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My daughter is dating a Married man and does not care.... what do I do.

 
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The 'married' man has no respect for the sanctity of marriage, and your daughter is foolishly engaging his desires.

Tell your daughter the reason he hasn't bought another cow is because the milk is free.
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My daughter brought her Boyfriend home the other day to introduce him to the family. Everything was going fine until she admitted that he was married. When I asked him bluntly if he was separated from his wife and what his intentions were, he stated that he was not separated and that he had no intentions of leaving his wife.

My daughter could see that I was in shock, she quickly explained that she had met his wife and that she was perfectly ok with her husband dating my daughter. After all, she was dating on the side too. When I tuned to look at him, he was smiling and told me.. "Oh don't worry, I have been fixed, there will be no children. And I do not plan on getting divorced."

I left before I said something that I should not have. I could only think that if they were both dating other people, why did they even get married?

In raising my daughter, I taught her that you do not "Poach other women's men" end of story. The man is a sleazeball. Now what do I do?
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You never know, why it is good!

Maybe, he get some connections, when the war with Russia will start and he will help you and your daughter to survive...maybe his wife will get divorced and he is only naiv. Maybe you can explain your love to your daughter naivity and tell her, such relationship is going to the end one day and that maybe it is good, because maybe the other he could die in a car accident and so he could have some good days before leeving this world....you know, you never know!!!!?

So, keep quiet about morality....that is not everything....the Almighty has his own ways to tell humans, what is good and what was wrong....mostly after it happens!!!
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My daughter brought her Boyfriend home the other day to introduce him to the family. Everything was going fine until she admitted that he was married. When I asked him bluntly if he was separated from his wife and what his intentions were, he stated that he was not separated and that he had no intentions of leaving his wife.

My daughter could see that I was in shock, she quickly explained that she had met his wife and that she was perfectly ok with her husband dating my daughter. After all, she was dating on the side too. When I tuned to look at him, he was smiling and told me.. "Oh don't worry, I have been fixed, there will be no children. And I do not plan on getting divorced."

I left before I said something that I should not have. I could only think that if they were both dating other people, why did they even get married?

In raising my daughter, I taught her that you do not "Poach other women's men" end of story. The man is a sleazeball. Now what do I do?
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Why don't you have her father have a gentle word with her.
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Assuming your daughter is an adult, there's not much you can do about it.

You can express to her your disgust, and not support it in any way, like not inviting them to your house.

Unfortunately, she'll have to fall on her ass to learn her lesson the hard way.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21351810


^this

I can't believe the guy STATED he was "fixed!!!!" wtf

That is disgusting! Even if my husband got "fixed" I don't think I'd tell my mom, I surely wouldn't tell the mother of my girlfriend and oh, by the way, I'm also married.

Geesh, I'm sorry OP. Yes, let her fall on her ass. Life has its consequences. But at least he's "fixed."
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You could sit her down and tell her that yes, she is an "adult" and yes, she is your sweet little angel, that you love her and always will, but at the same time you have YOUR standards. You'd prefer that she not bring the guy around, but if she does, they WILL be occupying separate rooms at night. And mean it.

At this point, that's about all that you can do. Be prepared for her to suddenly be 16 all over again when he loses interest in her and moves on to the next naïve girl with open legs and mush for brains. This is obviously not the first time he's had this arrangement; where does she suppose all those OTHER girls have gone?
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04/02/2015 04:08 AM
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" where does she suppose all those OTHER girls have gone?"




That´s the point!!!!!
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04/02/2015 04:11 AM
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Microcosm in macrocosm. Seems almost everyone in the US thinks they have the right to dictate what others do or don't do..

It's your daughter's life OP. Deal with it.

You cut her off as has been suggested, it's likely you will suffer more later in life. You willing to do without seeing any future grandkids or your own kids as you age.
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04/02/2015 04:12 AM
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Microcosm in macrocosm. Seems almost everyone in the US thinks they have the right to dictate what others do or don't do..

It's your daughter's life OP. Deal with it.

You cut her off as has been suggested, it's likely you will suffer more later in life. You willing to do without seeing any future grandkids or your own kids as you age.
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Would you want your daughter playing whore for a married man?
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04/02/2015 04:14 AM
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Hope your wife doesn't find out.
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04/02/2015 04:18 AM
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I think your daughter is acting in an immoral way, and you should let her know that you don't approve, but there is no need for extreme reactions like cutting her out of your will or her life. If she is an adult, this is her choice, not yours. You can let her know you think its a bad choice, but if she is not a minor, in all honesty it's not really your place anymore to try to control her relationships.
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04/02/2015 04:19 AM
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Microcosm in macrocosm. Seems almost everyone in the US thinks they have the right to dictate what others do or don't do..

It's your daughter's life OP. Deal with it.

You cut her off as has been suggested, it's likely you will suffer more later in life. You willing to do without seeing any future grandkids or your own kids as you age.
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Yes, grandkids can come easier, when you look open at possibilities! Sometimes there are no grandkids, when only full of morality. The life takes it chances, wherever it can get any!!! :)
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04/02/2015 04:22 AM
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Good times.
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Microcosm in macrocosm. Seems almost everyone in the US thinks they have the right to dictate what others do or don't do..

It's your daughter's life OP. Deal with it.

You cut her off as has been suggested, it's likely you will suffer more later in life. You willing to do without seeing any future grandkids or your own kids as you age.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55750711


What are you talking about future grandkids? The boyfriend as been 'fixed'. Did you miss that vital piece of information.
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04/02/2015 04:24 AM
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lol no one read the original post. the wife doesnt have an issue with it so there is no issue.
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For an amoral scumbag like you perhaps there is no issue.
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amoral? and how is it amoral exactly? amoral in your subjective opinion. you must be a member of one of the abrahamic religions. ignorant and self righteous. morality should be really simple. do not hurt another person. physically or psychologically. do not violate the will of another person. do what you want but harm none is the best morality there is. was an old pagan saying before satanists took it and made it simply do what thou wilt. excluding the harm none part. theirs is do what you want even at the expense of others. your kind, the religious want to lord over other people with a sense of superiority. you fuck everything up with your self righteousness. you have a problem with love and sharing love. you have a personal problem. ego and jealousy plagues you and that is why you can never share a loved one with someone else.
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But this girl is doing harm. She is harming her parent, if no one else. You maybe doing harm too, with your judgmental and self righteous post. You used your subjective opinion to decide you had the right to give your view on morality.
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she is not harming her parent. she is simply living her life. her parent is causing herself anguish due to her own displeasure with deviation from her subjective construct of morality.
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04/02/2015 04:25 AM
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Microcosm in macrocosm. Seems almost everyone in the US thinks they have the right to dictate what others do or don't do..

It's your daughter's life OP. Deal with it.

You cut her off as has been suggested, it's likely you will suffer more later in life. You willing to do without seeing any future grandkids or your own kids as you age.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55750711


What are you talking about future grandkids? The boyfriend as been 'fixed'. Did you miss that vital piece of information.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68566266


This guy is her boyfriend not her husband. It's likely this won't last.
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For an amoral scumbag like you perhaps there is no issue.
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amoral? and how is it amoral exactly? amoral in your subjective opinion. you must be a member of one of the abrahamic religions. ignorant and self righteous. morality should be really simple. do not hurt another person. physically or psychologically. do not violate the will of another person. do what you want but harm none is the best morality there is. was an old pagan saying before satanists took it and made it simply do what thou wilt. excluding the harm none part. theirs is do what you want even at the expense of others. your kind, the religious want to lord over other people with a sense of superiority. you fuck everything up with your self righteousness. you have a problem with love and sharing love. you have a personal problem. ego and jealousy plagues you and that is why you can never share a loved one with someone else.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31310212


But this girl is doing harm. She is harming her parent, if no one else. You maybe doing harm too, with your judgmental and self righteous post. You used your subjective opinion to decide you had the right to give your view on morality.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1408355


she is not harming her parent. she is simply living her life. her parent is causing herself anguish due to her own displeasure with deviation from her subjective construct of morality.
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A-Class Progressive Bullshit right here
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Well, the dude's wife is cool with it, she's dating on the side, and your daughter is cool with it, then leave them be. If you're not cool with it, OP, then that's fair enough - just tell her that you want no part of it and to keep the guy out of your life (including any mention of him).
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04/02/2015 04:31 AM
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Dating? Do you mean fucking?
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04/02/2015 04:34 AM
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The 'married' man has no respect for the sanctity of marriage, and your daughter is foolishly engaging his desires.

Tell your daughter the reason he hasn't bought another cow is because the milk is free.
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Well you summed that up very well.

Straight to the point.
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04/02/2015 04:35 AM
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The 'married' man has no respect for the sanctity of marriage, and your daughter is foolishly engaging his desires.

Tell your daughter the reason he hasn't bought another cow is because the milk is free.
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Well you summed that up very well.

Straight to the point.
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Sounds like this guy has a whole free dairy farm going for him.
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Dating? Do you mean fucking?
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If it was just fucking then why bring the boyfriend to meet your parents? There is a seriousness there. He sees her as more and vice versa. To bring a man home who admits he is married and is fixed so no kids will be involved is an in your face move.

I mean does she not care what people think... NO no no. You fuck a married man in private without telling anyone. If it more than that then she is a mistress and he is keeping her for himself. They are bold about it.
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All you can now is pray for your daughter, and leave her in God's hands.

Did your daughter ever have a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ?
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Dating? Do you mean fucking?
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If it was just fucking then why bring the boyfriend to meet your parents? There is a seriousness there. He sees her as more and vice versa. To bring a man home who admits he is married and is fixed so no kids will be involved is an in your face move.

I mean does she not care what people think... NO no no. You fuck a married man in private without telling anyone. If it more than that then she is a mistress and he is keeping her for himself. They are bold about it.
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She doesn't care you mean HE DOESN'T CARE!

Put the blame where the blame should go ON HIM!
The fucking married predator!

She will probably get attached to him and hurt by him.
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the reason your daughter is a whore is most likely because you treated her as daddys little girl that could do no wrong while she was growing up. Or you went the other extreme and went all fascist. Either way, she didnt get what she needed from you as a father growing up.

A girl's first relationship with men is based on the relationship with thier dad.

Somewhere along the line you messed up big time and now have raised a slut with no morals and no shame.

tsk tsk
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Dating? Do you mean fucking?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52197375


If it was just fucking then why bring the boyfriend to meet your parents? There is a seriousness there. He sees her as more and vice versa. To bring a man home who admits he is married and is fixed so no kids will be involved is an in your face move.

I mean does she not care what people think... NO no no. You fuck a married man in private without telling anyone. If it more than that then she is a mistress and he is keeping her for himself. They are bold about it.
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Yes. She wanted to shock her parents. She knew how they would feel about this.

So why does this adult child want to hurt her parent?

Well......whatever.............she deserves a kick in the gonads. What goes around comes around though and she will be a mother one day soon. The Grandparent will have to stand and watch.
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LMAO! She brought a married man home to meet the parents.
You raised a winner.
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My daughter brought her Boyfriend home the other day to introduce him to the family. Everything was going fine until she admitted that he was married. When I asked him bluntly if he was separated from his wife and what his intentions were, he stated that he was not separated and that he had no intentions of leaving his wife.

My daughter could see that I was in shock, she quickly explained that she had met his wife and that she was perfectly ok with her husband dating my daughter. After all, she was dating on the side too. When I tuned to look at him, he was smiling and told me.. "Oh don't worry, I have been fixed, there will be no children. And I do not plan on getting divorced."

I left before I said something that I should not have. I could only think that if they were both dating other people, why did they even get married?

In raising my daughter, I taught her that you do not "Poach other women's men" end of story. The man is a sleazeball. Now what do I do?
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stfu Let your daughter enjoy getting her pussy pounded nice and good. Seems you need some of that dick too you fucking prude.
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Get with his wife ASAP!
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Unfortunately, there's little you can actively do to convince your daughter that she's making bad decisions. If I were you, I wouldn't let this married man come to any family functions or come to your house. You don't have to entertain people, in your own home, who you disapprove of. As for your daughter, I know that, right now, she thinks things are just fine. But, as a woman, I know that it's very difficult to love someone who will never consider marrying me. The whole "dating a married man" (whether he and his wife have an open marriage or not), thing is a recipe for heartache and pain. I know your daughter doesn't realize this now and she may have to learn the hard way that these situations are very, very rarely good for anyone. I know how hard this must be for you. You certainly should feel free to make your displeasure known, but I wouldn't cut her off from contact with you, because she needs a mother who has some sense and loves her. She'll really need you when the whole thing blows up on her one day. Then, you will be there to help her pick up the pieces of her shattered dreams and, hopefully, she will have learned a very hard lesson about life and love.
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Well said.
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My daughter brought her Boyfriend home the other day to introduce him to the family. Everything was going fine until she admitted that he was married. When I asked him bluntly if he was separated from his wife and what his intentions were, he stated that he was not separated and that he had no intentions of leaving his wife.

My daughter could see that I was in shock, she quickly explained that she had met his wife and that she was perfectly ok with her husband dating my daughter. After all, she was dating on the side too. When I tuned to look at him, he was smiling and told me.. "Oh don't worry, I have been fixed, there will be no children. And I do not plan on getting divorced."

I left before I said something that I should not have. I could only think that if they were both dating other people, why did they even get married?

In raising my daughter, I taught her that you do not "Poach other women's men" end of story. The man is a sleazeball. Now what do I do?
 Quoting: Elfsong


stfu Let your daughter enjoy getting her pussy pounded nice and good. Seems you need some of that dick too you fucking prude.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 62548437


Yeah we should all be slags with no morals. You go and fuck that dog you like the look of. Someone else can grab a baby goat. Fuck being a prude! Fuck morals and human decency. After all humans are the apex.

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