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Face Palmer User ID: 1149868 ![]() 09/18/2015 06:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | However this will end, time to make new friends. "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 60572846 ![]() 09/18/2015 06:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The stepson and my son have both been charged with grievous body harm. Which is very serious I'm afraid your son is feeding you a story. If your son was trying to break it up don't you think the victim would have said so? The kids step father is an ex gang member with a huge criminal record. My son learnt to fight by a professional and has no reason to fight just for the sake of it. The poor other kid was brought up by grand parents as mother is a drug user /prostitute. The fight started on the street, hence why my son went over and tried today break it up, and then the step dad started punching my son. My son certainly isn't perfect, but has good morals ...and isn't a liar ....infact he tells me stuff I would rather not hear. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1000071 ![]() 09/18/2015 06:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The stepson and my son have both been charged with grievous body harm. Which is very serious I'm afraid your son is feeding you a story. If your son was trying to break it up don't you think the victim would have said so? The kids step father is an ex gang member with a huge criminal record. My son learnt to fight by a professional and has no reason to fight just for the sake of it. The poor other kid was brought up by grand parents as mother is a drug user /prostitute. The fight started on the street, hence why my son went over and tried today break it up, and then the step dad started punching my son. My son certainly isn't perfect, but has good morals ...and isn't a liar ....infact he tells me stuff I would rather not hear. How old is your son? Is there any way to prove the step dad started swinging at him first? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70240107 ![]() 09/18/2015 06:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The stepson and my son have both been charged with grievous body harm. Which is very serious I'm afraid your son is feeding you a story. If your son was trying to break it up don't you think the victim would have said so? The kids step father is an ex gang member with a huge criminal record. My son learnt to fight by a professional and has no reason to fight just for the sake of it. The poor other kid was brought up by grand parents as mother is a drug user /prostitute. The fight started on the street, hence why my son went over and tried today break it up, and then the step dad started punching my son. My son certainly isn't perfect, but has good morals ...and isn't a liar ....infact he tells me stuff I would rather not hear. What I hear you saying is that your son is the one who inflicted the grievous bodily harm. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70324376 ![]() 09/18/2015 07:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i will check this thread over the weekend to see if tou want to touch base i live in christchurch. also look up the site mwsip(mothers with sons in prison) there is a group in christchurch that meet fortnightly . they have no judgement just support ideas and resources |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70381433 ![]() 09/23/2015 06:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He tried to break up a fight between his acquaintance friend, and his acquaimtance's friend's step dad .....now it looks like my son is going to end up in jail. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 60572846 Any advice will be greatly appreciated. Please don't be nasty as I've shed enough tears already. considering.... his intent was good, his interpretation of the incident resulted in his participation. Doing what he did was the result of a situation which was out of hand. So he tried to help. If your a bystander, and take no action, that can be just as bad. His actions were not based on intent, just doing what any good citizen should do. Any negative out come, should be viewed as justified. Any negative out come, was justified or they are sending the wrong message to arbitrators. To do not involve your self to break up a possible dangerous situation. The result was based on real world situation, not clinical perfection. good luck. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70392165 ![]() 09/23/2015 06:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Thank your blessings your son is still alive, My brother got into a fight at a party in Christchurch, got stabbed and died, the guy who did it was gang related, mongrel mob. So count your blessing op |
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