Wife sits on her ass all day watching tv while I work 70 hours a week

And get the cable disconnected PRONTO! What a lazy ass!

Op's mealbreak is over, he's gone.
Poor guy.

:glp111:

Looks like he went back to the loading dock.

And I don't even watch TV!!!

FML

Get a friggin divorce. Better to be happy in a one room apartment than miserable with a bitch in a mansion. Try it. You’ll see what I mean. Being alone? Yes, it’s bad but it’s not the worst thing by a long shot!

I don't think anything will do any good. I am in the sameposition I just don't care that much because she really does not make messes and I really do not have anything better for her to do anyway. oh an she does not spend money. I did cancel the cable and she was fine with it because money is a little tight. she just does Netflix and net surfing. oh we have a kid that she watches all day. my wife is admit tingly lazy and I have moved on. She does things sometimes but on her own watch and she wont do a thing if I say anything. unfortunately in your case money has been a curse.

does she spend all your monies? if no then move on. if she does then you got a problem. Put her on a strict allowance. Also cancel all vacations and buy crappy used cars. Notch your lifestyle down slowly. Spam her softly with money is tight etc and start squeezing over the next few years. Do it slowly because if you do it too fast she might freak. As long as shee is not spending all your monies I would move on. If she is you have a major problem. If she is just watching tv all day she is probably not and I would think about how it could be worse; like she is spending all your monies.

rachet down your lifestyle. she will follow and then you have nothing to complain about because you sound like you have everything you need + a lot more.

stop trying to change her she will have to get herself out. Just be glad you have someone to come home to and hang out with. be her friend. stop working 70 hours a week; go down to 40 and spend half what you are spending. you put yourself in the position of needing to work 70 hours a week. der to der. look in the mirror.

You should try taking her out more ya grumpy cunt

Tell her you are going to reduce your work time to 40 hrs.per week because of health reasons, and likewise downsize. First thing to go will be tv cable/Sat. That should get her off her butt.

No one ever really wants the truth...Just placating.

Do with less $$$. 70hrs/wk is TOO MUCH.

When you die, you'll be sorry you didn't work more

I would actually like it if she was into occult. But as soon as she is presented with something she does not understand right away and takes some effort, its baxk to the tube with the ghost hunter idiots chasing each others shadows in abondonded buildings, goddam dr. phil, fucking around on facebook, or playing stupid games.

And I understand Jesus, IAO, INRI, and the Christos more than you think. I see past the dogma and literal interpretations fed to the slaves. Thelema is freedom, not chains. I know you are trying to help so thank you anyway.

Last Edited by Paid Sock Puppet on 04/23/2014 06:33 PM

Get off yer high horse you dingo fucker.

I don't think so. I work at home, which is probably not the best, to be cooped up together 24x7. Thats how I know what she does all day.

Well you should have mentioned that from the get go.


Eat more beans, work closer to her couch.

I was not all on board with it...but I did not push back enough. So you are right. But here we are. Not about blame but what to do.

This is a good way to sum it up. As good as it gets anyway. But I don't hate her or anything. I have a hard time feeling exploited, and maybe worse watching her waste her time on pointless shit. The thought of an early grave for all this doesn't help. I was supppsed to be an artist I think, but fell into the trap.

Last Edited by Paid Sock Puppet on 04/23/2014 06:59 PM

Shit can the TV.

This is what you need to tell her!

Good idea. Our communications is not the best. Mostly because I'm a real fucktard at social interactions especially emotional.

You sound miserable. What amount of money is worth it to continue suffering? Sometimes you just have to cut your losses. Get a divorce and move on.

See whtcha need do is slide them panties down when she spread out on the couch......

Ohhhhhh well that certainly changes things....

She can't help you with what you do to lighten your load? Make her your personal assistant... You can't give her work to do?

Yep try this..Should get a reaction.

Seriously man. Life gets messy ,clean it up.

Dumbrst thread ever

I feel for ya..you're in a bad situation. Rock and a hard place. Stay married and you'll continue to resent her sorry ass. Get a divorce and her divorce lawyer (and state) will rake you through the coals and you'll be lucky to have a pot to piss in. Either way, you'll be viewed as the bad guy.

I was almost bamboozled into married by a very manipulative little temptress. Thank god the pussy fog cleared in my head and I got out of it.

DIVORCE

Apparently you are in debt for everything. So what will you lose?
Why not have a serious talk with her and tell her the options. You might be doing her a favor. Sitting and watching tv all day is not healthy.