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In had a girlfriend for several years, she was truly special woman in my life but now things are kinda freaking me out.

Brief synopsis of my past: My wife and I were separated for several years, after living on my own with me having custody of our 3 children, we lived apart for 4 years while me and my wife lived separate while she felt she had to "do her own thjng" during the second year of separation I met a up with a woman who we had know each other for many years before me and wife met and by all means we became engaged in a relationship despite me not divorcing my wife.

In the fourth year of separation from my wife I finally said in effect, shit of get off the pot and I filed for divorce. As I felt I had to settle my past and move on. Needless to say my wife wanted nothing to do with such and in effect we reconciled with her (my wife) moving back in and I broke off all relationship to the girlfriend,

That's been three years now and the ex girlfriend hasn't in my opinion, given up on the idea she still wants me as her man. She still contacts me, I in what I considered she being a friend, for awhile she keeps trying to be in my life much to the displeasure of my wife but now she keeps away physically.

Now sit gets more strange as she found a man and married him, OK she sends me a wedding invitation which I politely declined. Now after stumbling across her face book I see pictures of me and her posted, along with her new husband and now it gets even more weird as her husband could be my clone! Other than by name, he looks the same, works in the same profession, drives the same type of vehicle and any novel similarities. In seeing her Facebook pic, her friends are commenting on pictures of her and me when we took some trips and commenting in how her and James look so good together and questioning how they found time to go for the Bahamas and such and as weird as it is these are pics of me and her, she's not correcting anyone and making people assume that those are her and her new husband.

We do keep in touch occasionally, she tells me about her kids and about just becoming a grandmother and I keep things some what non personal relating to events happening to me and my family (which by the way my knife and I while we aren't is truly loving relationship we are good and including we are together due to our children is some aspect.

Now I find my sister has been friends with her for a couple years, which I only found my visiting my sister FB page and seeing the ex post a message on her wall and on her list of friends. We I questioned such, my sister told me she could have any friends she wanted and it was one of her business.

My wife doesn't know much about this, personally I think she is scared to hell of her, myself I kinda freaked out esp with as her husband looks like my twin and that she has combined parts of our time together with those of more current time with her husband to mad us appear as one person.

I don't know, it's this a form of stalking? Is it some type of compulsive obsession?

What does, one do with crazy ex girl friends?

Now get this to further fan of oddball, when I date this girlfriend, my parent met her, loved her and thought I was doing the best thing in the world in dumping my wife and getting with her (insight too, my parents are very conservative, Fox new watchers only and upright church goers)! I find that my parent were invited to my ex' wedding and accepted!

Out of the darkness of my mind it would appear she's planning on killing he husband, kidnapping me and disappearing with me with her husband name.... She is really firecracker, but has that craziness were you could neve predict what she was going to do next.

Should I be concerned?

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Marred, - for sure ...
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Your the one crazy.
Still talking to x when your married and she is.
Your wife should dumb your ass so fast.
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Your the one crazy.
Still talking to x when your married and she is.
Your wife should dumb your ass so fast.
 Quoting: Force King
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Your the one crazy.
Still talking to x when your married and she is.
Your wife should dumb your ass so fast.
 Quoting: Force King

I hide nothing from my wife, on the occasions she emails, I tell my wife and tell her exactly what I reply with.

Are you saying I should just cut off all contact that she has and not reply and ignore her?
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As far as talking, it's one or two out the blue once perhaps every 4-6 months?

Wife is amused about it in some aspect, she wasn't happy about my sister being friends with her on Fb and the only thing my wife doesn't know is my parents went the the x's wedding.

Further background, my parents side of the family hate my wife. Literally hate her. I separated from er after finding she was cheating on me of numerous years on and off while I worked over seas and misused money from my company for things she should have. The issues of my family and my wife are a story in its self.

Due to financial reasons, it was recommended to me from my attorney to dump my assets prior to divorce as she was going to receive more than her fair share. I inheirited a comfortable money from the passing of grandparents which are invested in my company. Because my wife worked 50/50 in starting our company, she gets half.

My situation and marriage to my wife is not simple but it's the crazy X I'm considered with as I would be dumb to think she has her eye on my non personal assets too.

I'm not a good looking guy, I know it not my looks and abilities under the covers.
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Your the one crazy.
Still talking to x when your married and she is.
Your wife should dumb your ass so fast.
 Quoting: Force King

I hide nothing from my wife, on the occasions she emails, I tell my wife and tell her exactly what I reply with.

Are you saying I should just cut off all contact that she has and not reply and ignore her?
 Quoting: HumbleDog


Send her email to the spam folder and don't reply at all.

Quit dicking around and cut off all contact.
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COOL STORY BRO....................
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Let her know you have the super gonorrhea , she should dip.
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"Should I be concerned..."

Yes, you're on fucking Facebook. Get over yourself. No one really cares about your life. It's not even a good story... Like you;re 24 or something!
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DEAR DIARY......
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There is only one advice to be given here: Get your shit together. You are stalking her on FB and project yourself into her life.
Killing the husband, kidnapping you and disappearing with you with her husband name? You got issues mate.
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Someone that had a super-crush on me in high school went on to marry my clone. We still speak. I found the clone aspect slightly disturbing, but I got over it. Nothing really weird there in the long run.

An ex-best friend and an ex (again, from high school) went on to name their first child after me - now THAT was fucking bizarre. I just don't speak to them. I wasn't speaking to them anyway, so no big. I'm sure the kid is doing alright with my name.

My weird pervy step dad started joining my online meetup groups - and they're local to me and specific to my interests - not his location or his interests. I asked the group leaders to block him and now I simply show up at meetups without announcing it on the frigging internet. Problem solved. If he shows up at one, I'll probably call the police.

Quit obsessing over facebook and be happy your ex has a life.
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Break off all contact with her. If your sister and parents want to keep in touch with her, that is their business.

You, however, should never ever respond to any messages from her or even about her.

You and your wife...and even your kids should probably just get off facebook completely. Do a complete erase of all of you because if she can't stalk you, she will start stalking them.

Sooner or later with absolutely no response, she will give it up. Of course not before she asks your sister to find out why you are not answering her messages.

You just need to tell your sister "Because I don't want to" and leave it at that. Repeat it over and over as your only response to the inquiries. Do not get into any discussion as why - just leave it at I don't want to.

Let the woman's new husband deal with her craziness.
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Your the one crazy.
Still talking to x when your married and she is.
Your wife should dumb your ass so fast.
 Quoting: Force King


exactly, fing old ppl...
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Your basically saying that you are still interested in her big time, you call her crazy as a defence mechanism and a screen for this post to hide how you truely feel.

I would never have taken the wife back after what she did!!

your welcome :-)
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Jesus Christ--since when did this place become the forum for everyone to vent their white trash drama?
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Someone is obsessed but it's not her. She has clearly moved on and doesn't feel the need the edit her past. Unless she is directly contacting you and telling you she still in love with you. Nothing seems out of the ordinary to me.

Are you still in love with her? Or do you have regrets about choice you made when you reconciled with her.

Let me put your mind to rest. You made the right choice. Your wife and you sound perfect for one another :)


I smell regret in this thread

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Jesus Christ--since when did this place become the forum for everyone to vent their white trash drama?
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oh come on! that was a great read.
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"stumbled across her f/b"

whatever. you're a stalker.

my advice is get over yourself and your ex. cut off contact with the ex and be your wife's husband.
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As far as Facebook goes, I have an account but don't use it short of checking out links others post that require an account and at work I was required to establish an account to test a few Facebook pages that my employer was establishing when they decided the needed a social media presence.

It was others that brought it to attention as couple "real friends" of mine asked me why I was fooling around with the ex after seeing pictures of me on her Facebook thing. Now my wife is totally different as she's on Facebook all the time and actually she was the one that told me the ex got married as she was the one that first said, "and he looks like you", the entire relationship between my wife and the ex makes me very uncomfortable as I suspect they communicate with each other more than I do.

Oh well, I'm not that worryed about it, usually I care less about the crap found on Facebook but only in this situation it involved me. I suspect she's (the ex girfriend) is just trying to piss off my wife since she obviously knows my wife is active on Facebook.

Yea, Facebook is bad so much fictious drama with no constructive purpose.
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I thought you said the ex invited you to the wedding... Now you say your wife told you about the wedding.

I smell "fictitious drama"
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As far as Facebook goes, I have an account but don't use it short of checking out links others post that require an account and at work I was required to establish an account to test a few Facebook pages that my employer was establishing when they decided the needed a social media presence.

It was others that brought it to attention as couple "real friends" of mine asked me why I was fooling around with the ex after seeing pictures of me on her Facebook thing. Now my wife is totally different as she's on Facebook all the time and actually she was the one that told me the ex got married as she was the one that first said, "and he looks like you", the entire relationship between my wife and the ex makes me very uncomfortable as I suspect they communicate with each other more than I do.

Oh well, I'm not that worryed about it, usually I care less about the crap found on Facebook but only in this situation it involved me. I suspect she's (the ex girfriend) is just trying to piss off my wife since she obviously knows my wife is active on Facebook.

Yea, Facebook is bad so much fictious drama with no constructive purpose.
 Quoting: HumbleDog


Last Edited by NewsBee on 08/29/2014 01:46 PM
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"Should I be concerned..."

Yes, you're on fucking Facebook. Get over yourself. No one really cares about your life. It's not even a good story... Like you;re 24 or something!
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epiclol
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didn't read a word of any of that



just fucking bang her already
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I thought you said the ex invited you to the wedding... Now you say your wife told you about the wedding.

I smell "fictitious drama"
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As far as Facebook goes, I have an account but don't use it short of checking out links others post that require an account and at work I was required to establish an account to test a few Facebook pages that my employer was establishing when they decided the needed a social media presence.

It was others that brought it to attention as couple "real friends" of mine asked me why I was fooling around with the ex after seeing pictures of me on her Facebook thing. Now my wife is totally different as she's on Facebook all the time and actually she was the one that told me the ex got married as she was the one that first said, "and he looks like you", the entire relationship between my wife and the ex makes me very uncomfortable as I suspect they communicate with each other more than I do.

Oh well, I'm not that worryed about it, usually I care less about the crap found on Facebook but only in this situation it involved me. I suspect she's (the ex girfriend) is just trying to piss off my wife since she obviously knows my wife is active on Facebook.

Yea, Facebook is bad so much fictious drama with no constructive purpose.
 Quoting: HumbleDog

 Quoting: NewsBee

Thats what's screwed up, she (the ex) invited me (actually "us" meaning my wife and I) by her sending my wife a Facebook message, it's my ex and my wife that are on Facebook posting back and forth with me only hearing about stuff after it happens. The ex and I have exchange emails on very rare occasions but hardly never anything approaching personal information much less her being getting married or the wedding wasn't ever a subject. As the ex getting married which I could care less, My wife didn't say anything to me about it until after it was all over including telling me that we had been invited then how the guy she married looked like me. That peaked my curiosity so I checked it out finding pics do him and me which combined with everything else, was just freaking weird.


It's almost such you sometimes hear of family's of ex wives and husband's that have children shared between them that maintain civil relationships between them such as when there are birthdays and such, but that is not my situation as my ex never had any children with me but despite having no connections, my wife and ex keep acting as if we are all some type of happy family. Then to compound it, my side the family parent embrace the whole twisted concept and I have no idea what they think or have done. I do wonder if my ex' husband knows anything about it, I guess I could ask him what he thinks of it all but I'm really don't want to involve myself any more than what others have brought into all this, seems that would just be making things worse.

Yea, it's a drama, I'm just not sure if all the parties involved are doing such to just mess with my head. More than anything I feel more of spectator than being involved with any of this.
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COOL STORY BRO....................
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People tend to like a "type" - like tall, dark, and handsome or blonde, short, and too fat to be of interest for anyone else. Chances are that you and her husband both fit into the type she is/was interested in.
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There's no issue. You stayed with your 'ex' for the kids, and your girlfriend was free to put her heart into things. The photos are interesting, that's all, and normal to post!

I would be proud to say I have her as a friend.

And you should have gone to the wedding.
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The reason people get married is so they can escape all the nut cases in the world.

Then there's you.

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Break off all contact with her. If your sister and parents want to keep in touch with her, that is their business.

You, however, should never ever respond to any messages from her or even about her.

You and your wife...and even your kids should probably just get off facebook completely. Do a complete erase of all of you because if she can't stalk you, she will start stalking them.

Sooner or later with absolutely no response, she will give it up. Of course not before she asks your sister to find out why you are not answering her messages.

You just need to tell your sister "Because I don't want to" and leave it at that. Repeat it over and over as your only response to the inquiries. Do not get into any discussion as why - just leave it at I don't want to.

Let the woman's new husband deal with her craziness.
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hesright

Scary stuff, cut ties immediately before we hear about your story on a lifetime movie.





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