Unkindness

I was always the new kid ,so I was bullied more than once and because it was never really addressed , I allowed this all through my growing up. I was comfortable with unkindness. I did not like it but was comfortable with it or I would have not let it have power over me.

Then around seven years ago God did something amazing with an internet forum. Around 2010 ,I became part of something I never dreamed of. I was introduced to a Cyber Mission Field. I use to cry and be upset all the time with the unkindness in htis place. Then after some toughening of my soul and Spirit , I saw something amazing in me and the posters.
I stopped crying and fought that ugliness with the Love of God. Some of those cyber bullies became my friends.
God allowed me to see when a person is unkind and they are broken , I am not. I was broken when I let those fiery words penetrate my heart. Their unhappiness had control over me and would make me unhappy.
I did not know who I was or Who I belonged to. When someone would be mean to me I learned to either ignored or gave a simile of a hug. We are all different and have different backgrounds. I have found bullies can come from bully environments.

One of the greatest freedom I have experienced in my walk with God, is not letting unkindness have power in my life. I now pray for those that do not know how to be kind. satan is the bully of all bullies and he uses people and things to make us feel unloved. God wins this battle field earth , until then try and let the attacks of this mean world have power. That is what Ephesians 6 is about.
Jesus is our best example of being bullied to death . He rose from that act long ago for us to rise with Him...

1John 1: 6 If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth.

Unkind people do not know who they walk with , until they know Who they could belong to.



I wrote this to someone that was bullied