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Wife threatens to divorce all the time

 
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2014 09:26 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
Go to Afghanistan or northern Iraq and marry a little girl. Take your kid with you maybe
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05/04/2014 09:41 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
I couldn't even finish your post.

First of all you need to be a fucking man for Christ sake. Quit being a god damned pussy.

Tell that fucking bitch if she ever mentions that word again you'll kick her the fuck out. Challenge her to do it and quit running her dumb cunt mouth.

Be willing to die for your principles. That is the definition of a man. If that bitch tries to take you for a ride, burn down everything you guys have. Remember, do not fail. Be willing to die and you will win and in the process you will teach her dumb cunt ass something valuable.
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05/04/2014 09:49 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
Op, man up and point to the door next time she does that.
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05/04/2014 09:52 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
Buy her flowers and be extra friendly when she shits all over you. Just kidding, that's the common advice.
Tell her she's fucking nuts, OFTEN. Remind her that without you she's nothing and she's lucky you deal with her insanity. Never ever ever ver expect her to be nice, not mad, or not fucking nuts, because she's fucking nuts. When you buy her something nice, expect her to hate it and expect her to throw it at you later. When you get her anything, tell her "I don't care if you like it or not, it's what I got and it's what you're getting. If you don't like it, throw it at somebody who pisses you off and don't ask for anything else. You know you're nuts, right?" Keep her at arm's length and never ever ever react when she presses your buttons.

Or---and this is the best advice you'll ever get if you can do it: RUN, RUN, RUN!!! It never gets better.
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05/04/2014 09:59 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
I couldn't even finish your post.

First of all you need to be a fucking man for Christ sake. Quit being a god damned pussy.

Tell that fucking bitch if she ever mentions that word again you'll kick her the fuck out. Challenge her to do it and quit running her dumb cunt mouth.

Be willing to die for your principles. That is the definition of a man. If that bitch tries to take you for a ride, burn down everything you guys have. Remember, do not fail. Be willing to die and you will win and in the process you will teach her dumb cunt ass something valuable.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 57691702


Ahhhh....

Such a charmer!

Something tells me that you are clearly single!

Be willing to die for your principles, if she tries to take you for a ride, burn everything...If she mentions the word divorce, kick her the f!ck out? Hahahahaha...

Ladies and Gents, meet GLP's very own marriage Councillor, who obviously knows f!ck all about how to deal with Marital Issues!
Azadok61

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05/04/2014 10:11 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
You don't specify if your wife's behavior began before or after the birth of your daughter , if after she could be in post pardon depression .

No one should have to live under the thumb of a tyrant , I would document all her behavior as best as possible in case it comes down to divorce and if it does , she sounds like the type that will abuse the child psychologically as a tool to hurt you oven the fact she was abused in this manner .

Get your ducks in a row , walk away from arguements saying you need a time out , stay with your baby as long as possible and develope your bond with her as much as possible being the total care giver when home .

If you do get divorced fight for custody and if she gets a restraining order do not have any contact and document your whereabouts at all times with witnesses . Good luck woman are viscous .
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2014 10:26 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
yup. Abandonment issues…

try praying to God in the name of Jesus of Nazareth for her demons of abandonment to be bound, removed and sent to the bottomless pit…

you will notice an improvement, but the issue will not truly go away until she fasts and prays for the same…

psychological damage allows demonic encroachment…

she cannot help it… but tell her what I have said and see if she is not aware of something demonic going on in her head…

she might laugh you off or react with anger (demons will defend their position) but don't think of it as her true self…

she is oppressed…

read the New Testament: Jesus and the Disciples deal with all manner of illness by casting out demons…

some don't go away without fasting and prayer…

BUT you do have authority over them and they will leave when you command them by the authority of Jesus's blood on the cross…
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2014 10:29 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
Oo, shotgun wedding problems.

:poppycorn:

How big is the trailer you live in?
 Quoting: Bored of My Name


Probably bigger than the avg. London flat...but with a yard and a driveway.
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2014 10:31 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
and ask God for help: you will feel drained by her behavior… you will need help with energy, patience, being positive: ask in Jesus's name…

if you have no faith, ask for that and/or try fasting and prayer…

demons drain energy…

you are children of the one true God and her behavior is not her own… it is a consequence of our fallen imperfect condition… and the systems that arise out of it...
Anonymous Coward
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05/04/2014 10:32 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
if you can get to a better place with her (I had similar issues when I got married too soon) it will be so worth it.

married men live longer and survive illness better….

one reason the demons push for break-up…

it is not in either of your interests...
Mickeyblue
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05/04/2014 10:34 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
I got married to my wife out of love and nothing more. My wife grew up without a mother who passed on and a father who was never there even before she was born. All this did not matter to me for life is full of problems and some problems we might face will not be as a result of our own making, all that mattered to me was my love for her. she told me about her upbringing which was characterized by abuse form her Auntie’s, i.e., her mother’s sisters and was moved from house to house getting unfair treatment comparing to their own children, it’s sad but I was bold to say I will be your man in all situations to give her a shoulder, an ear and my heart. When I look back I try to deny that we only dated for about six months, something in my logical thinking would deem not proper and not enough time to get married but I did it anyway- it was all in the name of love. When time for us to get married got closer I helped her to find her father of which we did and we got married.
During the course of our marriage given that we face a slight problem she threatens to leave or should I say divorce. Almost every time when we could not agree to something she could go on telling me that she made a mistake in getting married and if she could have known that marriage has its problems she could not have got married to me citing that her getting married was a way to get away from her problems and that they have even multiplied, that kind of language. More than five times she packed her bags to leave and out of love I could follow her and ask her to come back home. When all this happened I told her Untie and she could call her talk some sense into her. It kept on happening and I realized that if she really wants to go chasing after she won’t really change her mind and now her case is that I don’t love her as I used to before. At one point in time I thought it was for the best that I grant her wish but my major worry is that we have a baby girl together whom I love so much and she is only one year six months, my concern is that my daughter will grow up without having a father figure in her life and won’t get the kind of life she will have when I am around.
All the time when we have a misunderstanding she threatens l to leave and divorce, I am on the verge to give in. I am not assured of what tomorrow holds, I feel it is better if we are not going to make it then we should as well call it off when we still have time to find ourselves sooner rather than later.
 Quoting: Jaydene 57649577


Take away her hammer, her threats. She will not know how to deal with that. Not as a punishment but as an initial step towards a more adult relationship.
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05/04/2014 10:45 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
Here is my internet theory.

If she moved and had everything unheaved as a child, that's what she is use to. She is in a pattern. I don't think it is about you and her as much as it's her response to a life long pattern.

I'd see if I could find a Jungian therapist and get her going there.

Seems to me to be a result that affects you, but perhaps not related to you.

Kinda like Jenny and Forest.
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
Oo, shotgun wedding problems.

:poppycorn:

How big is the trailer you live in?
 Quoting: Bored of My Name


Probably bigger than the avg. London flat...but with a yard and a driveway.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 56426562


Who the hell lives in flats? That's not a very helpful reference.
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05/04/2014 10:49 AM
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Re: Wife threatens to divorce all the time
My ex-husband used to pull this shit.
I had to file for divorce on the grounds of emotional abuse and alienation of affection. His constant treats of divorce were seen as the emotional abuse it really is.
Got alimony and it was more than what I would have considered fair. I will let him off the hook someday, if he admits he was wrong and says sorry. Otherwise I will just keep on cashing them alimony checks and tell his children he is a dirt bag.

Constant threats of divorce are an actionable offence.





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