I was contemplating the whole "satisfy ur partner by talking dirty in bed," thing.

It seems many articles tell the at home couple how to satisfy their partner. One that really took-off in the early to mid 90's was the "how to talk dirty in bed" ideal. Then phrases in movies and t.v. became common usage. For example, "who's your daddy!" and "your a dirty little whore."

The last one seems way over the top, but that is not the point. I wonder if many relationships, married or not, are based on substance abuse and raging alcohol. Kind of a dependent co-dependent love affair. Not to get all AA on anyone; But, consider if a relationship epicenters around the "Happy-Hour crowd" then expands to "league nights" how happy can it remain? That's a little more than just cocktails for two, if you catch my drift.

But seriously, if a relationship starts at constant raging parties how does it likely, not in every case, mature? I mean is it not destine to end in group-sex and wife-swapping to keep-it going? Does it start with dirty name calling while making its way to the gangbang? Moreover, when the name calling during sex starts is it not because one really thinks the other is nothing but a dirty little whore? Or, at least wants to instill that ideal? Is it for a furtherance to orchestrate a wife-swapping, swinging, orgy ideal in the partner of the other?