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My daughter is dating a Married man and does not care.... what do I do.

 
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home wrecker!!

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unfortunately we now live in an age where Polyamory is accepted. i didnt grow up this way, i found it when i met my husband. i didnt want to have anything to do with it but he insisted so i allowed becuase i love him. its part of who he is and what he believes, i love him so WHO AM I TO CHANGE HIM?? i dont have to engage in it so i dont. thats just our life and im happy with it.
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What the hell is wrong with all of you people?

Regardless of consent from all parties, the simple fact is
that this is WRONG.

Everyone here knows the daughter is being used.

It is wrong in the eyes of God.

It is wrong in the site of most of decent society.

It is wrong from the viewpoint of most parents.
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Explain to your daughter thst she is being used, she is just for his entertainment since he is married to, commited to and loves someone else. There is no chance of commitment, marriage, children and family with this man. He is only using her for his own entertinment and satisfaction, which is quite sickening.

Then, refuse him entry into your home and your life. Still love your daughter and try to guide her as best as you can, but don't allow that man into your home........EVER.
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Does he have kids with his wife? Why are they dating other people? I would not have too much of a problem with it if they were all adults but I question your daughter.

It is obviously more than sex if she is bringing him home to meet you. So they are not just swingers. The man basically has a wife who is first and a girlfriend who is second. How strange is that. She is not a girlfriend. She is a mistress.

Most women should want to be first in their man's heart. That is what marriage is. The point is your daughter is second. Only a mistress. She could do better.
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HA! Most women are NEVER first in their man's life. His money is.
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Ouch.

No offense, OP, but sounds like your daughter, and of course the guy, are devoid of ethics.
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 Quoting: THEJLXC

He admitted to your face that he is in it for a quick F**k and your daughter doesn't care.

It totally depends on her age and independence.

If she is over 21 and completely independent of support -then not much you can do except shun their company (she will come crawling back later after she licks her wounds -after all he will find another)

If she is in high school or dependent in any way -time to make some tough decisions.

You ALWAYS have control of what goes on under your roof.

I fear that couple has plans for her -group sex or worse.
they are perverted and preying on a young mind.
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You know what you do? You cut her off, completely and entirely. She's willingly dating someone that can never legally start a family and him telling you he's "fixed" means the relationship is only about the physical.

 Quoting: The Årtist

I don't understand this statement.

Are you saying that; if someone doesn't want, or can't have, a family... it means their relationship is only physical?

That doesn't make any sense to me.
You don't need to start a family and have children, in order to love someone and be deeply connected with them, on much more than just a physical level.
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Because the guy is just using her for a pc of ass on the side just like his wife is doing to him. It's BS and sends the wrong message.

That's why I have said over and over again, do a fucking background check on people!
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Is this really you OP?

Thread: Christians and Hate Crimes...

"I am pagan, officer, not a satanist. By general definition anyone not of Abraham faith are pagan, including Buddhists. I am Wiccan, a recognized faith by the united states military.
 Quoting: Elfsong

With all due respect, what you are experiencing is called "reaping what you sow".

You are trolling right?

I mean...

You have the audacity to not only get upset about what happened but now you come here to complain?

To top it all off you are looking for advice?

Really?

OK, but if you really are serious, you know what the answer is.

My advice would be to start here...



Although I'm sure your answer would be something like...

"Christianity degrades women".

Too bad the irony is lost on you.

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04/02/2015 10:08 AM
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Mass confusion indeed.

First consenting adult. Is she? if so, her problem.

wife is ok with it, wshe is ok with it, he is ok with it. no problem. You have problem.


I am married and seek more wives personally yet in a monogamous relationship not like that above. My wife states she does also yet at times seems jealous so I never push it. If its what she wants then ok. I am her husband first.


To each thier own.
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Is this really you OP?

Thread: Christians and Hate Crimes...

"I am pagan, officer, not a satanist. By general definition anyone not of Abraham faith are pagan, including Buddhists. I am Wiccan, a recognized faith by the united states military.
 Quoting: Elfsong

With all due respect, what you are experiencing is called "reaping what you sow".

You are trolling right?

I mean...

You have the audacity to not only get upset about what happened but now you come here to complain?

To top it all off you are looking for advice?

Really?

OK, but if you really are serious, you know what the answer is.

My advice would be to start here...



Although I'm sure your answer would be something like...

"Christianity degrades women".

Too bad the irony is lost on you.

putin
 Quoting: Base12


clappa

I so much wish I would have responded in this manner instead
of my earlier comment about having the guy's legs broken.
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Is this really you OP?

Thread: Christians and Hate Crimes...

"I am pagan, officer, not a satanist. By general definition anyone not of Abraham faith are pagan, including Buddhists. I am Wiccan, a recognized faith by the united states military.
 Quoting: Elfsong

With all due respect, what you are experiencing is called "reaping what you sow".

You are trolling right?

I mean...

You have the audacity to not only get upset about what happened but now you come here to complain?

To top it all off you are looking for advice?

Really?

OK, but if you really are serious, you know what the answer is.

My advice would be to start here...



Although I'm sure your answer would be something like...

"Christianity degrades women".

Too bad the irony is lost on you.

putin
 Quoting: Base12



Just a note. Ab Ra Ham, its us fool, the three folks on the plane..... You not one of us then?
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04/02/2015 10:11 AM
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He will be pimping her out soon to his "friends" after he and his wife have "trained" her.

The wife is the madam. She gets the money -and she has other "girls" ...
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04/02/2015 10:12 AM
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What the hell is wrong with all of you people?

Regardless of consent from all parties, the simple fact is
that this is WRONG.

Everyone here knows the daughter is being used.

It is wrong in the eyes of God.

It is wrong in the site of most of decent society.

It is wrong from the viewpoint of most parents.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68794896


I don't know...
I mean, if you define your relationship by societies conventional standards, then yes.

But really, when you tear away the principles, and address them one by one...

It's honest, it's open, it's fluid... it's allowed to exist without definition, and without needing to push it into anything more than it is.
Huh, maybe then, it is more pure than some conventional relationships.
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04/02/2015 10:13 AM
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The man is a sleazeball.
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It appears it's your daughter that's the sleaze ball!!!
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04/02/2015 10:15 AM
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My advice would be to start here...




putin
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Stone her!
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04/02/2015 10:18 AM
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What the hell is wrong with all of you people?

Regardless of consent from all parties, the simple fact is
that this is WRONG.

Everyone here knows the daughter is being used.

It is wrong in the eyes of God.

It is wrong in the site of most of decent society.

It is wrong from the viewpoint of most parents.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68794896


I don't know...
I mean, if you define your relationship by societies conventional standards, then yes.

But really, when you tear away the principles, and address them one by one...

It's honest, it's open, it's fluid... it's allowed to exist without definition, and without needing to push it into anything more than it is.
Huh, maybe then, it is more pure than some conventional relationships.
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It's part of the new AGENDA

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You know what you do? You cut her off, completely and entirely. She's willingly dating someone that can never legally start a family and him telling you he's "fixed" means the relationship is only about the physical.

 Quoting: The Årtist

I don't understand this statement.

Are you saying that; if someone doesn't want, or can't have, a family... it means their relationship is only physical?

That doesn't make any sense to me.
You don't need to start a family and have children, in order to love someone and be deeply connected with them, on much more than just a physical level.
 Quoting: Petrichor


Because the guy is just using her for a pc of ass on the side just like his wife is doing to him. It's BS and sends the wrong message.

That's why I have said over and over again, do a fucking background check on people!
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Do we even know if the marriage is a sexual relationship anymore?

What if it is like they are divorced... just without the piece of paper, to claim it legally?
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As a mother and a daughter and someone who fell out of love with her husband, who then committed suicide when I said I fell for someone else. My parents loved my husband as a golden son.

When I brought the boyfriend home....my parents welcomed him as a person who I loved and who stopped me from killing myself.

You....need to do the same....he is a man who is giving her time. He may not be the forever person for her...especially if she ultimately wants babies. Be cordial, be polite. He is giving her something....a knowing of how lust vs loves feels.

It is your daughters journey...let her live it without condemnation. Just be there for her.....she will sort it out in her own time.

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Tough situation ... for the parent, NOT so tough for the kid.

First: She is NOT a homewrecker!! AND she is NOT poaching another woman's man. The "other woman" approves and probably even encourages her partner to sleep with other women, so no harm there (so dismiss that from your mind)

Second: NO risk of pregancy, so dismiss that from your mind

Third: What is going on here is that your daughter LOVES HIS C--K and wants more or it, maybe all the time. She is in "C--k Lust" as I would put it. In my experience when women are in the throes of "C--k Lust" rational thought goes out the window and their old cavewoman subconscious desires take over and DOMINATE everything.

Fourth: This is going to end, and it is your daughter who risks the emotional damage that may result ... that is the REAL RISK in this situation.

That emotional damage "may" make her unable to fully "bond" (which is actually a chemical reaction of the brain) with another male in the future, and when that happens the female traditionally ends up with multiple partners /multiple marriages during the rest of their life ... and often just become selfish blatant "men users" (seen that A LOT in life).

Good luck ... but YOU can NOT live your daughter's life.
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As a mother and a daughter and someone who fell out of love with her husband, who then committed suicide when I said I fell for someone else. My parents loved my husband as a golden son.

When I brought the boyfriend home....my parents welcomed him as a person who I loved and who stopped me from killing myself.

You....need to do the same....he is a man who is giving her time. He may not be the forever person for her...especially if she ultimately wants babies. Be cordial, be polite. He is giving her something....a knowing of how lust vs loves feels.

It is your daughters journey...let her live it without condemnation. Just be there for her.....she will sort it out in her own time.
 Quoting: Red Red Whine


This is good advice.

I am wondering what the daughter is thinking however. Does she think that he will leave his wife? There is no real future for her here unless she is happy as a mistress. That is a possibility but is she really aware of that?

Has this question been asked. Is she really okay with it. Perhaps for now she is.
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As a mother and a daughter and someone who fell out of love with her husband, who then committed suicide when I said I fell for someone else. My parents loved my husband as a golden son.

When I brought the boyfriend home....my parents welcomed him as a person who I loved and who stopped me from killing myself.

You....need to do the same....he is a man who is giving her time. He may not be the forever person for her...especially if she ultimately wants babies. Be cordial, be polite. He is giving her something....a knowing of how lust vs loves feels.

It is your daughters journey...let her live it without condemnation. Just be there for her.....she will sort it out in her own time.
 Quoting: Red Red Whine


People like you ARE the problem, along with all those who are agreeing with this shit.
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You raised a WHORE.

Kick her the fuck out NOW.

If not, shut the fuck up. You made your bed, now lie in it.
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Ever heard the expression, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink"?

You can teach your child right from wrong. You can bring them up with your morals and values, but that is no guarantee they're going to follow them. People will do what they want to do. Maybe the daughter knows this is wrong, but she loves this guy so much she is willing to forsake everything she knows to be true just to be with him. When your child does the opposite of everything you have taught them, all you can do is hope that one day they will understand why those things are important.
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Everyone here knows the daughter is being used.
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It's all the males fault???

Are females not responsible for their own actions???

You sound like a typical liberal feminist and if you're a male you're a metro sexual pussy!!!
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This is the exact scenario that is repeated on the thousands of murder shows.
These people can pretend no emotions exist, but this is going to mean 1 of 2 things: one of these adults is a psycopath or one is going to snap. This is a scenario ripe for the human desire for murder.


If the man or his wife are the psycopath, your daughter is going to be the target of their aggression.

I've seen it in the murder shows.
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What CAN you do OP?

It sounds like your daughter is an adult, making her own decisions. You can give her advice, whether that advice is shitty or otherwise, and that's about it. Anything beyond that is meddling and will cause further harm.

As for the "Why did they even get married" question...

Consider that maybe they got married simply because they love each other, and want to build and spend their lives together, regardless of if they have additional partners. Perhaps to them marriage isn't about mutually locking each other in a cage, and ruling each other with high expectations, or extracting each others souls. There are actually people who don't treat their wedding rings like 'rings of Mordor' with which they control their spouse.
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Another victim of Jewywood. Welcome to that Khazarian penis worshipping, Babylonian Talmud cult

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This is the exact scenario that is repeated on the thousands of murder shows.
These people can pretend no emotions exist, but this is going to mean 1 of 2 things: one of these adults is a psycopath or one is going to snap. This is a scenario ripe for the human desire for murder.


If the man or his wife are the psycopath, your daughter is going to be the target of their aggression.

I've seen it in the murder shows.
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burnit

Step away from the TeeVee.
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Disown the adulterous whore-slut.
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This is the exact scenario that is repeated on the thousands of murder shows.
These people can pretend no emotions exist, but this is going to mean 1 of 2 things: one of these adults is a psycopath or one is going to snap. This is a scenario ripe for the human desire for murder.


If the man or his wife are the psycopath, your daughter is going to be the target of their aggression.

I've seen it in the murder shows.
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burnit

Step away from the TeeVee.
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I have noted something that 100% of ALL Murderers HAVE IN COMMON.

100%!!

Everyone of them drinks WATER!! Yes that is right ... 100% of them drink WATER!!

It is obviously someone who drinks WATER that one should avoid!!

100% relationship of doing something to being a murderer means that it is an accurate indicator as to who will murder!!
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wahahahaahhan golden !





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