Sick and tired of it all.

Hang in there for that little girl. She needs you and she is worth it!

Modern life sucks for men, i gave up on relationships a few years back and have no intention of getting involved in anything serious ever again. I'm a lot happier now and glad i no longer care about all that crap.

Our governments just couldn't give two fucks about the breakdown of families & marriage. They just seem to make things worse for men at every turn. So fuck them too.

Try to prepare for the end of your relationship and cover your ass financially. Quite letting her know when you have side jobs. Let her think you took up a hobby that keeps you busy when you do them.

Right now you might think she is cool with staying together just for your daughter, but who knows what is really on her mind. If she is making plans and you are not, you will get the shit end again. Sucks when a kid is involved but unfortunately it's ll too common.

She got mad because you were tired and went to bed early? Like wtf did she want you to stay up for? She gets embarrassed because you didn't let a meth head beat you up? What kind of friends does she have?

Sorry about your job. You sound like a great worker for the company. The job market is awful most everywhere so I get why you need to stay. I hope something opens up for you soon.

I know what you mean about being so tired. Life used to be easy. You could do what you had to do and make it. Now it seems like the only options in all aspects of life is just to take it further up the ass.

You seem like a decent guy. I hope you can hang on and something fantastic happens that allows you to change your life for the best.

Remember to cover your ass. As a woman I think your wife's friends may be putting ideas in her head that may end up causing you more hurt.

How could I disagree, I say what I want, do what ever I want how ever I want

I win ,people absolutely suck

Don't forget fearful. But yeah, I can relate

congrads!!! you made the same mistake TWICE...

getting married...

Really.

Yes, the commom denominator in most mens unhappinness is women. solution = stay away from.

Quite simply really.

I used to be that woman. Well not exactly like that but similar.

For some reason I decided I didn't want to be that person anymore.

I realize a lot of my hostility is because I was scared anxious and depressed.

So I did a couple of things that seem very silly. I kept a list of my husband's best qualities. I tried to add to it one thing every day.

and I also made a point to give him at least one complement every day. It was awkward at first and seemed unnatural but after a while it got very easy.

And our relationship improved.He is become much more happy, and much more helpful about doing things I need.

Someone just had to go first

I know that doesn't really help you, and I'm very sorry about your situation, but that's my story.

im not saying that men shouldnt be with women, they shouldnt get married.

instead, have a gf and fuck her. no need to get married.

THIS^^^

These ultra feminist deceivers(most western women now) are always scheming and planning. No shame, no empathy , no conscience. The epitome of evil, not all but most.

First you're not on the grind and are clearly delusional, 2nd let me guess you were with the girl for a few hours and got married? Than you done did it again...though you lost it all the first time around.

Your poor kid.

She bought into the Sex & The City Meets Leave-It-To-Beaver lie.

You can't fix her. Only she can fix her and that's only if she gets her head out of her ass. Doesn't sound like she's interested in that at all. In fact, I would bet that some of this trouble started when she began hanging out with her friends, or really, one nasty friend in particular.

I've seen this story unfold before.

I have a friend who lives the same sad life as you. And I feel so bad for him. My cousin lives an equally awful sad life, but in the opposite way - since she's the woman and her husband is controlling and emotionally abusive.

The best thing I can say, is the same as others have said:

Get some money put aside for you in a place she doesn't know about, can't touch. Like a NetSpend debit card - you can have money go to it via driect deposit. Just a little over time will accumulate and when you're ready to do your thing and escape for real, it will be waiting for you. Keep that card in a place she doesn't know about -- not your wallet. Maybe a safety deposit box or something like that.

Be there for your daughter as long as you can because your wife will alienate her against you as soon as she figures out you're going to leave her.

DO NOT DIVORCE HER until she has a JOB. Or you will pay spousal support on top of child support and then you might as well quit your job and become a hobo/dead-beat dad. WHich means, there goes your relationship with your daughter.

I'll say a prayer for you. Try to look for that thing you're supposed to do -- that reason you came here on this earth... Everyone one has a path they are supposed to follow, sounds like maybe you forgot to follow yours awhile back and it will take you some time to find it again.

Good luck, soldier.

Hope things are looking up for you this week.

yup!

(((Hugs))) fyi I don't treat my husband like that. 20+ years of marriage. It can work if you find the right person. I.had the $hiT kicked out of me in childhood (at home, and at school, up until 17 years of age) suffering can temper a person. Look on the bright side. Your pain has made you smarter and stronger. Some people are just mean, plain and simple. I have had some mean relatives and also experience with psychotic and mean bosses. You just happened to be married to a mean person. I'd give her a wide girth, and do what makes you happy.