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My dad died today

 
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Condolences.

My dad died when I was five. At least you had all those years together, and have the memories.
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Peace to you my dear during this time of great loss.
Ignorance is bliss until reality bites you in the ass.

I take care of the dead...always.
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May he rest in peace. May you find the peace that surpasses all understanding.
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I'm so sorry OP prayers and hugs to you and your family.
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And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while.

Thanks for letting me vent.

verysad
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So sorry for your loss...thinking of you.
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It's the right thing to do...grieve. Remember, cry, laughter, yel, sing..whatever helps. Miss him..Gid be with you
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Sorry for your loss OP...God bless your father...
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So sorry to hear that. Take good care of yourself. It's always such a shock even when you're prepared for it.
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And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while.

Thanks for letting me vent.

verysad
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It's always a bad day when Mom or Dad dies

very sorry

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04/26/2016 09:25 AM
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Many of us here have lost our dad. Being one as well there is an emptiness without him. I pray that you will receive comfort and peace in knowing that your brief absence of one another will met with an eternal - rejoining in an Eternal way.

My prayers - sincerely, to you

Jay / DFW
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And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while.

Thanks for letting me vent.

verysad
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Sorry for your loss.

It's going to hurt for a long time, thats nirmal. It wil get better but before that.

People will seem heartless in the way they talk about death and just throw the word out

the phases of moarning that they talk about are true

eventually you'll feel better and draw strength from all this.

your love for him will always last, so will his love for you.

Be strong and happy.....eventually. Your Dad will always want you ti be happy.
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And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while.

Thanks for letting me vent.

verysad
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Oh my goodness, bless your heart. I'm so sorry you have lost your Dad. Death is never easy, even when you know death is expected because of a terminal illness. I lost my mom that way and watching her suffer was not easy. Yes her death eased her pain but she was gone. Yes she's in a better place but I'm still here and she is not. I miss her to this day and she died in 2000.

It's a void and an emptiness that will remain with you the rest of your life. The pain will always be there. Time will help you live with the loss but you must grieve.

Please grieve now. There will be times from now on when you think of him and there will be an ache of grief and missing him.

Yes you are glad that he is no longer in pain and in a better place but your grief is for you, your loss. He's not here anymore. You miss him and will continue to miss him.
It's ok to grieve and you must to heal.

If you need to cry, avoid people, just be alone however you feel you need to grieve just do it. It's important. Look up the stages of grief online. It will help you. Bless you.

I see lots of good advice written here by others. Hope this helps a little.


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Sorry, OP. My dad also died on 23rd April, 32 years ago when I was 14. I still think about him every day and have loads of happy memories. You will too.
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And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while.

Thanks for letting me vent.

verysad
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I am sorry for your loss. Don't let anyone tell you how to grieve or for how long. For everyone it's different and there is no set timeframe for that. Grieving your loss Is important and should not be cut short by others who tell you how you should feel. I am really sorry for your loss.
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My heart goes out to you. May time heal.
When the law no longer protects you from the corrupt, but protects the corrupt from you--You know your nation is doomed.
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And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while.

Thanks for letting me vent.

verysad
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verysad
So sorry .......
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Spoonful of Sugar - I am so sorry for you and your family.
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I'm sorry for your loss!!

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I'm sending peace and love to you. That first year is bad all the holidays ans sometimes it will hit you out of the blue like when your driving. Its ok there is no shame in crying... The love of a parent to child is something that noone can replace.hf
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I'm so sorry. Take time to deal with this in whatever way is best for you. No one has the right to pressure you or judge you.

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Sincere condolences, OP.
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Sorry for your loss OP. hugs

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Sorry to hear that, and you're right everyone needs to grieve for awhile
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And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while.

Thanks for letting me vent.

verysad
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My condolences.

RIP
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And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while.

Thanks for letting me vent.

verysad
 Quoting: Spoonful of Sugar


hfblwkss
“In finding balance between lies and trust
there will never be a better source
than to speak your truth
or make your peace some other way.”
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*hugs* hf sorry for your loss and take whatever time you need to feel what you need
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Sincerest sympathies to you and your family OP.
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And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while.

Thanks for letting me vent.

verysad
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Im so sorry for your loss and your dad is in a better place. Praying for peace for you and your family.
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condolences OP..





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