Thats my exact physical situation...Im ex pro athlete, run 5K daily, Im in very good shape, ladies say Im very attractive....My wife on the other hand is very fat....she was not as fat when we married, and promised to lose weight for herself after marriage.....silly me she is 50 pounds heavier, and very lazy....but we do have a good marriage , and I love her....I am cruel to the world, and she is an angel....but physically I am disappointed at her lack of effort,and what the future holds...which probably includes me pushing my fat lovely wife around in a wheelchair with an oxygen tank in tow...

But understand, I love her, we have 4 beautiful children....Im not an asshole, I just responded to OP thread question, and I treat her like a queen...