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how to live with Passive agressive spouse

 
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how to live with Passive agressive spouse
any tips on living with someone like that?
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06/11/2014 12:47 PM
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should have thought about that before you married them asshole
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Maybe they changed after the marriage - it happens.
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
I wanna know too lol. I try to just be patient and know that its a mood and will pass. just dont do anything to aggravate the situation.
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
there is not "how to live with psychopaths"

whatever you do she will be able to craft the situation to create the drama.

they have the endurance that only a psycho can have.

you can outsmart her one time. But on daily basis you wont be able to keep control of the situation

you will probably end beating her after been drove crazy or simply get a divorce.

Do yourself a favor divorce now.
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06/11/2014 12:51 PM
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
The question is he/she correct?

Is the reason they are passive aggressive because they disagree with you and any resistance to YOUR wishes is being passive aggressive?????





Is he/she kind of like the above????
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
person does minimal work, always finds reason why he fails, many bankrupties, blames the wife for everything, not taking care of children's needs, tells wife to get full time job....
sulks when confronted and turns table on the wife everytime she brings up what he needs to do, like a broken record, there is no intimacy, a lot of withdrawal...
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
should have thought about that before you married them asshole
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Maybe they changed after the marriage - it happens.
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no

they pretend very hard. They usually have a plan in how manipulate you to obtain what they want so they keep from showing the dark side.

but you can spot them

they generally presenting theirself and anything TOO GOOD...exagerating. Notice the sign of nervousnes. The tension behind the smile. Their reading the situation completely detached by reality.
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06/11/2014 01:27 PM
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
I live w one too.. Does he drink?
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
person does minimal work, always finds reason why he fails, many bankrupties, blames the wife for everything, not taking care of children's needs, tells wife to get full time job....
sulks when confronted and turns table on the wife everytime she brings up what he needs to do, like a broken record, there is no intimacy, a lot of withdrawal...
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sounds like it is time to move on
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06/11/2014 01:41 PM
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
person does minimal work, always finds reason why he fails, many bankrupties, blames the wife for everything, not taking care of children's needs, tells wife to get full time job....
sulks when confronted and turns table on the wife everytime she brings up what he needs to do, like a broken record, there is no intimacy, a lot of withdrawal...
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He sounds worthless.

Divorce. Immediately. Don't worry about "being alone" because this is one of those "addition by subtraction" things. Trust me on this. Been there, done that.
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
person does minimal work, always finds reason why he fails, many bankrupties, blames the wife for everything, not taking care of children's needs, tells wife to get full time job....
sulks when confronted and turns table on the wife everytime she brings up what he needs to do, like a broken record, there is no intimacy, a lot of withdrawal...
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Get a fulltime job you lazy @#$%!
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Dead serious. Do the minimum he asks and he may start to give a shit again
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
person does minimal work, always finds reason why he fails, many bankrupties, blames the wife for everything, not taking care of children's needs, tells wife to get full time job....
sulks when confronted and turns table on the wife everytime she brings up what he needs to do, like a broken record, there is no intimacy, a lot of withdrawal...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55781082


Get a fulltime job you lazy @#$%!
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Dead serious. Do the minimum he asks and he may start to give a shit again
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he has barely worked most of the time, wife works more efficiently and takes care of children finanncially and some other needs
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
How about this one.

I have a passive aggressive husband and I have learned to be passive aggressive.

So, now you have two passive aggressive people.

Well, I might be aggressive aggressive sometimes. I do go after him to kick him in the nutz when he is doing that, I said this and you said that so that means that I win bullcrap.

He usually end up knocking me down and hurting me though.

But then I quit helping him with stuff.

Of course, he already quit helping me with stuff.

So I just quit helping him more.
Christard and Lover of God
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
Oops. Sorry. DP.

Last Edited by BunBun on 06/11/2014 04:46 PM
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
How about this one.

I have a passive aggressive husband and I have learned to be passive aggressive.

So, now you have two passive aggressive people.

Well, I might be aggressive aggressive sometimes. I do go after him to kick him in the nutz when he is doing that, I said this and you said that so that means that I win bullcrap.

He usually end up knocking me down and hurting me though.

But then I quit helping him with stuff.

Of course, he already quit helping me with stuff.

So I just quit helping him more.
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I have lived without molding for 6 years, people. and now there's a hole in the roof that he's ignoring and there's nothing I can do about it. Plus, the car that is dead is sitting at our business and he refuses to do anything about that either cause he doesn't want to deal with it.

Omgosh, Inner Peace, people. I need some.

He also doesn't pay sales tax. That reminds me, we owe the arrears for May. I guess I'm going to have to talk to him again.

Here we go!
Christard and Lover of God
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
person has defensive phrases about everything...
always turns table on wife, always makes himself sound like he is a martyr
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06/12/2014 04:06 PM

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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
any tips on living with someone like that?
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Dump them before they dump you.

They will, of course - and say it was your all fault.

ONLY other way is use the SAME techniques - study up at home and at work until you know how it works.

Always agree - then do the opposite.

Last Edited by Theobromine on 06/12/2014 04:09 PM
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
Did you leave your first husband for him?
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06/12/2014 04:20 PM
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
Is that you JAY!

Its YOU that behaves that way.

Go look in the Mirror!
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
any tips on living with someone like that?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55781082


Leave. Life is better alone than with that.

Reading the posts, sounds like it might be more like active aggression than passive.

staying is not safe.
we only have each other. And that makes us rich.. . .

Wisdom in the man, patience in the wife, brings peace to the house and a happy life.
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Re: how to live with Passive agressive spouse
ugh ok passive aggressive person.. how everfucking annoying??!?!?!?!?!
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