1 Thessalonians 4:6 That no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. 7 For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. 8 He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us His holy Spirit.


Anytime we say or do anything in secret ,even if in our mind seems a good thing ,is wrong. If what we would say or do can not be done with the person there, needs to never be done or said. The Lord sees and hears all. He is very clear all we do and say the whole world will know one day. If we could ever get in our minds Who God really is and who we are in Him ,this world would have looked much different. We never do or say anything to a living thing. All we do or say is done to God ,that gave us access to His Holy Spirit. That understanding is what turned Saul into Paul. That is what makes the difference between darkness and Light...