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REPORT ABUSIVE REPLY
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Newly single dad of 6 mos after 20 years of marriage. How do I relate to my kids?
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MAN UP!!!!
Type on a conspiracy site lay blame on your spouse for YOUR failed marriage? Really? A failed marriage is always a two way street. PERIOD!
Now all you wanna do, is "be the best dad you can be"? Go fuck yourself. YOU failed at that many years ago.
Take up a bottle or sit in a honky tonk and cry baby cry.
Take a look in the mirror and find the problem (half). Starring back at "cha".
Now as for the kids wants? They sorely dont need a puss boy father leaching onto what is left of their childhood. You and the Misses ruined that for them already.
Here is some advice take it or leave it...
Find a hobby. Your kids will see a person who is becoming his own. Dont try to be a friend. Become a parent and in turn your kids will grow to respect you.
And to all the other posts with your wishy washy comments. Your are part of the big problem today.
take care OP and yes we all need to hear harsh words from time to time.
come to the swamp
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63535874 I have to agree with that part. As a teenage girl I didn't really 'hang out' with my parents other than on family trips. They also weren't prying into my friendships. I think I would have resented that because it would have made me feel like they didn't trust me. I came from a smallish town so they knew the parents of who I hung around with, and that's all they needed to know. Doing activities with my Dad as a teenage girl? Never really happened other than skiing in the winter. When my girls were 13,14,15, all their friends met here. I knew what they were doing and who they were with. My husband was absent 90% of the time because he did his own thing (military). They loved having their friends here in our home. I always fed them, and to this day, my kids still talk about all the good times and memories made here. I was also everyone's transportation to the skating rink, to the movies, and the swim/tennis club. They were good times.
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