My first grandbaby was Stillborn - We are devastated

You know, I was scared and upset when my son told me he & his wife were pregnant...they are only 22 and I was worried about them being okay. But in the last 9 months I realized they really loved and wanted this, they both have good jobs, they were READY...I even went baby shopping and got all excited.
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Baby Spencer was due on May 2nd ...he was 11 days early, I guess. Today while on the way to her regular appointment, she started having back pain...the clinic sent her straight to the hospital and between two nurses, the doctor and an ultrasound, they just couldn't find a heartbeat. (the dr said there's no explanation...nothing he could find after his initial examination.)

After an emergency c-section, we got to see him & say goodbye... It's just so WRONG to see a baby like that. Poor little love never even took a breath or opened his little eyes

It's just Messed up...WTF!?

I'm worried for my son, he's not going to be okay with this. I've got two tween kids who are confused and upset they don't get to be auntie & uncle....my daughter is 13 and totally devastated...my youngest son is trying to distract himself from crying... This family has never dealt with death or real grief before.

Prayers accepted and welcomed.

You know, I was scared and upset when my son told me he & his wife were pregnant...they are only 22 and I was worried about them being okay. But in the last 9 months I realized they really loved and wanted this, they both have good jobs, they were READY...I even went baby shopping and got all excited.
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Baby Spencer was due on May 2nd ...he was 11 days early, I guess. Today while on the way to her regular appointment, she started having back pain...the clinic sent her straight to the hospital and between two nurses, the doctor and an ultrasound, they just couldn't find a heartbeat. (the dr said there's no explanation...nothing he could find after his initial examination.)

After an emergency c-section, we got to see him & say goodbye... It's just so WRONG to see a baby like that. Poor little love never even took a breath or opened his little eyes

It's just Messed up...WTF!?

I'm worried for my son, he's not going to be okay with this. I've got two tween kids who are confused and upset they don't get to be auntie & uncle....my daughter is 13 and totally devastated...my youngest son is trying to distract himself from crying... This family has never dealt with death or real grief before.

Prayers accepted and welcomed.

You know, I was scared and upset when my son told me he & his wife were pregnant...they are only 22 and I was worried about them being okay. But in the last 9 months I realized they really loved and wanted this, they both have good jobs, they were READY...I even went baby shopping and got all excited.
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Baby Spencer was due on May 2nd ...he was 11 days early, I guess. Today while on the way to her regular appointment, she started having back pain...the clinic sent her straight to the hospital and between two nurses, the doctor and an ultrasound, they just couldn't find a heartbeat. (the dr said there's no explanation...nothing he could find after his initial examination.)

After an emergency c-section, we got to see him & say goodbye... It's just so WRONG to see a baby like that. Poor little love never even took a breath or opened his little eyes

It's just Messed up...WTF!?

I'm worried for my son, he's not going to be okay with this. I've got two tween kids who are confused and upset they don't get to be auntie & uncle....my daughter is 13 and totally devastated...my youngest son is trying to distract himself from crying... This family has never dealt with death or real grief before.

Prayers accepted and welcomed.

You know, I was scared and upset when my son told me he & his wife were pregnant...they are only 22 and I was worried about them being okay. But in the last 9 months I realized they really loved and wanted this, they both have good jobs, they were READY...I even went baby shopping and got all excited.
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Baby Spencer was due on May 2nd ...he was 11 days early, I guess. Today while on the way to her regular appointment, she started having back pain...the clinic sent her straight to the hospital and between two nurses, the doctor and an ultrasound, they just couldn't find a heartbeat. (the dr said there's no explanation...nothing he could find after his initial examination.)

After an emergency c-section, we got to see him & say goodbye... It's just so WRONG to see a baby like that. Poor little love never even took a breath or opened his little eyes

It's just Messed up...WTF!?

I'm worried for my son, he's not going to be okay with this. I've got two tween kids who are confused and upset they don't get to be auntie & uncle....my daughter is 13 and totally devastated...my youngest son is trying to distract himself from crying... This family has never dealt with death or real grief before.

Prayers accepted and welcomed.

May God Bless you and Keep you.

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I'm so sorry for your families loss... The loss of a child can be devestating...

I do have a question though... If there was nothing apparently wrong, why did they do an emergency c-section? That puts any future children she may have in danger and it puts her at higher risk during future pregnancies...

You know, I was scared and upset when my son told me he & his wife were pregnant...they are only 22 and I was worried about them being okay. But in the last 9 months I realized they really loved and wanted this, they both have good jobs, they were READY...I even went baby shopping and got all excited.
~ ~ ~
Baby Spencer was due on May 2nd ...he was 11 days early, I guess. Today while on the way to her regular appointment, she started having back pain...the clinic sent her straight to the hospital and between two nurses, the doctor and an ultrasound, they just couldn't find a heartbeat. (the dr said there's no explanation...nothing he could find after his initial examination.)

After an emergency c-section, we got to see him & say goodbye... It's just so WRONG to see a baby like that. Poor little love never even took a breath or opened his little eyes

It's just Messed up...WTF!?

I'm worried for my son, he's not going to be okay with this. I've got two tween kids who are confused and upset they don't get to be auntie & uncle....my daughter is 13 and totally devastated...my youngest son is trying to distract himself from crying... This family has never dealt with death or real grief before.

Prayers accepted and welcomed.