A Bittersweet Fourth of July, A Message For The Lonely Hearts of GLP. | |
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A Concerned Citizen (OP) User ID: 68734067 United States 07/04/2015 05:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well I have mothered a few orphans, sending love to you right now! PS Jesus Christ is looking down on you with love also! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69627210 God bless you for the work that you've done and the labor of love in being a Mommy to those orphans. That is so beautiful and admirable to me. Thank you for the love and encouragement and hope you are having a Happy and Safe Fourth. |
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A Concerned Citizen (OP) User ID: 68734067 United States 07/04/2015 05:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Everytime I see that avatar my heart leaps just a little bit. Is that your pup? What's his/her name? And thank you, beeches. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 47407422 United States 07/04/2015 05:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Facebook made a little post on my News Feed (yes, I'm still one of those wannabe conspiracy theorist people who embarrassingly still uses social media) and had a cartoon image of a little boy on his dad's shoulders waving an American flag and watching fireworks. It said, "We just want to wish you a fun day of stars, stripes and fireworks. Happy Fourth of July" Quoting: A Concerned Citizen I cried for quite a while when I saw that. Having been a Survivor of child abuse by my own father, I never once experienced that. I never once got to go to a fireworks show with my family. I realized that at 27 years old I'll never be a little child again to ride high up on someone's shoulders like that or to have bonding moments with my parents. I don't have any family or friends here locally to even spend the Fourth with. I'm spending the day in a motel 6 room, alone, I don't have a car and all the buses and rails are not running today because of the Holiday so I couldn't get anywhere if I wanted to. I was thinking of going down to the pool to go for a swim but there are a few families down there swimming and having a good time and it just reminded me how I don't have family to celebrate with. That's when I decided to make this post. I know I'm not the only one on here who is alone on this Holiday. I love this county, I still believe in the Greatness of America and what she stood for and can still become. I love Fourth of July and even have my own little American flag that I put out to remind me of the reason we celebrate. But I'm horribly alone and I know there are at least a handful of other lonely souls out there who don't have any money, don't have any bbq, don't have any fun family outings or community parties to attend and who will likely just be watching fireworks on TV or on YouTube later on. So to those of you who read this, from one Brother you may or may not have met yet, from a friend, Happy Fourth of July anyway and I hope wherever you are if you have family to be with please love them just a little harder for those of us who don't have anyone to love. Cherish them. I'm sure you already do but just remember so many of us have no one at all and please don't take them for granted. Even if they get on your nerves or might be "sheeple" relatives, still, love them for us okay? And thank you for stopping by my thread and keeping me a little company on this Holiday. I love each and every one of you. - CC |
sees User ID: 66981272 United States 07/04/2015 05:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Facebook made a little post on my News Feed (yes, I'm still one of those wannabe conspiracy theorist people who embarrassingly still uses social media) and had a cartoon image of a little boy on his dad's shoulders waving an American flag and watching fireworks. It said, "We just want to wish you a fun day of stars, stripes and fireworks. Happy Fourth of July" Quoting: A Concerned Citizen I cried for quite a while when I saw that. Having been a Survivor of child abuse by my own father, I never once experienced that. I never once got to go to a fireworks show with my family. I realized that at 27 years old I'll never be a little child again to ride high up on someone's shoulders like that or to have bonding moments with my parents. I don't have any family or friends here locally to even spend the Fourth with. I'm spending the day in a motel 6 room, alone, I don't have a car and all the buses and rails are not running today because of the Holiday so I couldn't get anywhere if I wanted to. I was thinking of going down to the pool to go for a swim but there are a few families down there swimming and having a good time and it just reminded me how I don't have family to celebrate with. That's when I decided to make this post. I know I'm not the only one on here who is alone on this Holiday. I love this county, I still believe in the Greatness of America and what she stood for and can still become. I love Fourth of July and even have my own little American flag that I put out to remind me of the reason we celebrate. But I'm horribly alone and I know there are at least a handful of other lonely souls out there who don't have any money, don't have any bbq, don't have any fun family outings or community parties to attend and who will likely just be watching fireworks on TV or on YouTube later on. So to those of you who read this, from one Brother you may or may not have met yet, from a friend, Happy Fourth of July anyway and I hope wherever you are if you have family to be with please love them just a little harder for those of us who don't have anyone to love. Cherish them. I'm sure you already do but just remember so many of us have no one at all and please don't take them for granted. Even if they get on your nerves or might be "sheeple" relatives, still, love them for us okay? And thank you for stopping by my thread and keeping me a little company on this Holiday. I love each and every one of you. - CC Holidays are the worst when you are alone. :( sees |
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White Bear User ID: 66954576 United States 07/04/2015 05:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Facebook made a little post on my News Feed (yes, I'm still one of those wannabe conspiracy theorist people who embarrassingly still uses social media) and had a cartoon image of a little boy on his dad's shoulders waving an American flag and watching fireworks. It said, "We just want to wish you a fun day of stars, stripes and fireworks. Happy Fourth of July" Quoting: A Concerned Citizen I cried for quite a while when I saw that. Having been a Survivor of child abuse by my own father, I never once experienced that. I never once got to go to a fireworks show with my family. I realized that at 27 years old I'll never be a little child again to ride high up on someone's shoulders like that or to have bonding moments with my parents. I don't have any family or friends here locally to even spend the Fourth with. I'm spending the day in a motel 6 room, alone, I don't have a car and all the buses and rails are not running today because of the Holiday so I couldn't get anywhere if I wanted to. I was thinking of going down to the pool to go for a swim but there are a few families down there swimming and having a good time and it just reminded me how I don't have family to celebrate with. That's when I decided to make this post. I know I'm not the only one on here who is alone on this Holiday. I love this county, I still believe in the Greatness of America and what she stood for and can still become. I love Fourth of July and even have my own little American flag that I put out to remind me of the reason we celebrate. But I'm horribly alone and I know there are at least a handful of other lonely souls out there who don't have any money, don't have any bbq, don't have any fun family outings or community parties to attend and who will likely just be watching fireworks on TV or on YouTube later on. So to those of you who read this, from one Brother you may or may not have met yet, from a friend, Happy Fourth of July anyway and I hope wherever you are if you have family to be with please love them just a little harder for those of us who don't have anyone to love. Cherish them. I'm sure you already do but just remember so many of us have no one at all and please don't take them for granted. Even if they get on your nerves or might be "sheeple" relatives, still, love them for us okay? And thank you for stopping by my thread and keeping me a little company on this Holiday. I love each and every one of you. - CC You can come over and have a hamburger off the grill with me. I've got a 35 yo son that has no time or place for me and there is an empty spot open. I don't have the time or the crayons to explain this to you. Slake Blake |
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tiger1 User ID: 68665462 United States 07/04/2015 05:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't let the past get you down. A lot of people on this forum have had horrible childhoods,myself included, and they know how you feel. Look to the future, as it will be very bright for you! When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Praise God from Whom all Blessings flow !!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 67064280 United States 07/04/2015 05:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm spending the day in a motel 6 room, alone, I don't have a car and all the buses and rails are not running today because of the Holiday so I couldn't get anywhere if I wanted to. Quoting: A Concerned Citizen Look up at the sky tonight, OP. When the fireworks are going off, around 8 or 9 o'clock. We might not be watching the same fireworks, but we're watching the same stars. And when you think about it, they are so much more amazing than anything man could create. So we might be alone tonight, OP... but we are alone together. |
beeches User ID: 28167778 United States 07/04/2015 05:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | anyone with an avatar as great as yours has to stay around, you know? I love that cat in a coat. Some of us had difficult dads. Some difficult dads are obvious. Often it is not obvious to outsiders. That is hard too, when a child feels that they should feel closer to their parent, but don't. you never know what the real feelings are - not usually, anyway. My own dad was not a touchy-feely person. I never called him Daddy, not after a certain age. Probably it was the way of the times - I was born in the fifties. Our best bonding was doing work and sledding together - yes, those are GREAT memories. I planted zinnias this year for the first time, he made a round zinnia flower bed for me many decades ago. Thanks Dad, that was how you expressed your love!!! now to you - you have a lack and you feel it - don't let it determine who you are. Holidays are tough. Hang in there. Last Edited by beeches on 07/04/2015 06:01 PM Liberalism is totalitarianism with a human face – Thomas Sowell |
A Concerned Citizen (OP) User ID: 68734067 United States 07/04/2015 05:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Facebook made a little post on my News Feed (yes, I'm still one of those wannabe conspiracy theorist people who embarrassingly still uses social media) and had a cartoon image of a little boy on his dad's shoulders waving an American flag and watching fireworks. It said, "We just want to wish you a fun day of stars, stripes and fireworks. Happy Fourth of July" Quoting: A Concerned Citizen I cried for quite a while when I saw that. Having been a Survivor of child abuse by my own father, I never once experienced that. I never once got to go to a fireworks show with my family. I realized that at 27 years old I'll never be a little child again to ride high up on someone's shoulders like that or to have bonding moments with my parents. I don't have any family or friends here locally to even spend the Fourth with. I'm spending the day in a motel 6 room, alone, I don't have a car and all the buses and rails are not running today because of the Holiday so I couldn't get anywhere if I wanted to. I was thinking of going down to the pool to go for a swim but there are a few families down there swimming and having a good time and it just reminded me how I don't have family to celebrate with. That's when I decided to make this post. I know I'm not the only one on here who is alone on this Holiday. I love this county, I still believe in the Greatness of America and what she stood for and can still become. I love Fourth of July and even have my own little American flag that I put out to remind me of the reason we celebrate. But I'm horribly alone and I know there are at least a handful of other lonely souls out there who don't have any money, don't have any bbq, don't have any fun family outings or community parties to attend and who will likely just be watching fireworks on TV or on YouTube later on. So to those of you who read this, from one Brother you may or may not have met yet, from a friend, Happy Fourth of July anyway and I hope wherever you are if you have family to be with please love them just a little harder for those of us who don't have anyone to love. Cherish them. I'm sure you already do but just remember so many of us have no one at all and please don't take them for granted. Even if they get on your nerves or might be "sheeple" relatives, still, love them for us okay? And thank you for stopping by my thread and keeping me a little company on this Holiday. I love each and every one of you. - CC You can come over and have a hamburger off the grill with me. I've got a 35 yo son that has no time or place for me and there is an empty spot open. I'd absolutely love that but that makes me sad about your boy that doesn't have time for you. I feel grieved just thinking about that and my heart and spirit go out to you on this Fourth. If I could I'd come take you up on that burger. I'm sure they are delicious! I'm waiting on a pizza. I only have three bucks but I have a slew of Papa Johns Rewards Points so I had enough for a free large 3 topping pizza! Haha def could still go for a burger too. That's what holidays are for is pigging out with the ones you love. |
WhiteLight User ID: 31252649 United States 07/04/2015 05:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thank you for your post and I AM right there with you.. wish I could have invited you here with me.. my son is 27 and just played out a massive betrayal on my home and livelihood. He is gone now never to return and I am sad beyond sad. Know that the good person you are will bring love and happiness to you and being honest and open without hate or accusation will be your road in the future. Find an older couple to help out and give them your time and strength to do the stuff for them that they may find difficult. When we are right in our minds and do service good comes back to you in spades. That is all that I wanted from my son and girlfriend and was abused, stolen from and left with very little to sell in the future to adjunct my SSI. I was giving them free room and board for the summer.. just for "helping out". I will be hurt for a long time. Much love to you and read books and go to places where good people gather. I would invite you to help me out here if you have time and want a Country experience. Stay positive. I am a Child of God |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 63235416 United States 07/04/2015 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Facebook made a little post on my News Feed (yes, I'm still one of those wannabe conspiracy theorist people who embarrassingly still uses social media) and had a cartoon image of a little boy on his dad's shoulders waving an American flag and watching fireworks. It said, "We just want to wish you a fun day of stars, stripes and fireworks. Happy Fourth of July" Quoting: A Concerned Citizen I cried for quite a while when I saw that. Having been a Survivor of child abuse by my own father, I never once experienced that. I never once got to go to a fireworks show with my family. I realized that at 27 years old I'll never be a little child again to ride high up on someone's shoulders like that or to have bonding moments with my parents. I don't have any family or friends here locally to even spend the Fourth with. I'm spending the day in a motel 6 room, alone, I don't have a car and all the buses and rails are not running today because of the Holiday so I couldn't get anywhere if I wanted to. I was thinking of going down to the pool to go for a swim but there are a few families down there swimming and having a good time and it just reminded me how I don't have family to celebrate with. That's when I decided to make this post. I know I'm not the only one on here who is alone on this Holiday. I love this county, I still believe in the Greatness of America and what she stood for and can still become. I love Fourth of July and even have my own little American flag that I put out to remind me of the reason we celebrate. But I'm horribly alone and I know there are at least a handful of other lonely souls out there who don't have any money, don't have any bbq, don't have any fun family outings or community parties to attend and who will likely just be watching fireworks on TV or on YouTube later on. So to those of you who read this, from one Brother you may or may not have met yet, from a friend, Happy Fourth of July anyway and I hope wherever you are if you have family to be with please love them just a little harder for those of us who don't have anyone to love. Cherish them. I'm sure you already do but just remember so many of us have no one at all and please don't take them for granted. Even if they get on your nerves or might be "sheeple" relatives, still, love them for us okay? And thank you for stopping by my thread and keeping me a little company on this Holiday. I love each and every one of you. - CC You are not alone in your struggles, experiences or pains. Our stories are similar...I only have my kiddos and fiance. You are LOVED!! Don't focus on what you don't have. Focus on what you DO have; you obviously have an amazing spirit and heart!! HAPPY 4TH OF JULY!!! |
A Concerned Citizen (OP) User ID: 68734067 United States 07/04/2015 05:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hugs to you ! Quoting: tiger1 Don't let the past get you down. A lot of people on this forum have had horrible childhoods,myself included, and they know how you feel. Look to the future, as it will be very bright for you! When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Hey lemonade sure does sound good on this hot Fourth of July evening! :) Thank you for the words of encouragement. |
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A Concerned Citizen (OP) User ID: 68734067 United States 07/04/2015 06:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thank you for your post and I AM right there with you.. wish I could have invited you here with me.. my son is 27 and just played out a massive betrayal on my home and livelihood. He is gone now never to return and I am sad beyond sad. Know that the good person you are will bring love and happiness to you and being honest and open without hate or accusation will be your road in the future. Find an older couple to help out and give them your time and strength to do the stuff for them that they may find difficult. When we are right in our minds and do service good comes back to you in spades. That is all that I wanted from my son and girlfriend and was abused, stolen from and left with very little to sell in the future to adjunct my SSI. I was giving them free room and board for the summer.. just for "helping out". I will be hurt for a long time. Much love to you and read books and go to places where good people gather. I would invite you to help me out here if you have time and want a Country experience. Stay positive. Quoting: WhiteLight My thoughts, love and prayers go out to you White Light. I am so so so sorry about the betrayal you've had to endure and I know how deeply that must hurt your heart. I'm a recovering drug Addict and I've done the same exact things as your son and his girlfriend did to people who love and supported me in my time of need. I've since gone back and made amends and am now two years clean and sober but I remember when the reality of the pain I caused actually set in, once the drugs finally wore off, and I saw what I had done, how I'd broken my mother's heart. I wanted to die when I saw the wreckage I'd done. I pray for your son and his girlfriend that they see, sooner than later, what their actions have wrought in your heart and that they may come back to seek true forgiveness and make amends. I hope wherever they are they are safe and may the Lord unite their hearts back to you. You will undoubtedly be recompensed for all you have lost by a thousand fold and it's your love that endures, your love that upholds, till the very end. I am so touched that even after all that you would offer me, a stranger, a room and a lovely country experience. It shows your heart, my friend, and it is more radiant than a thousand fourth of July night skies set ablaze by so many fireworks. Thank you and be blessed. |
A Concerned Citizen (OP) User ID: 68734067 United States 07/04/2015 06:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | anyone with an avatar as great as yours has to stay around, you know? I love that cat in a coat. Quoting: beeches Some of us had difficult dads. Some difficult dads are obvious. Often it is not obvious to outsiders. That is hard too, when a child feels that they should feel closer to their parent, but don't. you never know what the real feelings are - not usually, anyway. My own dad was not a touchy-feely person. I never called him Daddy, not after a certain age. Probably it was the way of the times - I was born in the fifties. Our best bonding was doing work and sledding together - yes, those are GREAT memories. I planted zinnias this year for the first time, he made a round zinnia flower bed for me many decades ago. Thanks Dad, that was how you expressed your love!!! now to you - you have a lack and you feel it - don't let it determine who you are. Holidays are tough. Hang in there. I know that one day me and my dad will be in Heaven and we will have a whole eternity to make up for lost time here in this short span of life. I forgive him. I do. I want the best for him. I know that some day we will have the relationship we never had in this world. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story about your dad and planting the zinnias. |
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A Concerned Citizen (OP) User ID: 68734067 United States 07/04/2015 06:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm spending the day in a motel 6 room, alone, I don't have a car and all the buses and rails are not running today because of the Holiday so I couldn't get anywhere if I wanted to. Quoting: A Concerned Citizen Look up at the sky tonight, OP. When the fireworks are going off, around 8 or 9 o'clock. We might not be watching the same fireworks, but we're watching the same stars. And when you think about it, they are so much more amazing than anything man could create. So we might be alone tonight, OP... but we are alone together. I absolutely love that line, Wordsworth. Very wise and very true. Thank you so much. I'll be remembering you and all my brothers and sisters here and elsewhere when the bombs start bursting in air tonight. |