Women Promiscuous Due to Childhood Sexual Abuse | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4982875 United Kingdom 01/15/2015 11:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
jennyfrog2000 (OP) User ID: 1852517 United States 01/15/2015 11:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it is. And a legitimate one. See, when you're used like a tissue by men as a young child you tend to grow up believing that's what you're good for :) So yes, there was a time in my life that spanned a good year and a half where I made some shitty sexual decisions. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 67041921 United Kingdom 01/15/2015 11:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it is. And a legitimate one. See, when you're used like a tissue by men as a young child you tend to grow up believing that's what you're good for :) So yes, there was a time in my life that spanned a good year and a half where I made some shitty sexual decisions. so you know what you do is wrong but because you have a reason its ok? is that the logic at play here? |
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BRIC User ID: 63352298 United States 01/15/2015 11:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it is. And a legitimate one. See, when you're used like a tissue by men as a young child you tend to grow up believing that's what you're good for :) So yes, there was a time in my life that spanned a good year and a half where I made some shitty sexual decisions. But They all helped you become the woman you are today! |
Tessa3 User ID: 64646005 United States 01/15/2015 11:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it is. And a legitimate one. See, when you're used like a tissue by men as a young child you tend to grow up believing that's what you're good for :) So yes, there was a time in my life that spanned a good year and a half where I made some shitty sexual decisions. Went through that too, OP. I hope you've found healing. "Whether this song is about sex, drugs, or Ramen Noodles, it's moving. And you can bet your ass that you can fuck to it." |
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jennyfrog2000 (OP) User ID: 1852517 United States 01/15/2015 11:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it is. And a legitimate one. See, when you're used like a tissue by men as a young child you tend to grow up believing that's what you're good for :) So yes, there was a time in my life that spanned a good year and a half where I made some shitty sexual decisions. so you know what you do is wrong but because you have a reason its ok? is that the logic at play here? Well, see, it's called learning shit. I'm sure you came out of the womb knowing everything, which is why you troll the way that you do, Perfection. I was fucked with, so it took some time to heal and learn lessons. Why we're not hating on the assholes who did what they did to a baby I'm not sure but you gotta be a huge dickhead to make fun of a little girl for not knowing her way around in life as far as men are concerned when they taught her that all men are users. So thanks for your judgment. That's phenomenal. I said the time frame spanned a year and a half. That was nearly 15 years ago. Before that I was completely terrified of men. Alcohol played a LARGE part in that part of my life. But oddly enough, victims of sexual abuse usually take to liquor to a fish to water. Sue me. People change. I'm just saying. Quit bitching about not being able to find good women when they're all being fucked with as kids. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 67045237 United States 01/15/2015 11:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And yes OP, I think sexual abuse is a big reason for promiscuity. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 66652678 Men reap what they sow. lol you whores are funny? Not everyone is sexually abused becomes promiscuous. In fact, I have learned it is the opposite. They have problems with sex and relationships for the rest of their life. So I think you whores are just full of shit looking for excuses for your slutty behavior. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 66752683 United States 01/15/2015 11:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I experienced this also. Yes, this is completely accurate, as far as a psychological analysis of how these behaviors begin. It does not mean that any of this is good or ok at all guys. It's just information about how it happens. It's a shit deal all around. I have found healing, and am no longer promiscuous. I did experience a phase like that, and this is definitely the reason. I have since become a loving and completely loyal wife of 8 years. Have some compassion. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 67045237 United States 01/15/2015 11:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And yes OP, I think sexual abuse is a big reason for promiscuity. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 66652678 Men reap what they sow. lol you whores are funny? Not everyone who is sexually abused becomes promiscuous. In fact, I have learned it is the opposite. They have problems with sex and relationships for the rest of their life. So I think you whores are just full of shit looking for excuses for your slutty behavior. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 66652678 United States 01/15/2015 11:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And yes OP, I think sexual abuse is a big reason for promiscuity. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 66652678 Men reap what they sow. lol you whores are funny? Not everyone is sexually abused becomes promiscuous. In fact, I have learned it is the opposite. They have problems with sex and relationships for the rest of their life. So I think you whores are just full of shit looking for excuses for your slutty behavior. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 67045237 United States 01/15/2015 11:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And yes OP, I think sexual abuse is a big reason for promiscuity. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 66652678 Men reap what they sow. lol you whores are funny? Not everyone is sexually abused becomes promiscuous. In fact, I have learned it is the opposite. They have problems with sex and relationships for the rest of their life. So I think you whores are just full of shit looking for excuses for your slutty behavior. lol the truth hurt? Pitiful. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 815606 Canada 01/15/2015 11:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Too much jewywood tv movies "music" and porn. too much dept of education telling everyone that they are just animals. too much FDA drugging people up It all adds up to no self discipline and no self worth. If people realized this they would rage against it instead of wallowing like pigs as TPTB want you to do. Not your fault. It wouldnt all happen if it wasnt policy. Now that you know, it's up to you to do something about it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 66752683 United States 01/15/2015 11:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow guys, let's see how you respond to the situation when it's your daughter then. No wonder you can't "find a decent woman to marry"! You are cruel and evil. We're talking about people who have experienced sexual abuse as children, and then a PHASE of acting out. Read a book about it. It's a well known fact, that this sometimes occurs. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 66752683 United States 01/15/2015 11:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Listen cruel guy, no one in this thread is saying that promiscuity is good! There a few women in here saying that they had a brief and TERRIBLE experience of that at one time, and that they have noticed a correlation with childhood sexual abuse. Think a little harder about it. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 66752683 United States 01/15/2015 11:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't let these assholes with low IQs and an inability to comprehend what they read bother you. This is one of the crazier armpits of the internet, where something interesting occasionally surfaces. I am grateful that you posted this, I experienced this also during my youth. Many people in the world understand this phenomenon perfectly well. Especially the TPTB who use it to create MKultra sex slaves. At least I get it, and one other woman posted here does too. Just ignore these abusive posters, because they are probably lashing at this so much out of guilt, for the children they have fondled. IMHO |
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jennyfrog2000 (OP) User ID: 1852517 United States 01/15/2015 12:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Now you are spoiled whores with loose vaginas. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67045237 Who would want to marry you? It has a lot to do with withered self-esteem when you're used like this. It may not mean anything to you but when it's been your experience, this is true. So at some point you stop your behavior. Which I did :) It brought me no joy to do what I did. I do have a wonderful man in my life now who does want to marry me and I'm looking forward to making him very happy and bringing a lot to the table as far as faithfulness. It's extremely fulfilling to turn your life around and have lots to offer yourself and everyone around you. I didn't always have that. In a twisted way it was a gift I wouldn't trade. But yeah, this is a huge reason women are promiscuous. No parents, shitty parents, the porn industry, it's lots of things. Self-esteem is the number one factor I would say. Lets peer pressure work on you in horrible ways. I'm not going to apologize for my behavior because I learned a lot. If you're insensitive and insist on calling anybody a whore then you've just got extra to learn. We'll wait for you to catch up, you'll get there :) |
FCL User ID: 10090266 United States 01/15/2015 12:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yes ... I noticed that too ! zombie dance instructor when rainbows fill the sky ... you WILL remember your heart You cannot harm me ... you cannot harm one who has dreamed a dream like mine Pleased to meet you ... Mr. Garibaldi Something's got to stop the flow ...( ink ) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 67038875 Japan 01/15/2015 12:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Empiric Data! But we make a Difference between Women who started their Promiscuous Behavior after they reach Puberty and before! (Group 1. are without greater Problems and Group 2. are "mostly" without a Chance) Women (and Men) who do not grow up in a social intact Society have great difficulties in their later Life! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 66752683 United States 01/15/2015 12:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Acro! Awesome! Thank you for being an evolved and intelligent man! I'm guessing you have a beautiful and fulfilling marriage! I knew there were some guys out there who could understand this! OP is talking about a success story of recovery here! She's not in any way saying promiscuity is good, or trying to give it "an excuse"! She's explaining her experience, and a psychological phenomenon, which she, myself and many others have successfully OVERCOME!! I really appreciate this thread! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 66707826 United Kingdom 01/15/2015 12:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was sexually abused from 5yrs-9yrs, and believe me, I am not promiscuous, in fact, I do not even bother with relationships, I have 1 major sexual hang-up now and always have. Some people abused are affected differently, not everyone is bloody sex mad or thinking about it morning noon or night. |
CanisDirus User ID: 46474921 United States 01/15/2015 01:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Perhaps. Or it could be the constant bombardment of sexuality promoted these days. Or it could be a means of survival for them, trading service for shelter/food/and so fourth. Or it could be an abundance of hormones being released. There are a number of reasons. Only assessing a subject individually will you find a possible conclusion. Isn't psychology fascinating? As for your post, you seem to have noticed the plague disrupting this nation. Instead of focusing on what is happening, try investigating the 'why'. Then you'll eventually get to the 'who'. |