You are doing it wrong, my wife works 70 hrs a week and travels out if town every other week.
I sit home watch tv, eat, drink and play house hubby.
Women want equality-fine- you can equally take care of me as a house hubby as we have done for hundreds if not thousands of years while women stayed home.
Men use to hunt for food, women like hunting for the money.
I say hunt your all mighty dollar and when the tough times come I will hunt for our survival.
The relationship between you and your wife is more than who works for some corporate greed fuck and who stays home to work making sure the homestead is fine.
Bottom line, going out to work or staying home taking care of things is still work.
From my experience being a stay at home dad for 2 yrs has been more work than I ever put up with in the Corporate world.
Stay at home moms and dads jobs are 24/7, we are the true work force!!
So, give your wife a hug and tell her you appreciate everything she does. Cause I promise you she does a lot more than you know.
If you are just married to a lazy person, move on, but quit your bitching.
Life is tough you can either do it alone or learn patience while getting through it with some one you care about.
Don't make it a"I do more than you" situation. You will always be unhappy and fail. Make it a" we each take care of each other" and yes some work harder than others but if you love your wife tell her your concerns in a meaningfull way and work it out.
Damn it man there's more to life than petty squabbles with the women you married.
Money IS the root of evil.