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Anonymous Coward User ID: 119348 ![]() 07/19/2006 11:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why do people sit and brag about how much they have? Quoting: JCDoes it make them feel more important? Don`t they realize how silly they sound? ![]() People brag about what they have because they are miserable inside...all the "stuff" they have aquired are things to make them feel better....to temporarily take away the emptiness they feel inside for whatever reason....they are truly shallow individuals.....they can'ta take these material things with them when they die......I truly feel sas for people like this.....they just haven't "gotten it" yet..... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74140 ![]() 07/19/2006 11:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know. It seems shallow and self absorbed. If people do that around me I just make sure to stay away from them after that. Some people you can't stay away from, family, I just get very quiet and refuse to play the game. Having beaten in to me, if you can't say anything nice.... And sometimes I am downright insulting if the people doing it are obnoxious enough. I sympathize... You know you are a better person for not having the new cell phone with a molecular transporter and optional switchblade accessory.... ![]() |
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Sireen User ID: 116962 ![]() 07/19/2006 11:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or maybe they are just proud of their accomplishments! You have a child who's beautiful, a newborn, you go around braggin and showing pics and all that...not because you're trying to make someone else feel less (because they don't have kids) but because you are proud of what you created, what you accomplished. That's how I look at it. Don't argue with idiots, you'll never win! |
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JC (OP) User ID: 106347 ![]() 07/19/2006 11:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or maybe they are just proud of their accomplishments! Quoting: SireenYou have a child who's beautiful, a newborn, you go around braggin and showing pics and all that...not because you're trying to make someone else feel less (because they don't have kids) but because you are proud of what you created, what you accomplished. That's how I look at it. To me that is good bragging,I brag on my kids all the time and I am very proud of them. The people that act like they`re more and look down on other people. |
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Sireen User ID: 116962 ![]() 07/19/2006 11:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Someone can only make you feel inadequent or "less" if you allow them too. If someone is being maliciously cruel in their intentions to compare what they have with what you don't, then they aren't worth getting upset over to begin with, because they are most definately trying to fill a hole in themselves. Don't argue with idiots, you'll never win! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 119347 ![]() 07/19/2006 11:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My point is, they are the smae types of people that IMO, are insecure. They want to keep up with the Jones', and brag because they want to be loved. Some are just arrogant snotty assholes. There's nothing wrong with tooting your own horn, but some people do it to basically put you down. If the OP is experiencing this with a sibling, it's to punish. If it's just that the person is so raised in status that their everyday life is so removed from yours, don't relate to them anymore, say, "That's nice, I have to go." And go. They'll get the hint. Sometimes it is just time to move on. |
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Rhys User ID: 111340 ![]() 07/19/2006 12:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi JC ![]() listen with your heart feel through your eyes and speak with your spirit |
JC (OP) User ID: 106347 ![]() 07/19/2006 12:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My point is, they are the smae types of people that IMO, are insecure. They want to keep up with the Jones', and brag because they want to be loved. Some are just arrogant snotty assholes. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 119347There's nothing wrong with tooting your own horn, but some people do it to basically put you down. If the OP is experiencing this with a sibling, it's to punish. If it's just that the person is so raised in status that their everyday life is so removed from yours, don't relate to them anymore, say, "That's nice, I have to go." And go. They'll get the hint. Sometimes it is just time to move on. "Some are just arrogant snotty assholes." Yes that she is ![]() |
me too User ID: 119360 ![]() 07/19/2006 12:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | men can lose their "soul" for all of their acquiring of possessions: Jesus said,,,, Matthew 16:26 -For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? the apostle Paul says that "covetousness" is "idolotry"... people worship "things", and have nothing for God or other people..... sad, but true..... me too ![]() |
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Naturyl User ID: 118783 ![]() 07/19/2006 12:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The same process is seen at work in suburban neighborhoods all the time, in the "keeping up with the Joneses" syndrome. If we have less, we are worth less. This egoistical delusion is kept well-fed by a constant stream of social and media reinforcement. "Hey, that guy is worth 2 million dollars," and so on. Those who measure their worth in dollars or material items are quite correct - by their own choice, that's all they are worth. They should be priceless human beings, but they sell themselves short. Everybody gets the Nat they deserve. |
BigFatDoobie User ID: 119265 ![]() 07/19/2006 12:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why do people sit and brag about how much they have? Quoting: JCThey have succumbed to a ‘fascist spirituality’ sold to them through state sponsored TV. Does it make them feel more important? Quoting: JCYup Don`t they realize how silly they sound? Quoting: JCThis is the downside, "no". |
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Naturyl User ID: 118783 ![]() 07/19/2006 12:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can't stand how people say "honestly" before every statement they make. Its like it actually helps them to believe the lies. The more a person says honestly, the more they lie. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 96634If you don't like getting ripped off, fear the fish. Everybody gets the Nat they deserve. |
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