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Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?

 
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04/25/2016 03:51 AM
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Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
In this dream I saw fight, some dudes were hiting some guy with baseball bat. And I did nothing except telling 'don't do it!'. I'm good guy. That's for sure. But that's all. I feel sorry for myself that I'm man like this. What if a girl would be the targer? What would I do?

This is it. It's over, I have to change, I have to change my life, I have to grow some balls, I have to become a man I always wanted to be!!

For fuck sake, I'm a lousy passive dude who is seeking only the easy way out. I can see that know. The problem isn't world, the problem isn't people. It's me ffs. I can't get a job? It's just because I don't have courage to find one. I can't get fit? It's because I'm lazy ass whining bitch.

I can say that the only good thing I can find in myself it's that I can help people, I like to do it and also I'm kind of pround about relationship with my girlfriend. And sex.

But everything else is a total crap. Even my english is so poor so I doubt you can understand me.



FRIENDS, what can I do to become better man, to be someone you could rely on. I want to be respected, I don't want to be only some guy who exists. Help me please! What can I do? What can I watch, what can I read to rock my world?
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
You seem pretty cool to me. You must be doing something right !

hf
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
You seem pretty cool to me. You must be doing something right !

hf
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hf Not enough
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
You are doing very good in looking at yourself of how you act and do in your dreams. Because dreams are real, that person in that dream is you. When that dream is not lucid it shows your true heart.

Next step is changing. Simply say to yourself that next time you will get into a situation like that you will step up to defend that other person. If you successfully intergrate this into your heart then the next time you dream about this it will be different.
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
And the meek shall inherit the earth..Many assume the term means weak, tame, or deficient in courage. But the biblical understanding of meekness is power under control.
Live your life do not search for trouble, trouble will be on your doorstep soon enough!
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04/25/2016 08:20 AM
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
5 stars for recognising "the problem".

Though i dont see a big problem here and please dont change to the opposite side and become aggressive or a bully.
What you need to do IMO is one step per time, find what is the first usual thing or behaviour that you want to change and chose an easy one to start with. When you succeed in this then move to a more difficult step and so on.

Maybe with your character the "dont do it!" in a clear, calm but determined voice can bring the same results. I know it works for me.
Ostria
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
In this dream I saw fight, some dudes were hiting some guy with baseball bat. And I did nothing except telling 'don't do it!'. I'm good guy. That's for sure. But that's all. I feel sorry for myself that I'm man like this. What if a girl would be the targer? What would I do?

This is it. It's over, I have to change, I have to change my life, I have to grow some balls, I have to become a man I always wanted to be!!

For fuck sake, I'm a lousy passive dude who is seeking only the easy way out. I can see that know. The problem isn't world, the problem isn't people. It's me ffs. I can't get a job? It's just because I don't have courage to find one. I can't get fit? It's because I'm lazy ass whining bitch.

I can say that the only good thing I can find in myself it's that I can help people, I like to do it and also I'm kind of pround about relationship with my girlfriend. And sex.

But everything else is a total crap. Even my english is so poor so I doubt you can understand me.




FRIENDS, what can I do to become better man, to be someone you could rely on. I want to be respected, I don't want to be only some guy who exists. Help me please! What can I do? What can I watch, what can I read to rock my world?
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The blue part is excellent! It shows you taking a look at yourself and deciding to make a change! Awesome!

But the red part is pathetic. Here you backpedal from your newfound determination to reclaim your manhood and ask for a fucking leader to follow.

It is YOU who hold the key to empowering yourself, as soon as you think someone else holds that key, you already lost.
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04/25/2016 07:29 PM
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
find a good martial arts teacher you like.
Go schlepp yourself there every week for the next
2 years.

That should bring self-confidence and more agency
in other areas as well
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04/25/2016 07:34 PM
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
Sounds like you know yourself better than most people know themselves OP, and that's a brave thing.
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04/25/2016 07:55 PM
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
I've been reading a lot about German resistance to the Nazis because I wonder how that could have happened.

The government and the media worked together to create an atmosphere in which very few had the courage to rebel.

The government used all kinds of tactics which will sound alarmingly familiar to anyone who care to research the topic.

I do this because I pray I would have the courage to stand up for what is right, rather than cower.

As one young rebel said, right before she was put to death, 'so many have died for the Nazis, it's time someone dies against them'.

Also, my siblings and I helped our mom throughout her long death due to emphysema. My brother said, 'Makes the thought of taking a bullet for your country easier to bear'.

I also ask for courage.
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
OP, you sound great to me! (And your English is fine. When I went to Poland (fantastic country!) my Polish was so bad that I kept coming home with weird food, because I couldn't remember the words. I once asked for 'Three post offices, please', in a bakery. :))

Being honest, and seeing 'There are things in myself I could improve', is a much, much better thing than the ability to start fighting.
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
i wouldnt jump in that shit so i could get hit with a bat dude fuck that

for all you know the guy getting hit could have brought it on himself

dream interpretation doesnt always work because the interpretations are usually influenced by how the dreamer feels

dont be so hard on yourself
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04/25/2016 09:42 PM
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
Work out really hard in the gym. Pray the prayer in Matthew 24.
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Re: Tonight I had a dream, I was so passive, this describes my whole life, how to change it?
Thank you guys!! :)





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