productive, or even if we had kids, but rotting in front of the tube all day is disgusting. I didnt sign up for this. Thinking of confronting her - either help or we downsize, major. No pool, no fucking luxury car. I love her but feel like Im being exploited, its bad enough at work but I don't expect it from family.
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You should try taking her out more ya grumpy cunt
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Tell her you are going to reduce your work time to 40 hrs.per week because of health reasons, and likewise downsize. First thing to go will be tv cable/Sat. That should get her off her butt.
When the law no longer protects you from the corrupt, but protects the corrupt from you--You know your nation is doomed.
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If you work 70hrs/wk she is most likely lonely. She trades your time with her, for TV. Very simple.

Work less, and spend more time together. Oh and think about cutting the cable. That shiz is poison.

Good luck.
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No one ever really wants the truth...Just placating.

Do with less $$$. 70hrs/wk is TOO MUCH.
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On top I have health issues working to pay for all this shit. It didnt start out that way. She had a job and quit when I got promoted, assuming I would carry the load. I would'nt even mind if she did something productive, or even if we had kids, but rotting in front of the tube all day is disgusting. I didnt sign up for this. Thinking of confronting her - either help or we downsize, major. No pool, no fucking luxury car. I love her but feel like Im being exploited, its bad enough at work but I don't expect it from family.
 Quoting: Angry Hierophant


When you die, you'll be sorry you didn't work more
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Re: Wife sits on her ass all day watching tv while I work 70 hours a week
I told you the truth amongst a group of people recommending divorce and anal sex, OP.

I believe in the power of Jesus and his ability to break chain caused by all that Thelema junk and I believe in his ability to keep a marriage strong

Good luck!
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I would actually like it if she was into occult. But as soon as she is presented with something she does not understand right away and takes some effort, its baxk to the tube with the ghost hunter idiots chasing each others shadows in abondonded buildings, goddam dr. phil, fucking around on facebook, or playing stupid games.

And I understand Jesus, IAO, INRI, and the Christos more than you think. I see past the dogma and literal interpretations fed to the slaves. Thelema is freedom, not chains. I know you are trying to help so thank you anyway.

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Re: Wife sits on her ass all day watching tv while I work 70 hours a week
So get a divorce.
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Americas answer to everything.
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Get off yer high horse you dingo fucker.
Angry Hierophant  (OP)

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04/23/2014 06:41 PM
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All that free time huh?


Chuckle

She's probably having an affair...
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I don't think so. I work at home, which is probably not the best, to be cooped up together 24x7. Thats how I know what she does all day.
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Get a friggin divorce. Better to be happy in a one room apartment than miserable with a bitch in a mansion. Try it. Youíll see what I mean. Being alone? Yes, itís bad but itís not the worst thing by a long shot!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3063399


clappa
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04/23/2014 06:42 PM
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All that free time huh?


Chuckle

She's probably having an affair...
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I don't think so. I work at home, which is probably not the best, to be cooped up together 24x7. Thats how I know what she does all day.
 Quoting: Angry Hierophant


Well you should have mentioned that from the get go.


Eat more beans, work closer to her couch.
Angry Hierophant  (OP)

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On top I have health issues working to pay for all this shit. It didnt start out that way. She had a job and quit when I got promoted, assuming I would carry the load. I would'nt even mind if she did something productive, or even if we had kids, but rotting in front of the tube all day is disgusting. I didnt sign up for this. Thinking of confronting her - either help or we downsize, major. No pool, no fucking luxury car. I love her but feel like Im being exploited, its bad enough at work but I don't expect it from family.
 Quoting: Angry Hierophant


OP, when you got promoted didn't the two of you decide TOGETHER whether she would continue to work or not? I would say that if you let her make that decision herself while you had to keep working, you share much of the blame in this. IF you are a married couple you should plan, not do everything instinctively.
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I was not all on board with it...but I did not push back enough. So you are right. But here we are. Not about blame but what to do.
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Get a friggin divorce. Better to be happy in a one room apartment than miserable with a bitch in a mansion. Try it. Youíll see what I mean. Being alone? Yes, itís bad but itís not the worst thing by a long shot!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3063399


clappa
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This is a good way to sum it up. As good as it gets anyway. But I don't hate her or anything. I have a hard time feeling exploited, and maybe worse watching her waste her time on pointless shit. The thought of an early grave for all this doesn't help. I was supppsed to be an artist I think, but fell into the trap.

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On top I have health issues working to pay for all this shit. It didnt start out that way. She had a job and quit when I got promoted, assuming I would carry the load. I would'nt even mind if she did something productive, or even if we had kids, but rotting in front of the tube all day is disgusting. I didnt sign up for this. Thinking of confronting her - either help or we downsize, major. No pool, no fucking luxury car. I love her but feel like Im being exploited, its bad enough at work but I don't expect it from family.
 Quoting: Angry Hierophant



Shit can the TV.
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See all that you just wrote?

Now, you need to man up and tell her exactly everything that you just wrote here as if she read it already. Communication is key. If you dont man up, the resentment you feel now will continue to grow into pure hatred. The situation will end badly. Ive been here. Ive done this. And, if you sit her down and have a frank but compassionate discussion with her, she may reveal something to you that you did not expect. She is withholding something. But, she is afraid that you will get upset. The irony in this is, only you can help her with this problem. But, it will take patience, compassion, love, and the ability to see beyond yourself to succeed.

Good Luck
...there is nothing to fear.
JUST DO IT.
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hesright
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Sounds like you married Peg Bundy. Your name must be Al.
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I think you may be right.
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This is what you need to tell her!


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Sounds like you married Peg Bundy. Your name must be Al.
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I think you may be right.
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This is what you need to tell her!


albundy
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lmao
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See all that you just wrote?

Now, you need to man up and tell her exactly everything that you just wrote here as if she read it already. Communication is key. If you dont man up, the resentment you feel now will continue to grow into pure hatred. The situation will end badly. Ive been here. Ive done this. And, if you sit her down and have a frank but compassionate discussion with her, she may reveal something to you that you did not expect. She is withholding something. But, she is afraid that you will get upset. The irony in this is, only you can help her with this problem. But, it will take patience, compassion, love, and the ability to see beyond yourself to succeed.

Good Luck
...there is nothing to fear.
JUST DO IT.
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hesright
 Quoting: Relativity


Good idea. Our communications is not the best. Mostly because I'm a real fucktard at social interactions especially emotional.
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So get a divorce.
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Then won't I lose everything and still have to pay for all her shit?
 Quoting: Angry Hierophant


You sound miserable. What amount of money is worth it to continue suffering? Sometimes you just have to cut your losses. Get a divorce and move on.
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Re: Wife sits on her ass all day watching tv while I work 70 hours a week
See whtcha need do is slide them panties down when she spread out on the couch......
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Re: Wife sits on her ass all day watching tv while I work 70 hours a week
All that free time huh?


Chuckle

She's probably having an affair...
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I don't think so. I work at home, which is probably not the best, to be cooped up together 24x7. Thats how I know what she does all day.
 Quoting: Angry Hierophant


Ohhhhhh well that certainly changes things....

She can't help you with what you do to lighten your load? Make her your personal assistant... You can't give her work to do?

hmm
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Tell her you are going to reduce your work time to 40 hrs.per week because of health reasons, and likewise downsize. First thing to go will be tv cable/Sat. That should get her off her butt.
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Yep try this..Should get a reaction.
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Seriously man. Life gets messy ,clean it up.

Dumbrst thread ever
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Re: Wife sits on her ass all day watching tv while I work 70 hours a week
On top I have health issues working to pay for all this shit. It didnt start out that way. She had a job and quit when I got promoted, assuming I would carry the load. I would'nt even mind if she did something productive, or even if we had kids, but rotting in front of the tube all day is disgusting. I didnt sign up for this. Thinking of confronting her - either help or we downsize, major. No pool, no fucking luxury car. I love her but feel like Im being exploited, its bad enough at work but I don't expect it from family.
 Quoting: Angry Hierophant


I feel for ya..you're in a bad situation. Rock and a hard place. Stay married and you'll continue to resent her sorry ass. Get a divorce and her divorce lawyer (and state) will rake you through the coals and you'll be lucky to have a pot to piss in. Either way, you'll be viewed as the bad guy.

I was almost bamboozled into married by a very manipulative little temptress. Thank god the pussy fog cleared in my head and I got out of it.
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On top I have health issues working to pay for all this shit. It didnt start out that way. She had a job and quit when I got promoted, assuming I would carry the load. I would'nt even mind if she did something productive, or even if we had kids, but rotting in front of the tube all day is disgusting. I didnt sign up for this. Thinking of confronting her - either help or we downsize, major. No pool, no fucking luxury car. I love her but feel like Im being exploited, its bad enough at work but I don't expect it from family.
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DIVORCE
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So get a divorce.
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Then won't I lose everything and still have to pay for all her shit?
 Quoting: Angry Hierophant


Apparently you are in debt for everything. So what will you lose?
Why not have a serious talk with her and tell her the options. You might be doing her a favor. Sitting and watching tv all day is not healthy.





GLP