It's really more about inappropriate or over done clinging. If it's out of hand, it's insecurity, in one form or another. Men should just be men and women should just be women. Quit trying to figure out the opposite sex, it's impossible, if something bothers you just freakin say it does, if you like something then say that too. It's not that hard when you find the right person, it's finding the right person that isn't always easy.