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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70321915 United States 10/19/2016 09:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "I read another article from the womans perspective that being out of the work force for so long is like having no resume at all, so she probably feels like its too late." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73219912 ------------ I've you've been a mooch all your life, you may have to start in a position below CEO and then work your way up. Like other people. You can always find excuses and you can always find a job. If she raised successful children, that's not a mooch, Meanwhile I know of professionals that raised kids whove grown and contributed nothing to society, They just party and do drugs cause their Dad made so much money and spoiled them and they hate work cause their Dad was away all the time. You never know how kids turn out. And if you raise a professional athlete, someone has to be their home coach and trainer and take them to all the meets and practices. Ive known a few retirees that have done that too with their aspiring teenage athletes. Raising someone in sports with a goal of sports scholarship is like a full time job |
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BRIEF User ID: 39607259 United States 01/13/2020 08:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Taking care of kids at home until they start school = good housewife Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2335933 Laying on the couch, eating bon bons and watching soap operas after kids are in school = lazy mooch who needs to be divorced I had to hire a housekeeper because my ex-cunt wouldn't clean... I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78211917 United Kingdom 01/13/2020 08:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | its just more propaganda to get women to work just as many hrs as men in "the workforce"... This is typical mainstream media globalist agenda that destroys the traditional family when the an is the breadwinner and the women nurtures the kids looks after the house work. The problem is MEN NO LONGER GET PAID WHAT THEY SHOULD BE IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE THEIR TRADITIONAL ROLE. And that has a lot to do with globalist agenda pandering and telling women that men get paid way too much and that in order for men and womens pay to be equal corporations need to lower mens wages. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78321438 United States 01/13/2020 08:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Husband is working his butt off while his wife goes and does as she pleases. That's not how you compromise or sacrifice in a successful marriage. If she is going to be a housewife, then she needs to be taking care of the kids and things around the house with exception to certain things such as major home repairs. And take care of her husband to take stress off of him. No reason he should be working, and then coming home to take on more. I'm a housewife, cook daily, clean, laundry, take care of kids, pets, husband. I love it. My family loves it. I push mow an acre in 100 degree weather just so my husband doesn't have to after working all day. Because I love him and appreciate him for being a provider. He definitely needs to explain to her instead of writing a useless letter that either she starts helping financially or their way of living will be changing dramatically. Smaller house, less savings, no going out with her friends or unnecessary trips, no eating out, no vacations, no new/expensive clothing, electronics, etc etc... most times people in this man's situation live well above their means and are elbow deep in debt and consumerism. Shame on them both. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78060222 United States 01/13/2020 09:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to www.theguardian.com (secure)] Quoting: Huh 68596526 I can't believe that The Guardian actually posted this. Reality. So he's bitching and moaning that he's a man and doing what he is supposed to be doing? His wife gave him children. He has clean clothes. Wonder why? He has a clean house I'm sure. Wonder why? He has dinner on the table when he gets home probably. Wonder why? If him and his wife never met or she didn't exist, he would still be working! WTF is wrong with some men? I just don't understand |
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komeet holmes User ID: 78326776 Belgium 01/13/2020 09:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All this man has to to is find out what he really wants to do with the rest of his life and make an (escape) plan. He is a lawyer, he is clever enough. He should stop being considering himself as a victim, as long as he is pointing to his lazy wive, he will not succeed nor will he find happiness. He can start with working less hours, so he has time to figure it all out. When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it. Paulo Coelho |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75681556 United States 01/13/2020 10:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thankfully, men are starting to notice in greater numbers what a raw deal they have in marriage. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64480654 I thought for decades I was the only one who saw it. Now it's popping up all over the place. Men are finally starting to get it. And look at the women on this thread who have to demean men who work. What losers. Crazy thing is, before women's lib, a good strong man didn't want his wife working outside of the house. The woman's job was taking care of the home and in return, the husband provided financially for the family. Women decided they wanted to get out and work and that really was okay too, as long as the kids were taken care of or were old enough to do so on their own. The problem is that women today don't want any responsibility but want all of the rewards. They want the rewards of being financially taken care of by their husband but they don't want to do any work around the house. They sit on their ass all day and watch real housewives (again, a show that they wish to emulate) and then bitch and moan that they don't have enough money to buy bullshit that will help them outdo their friends. Of course, this is not all women but it has sadly become the norm. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 54469829 United States 01/13/2020 10:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to www.theguardian.com (secure)] Quoting: Huh 68596526 I can't believe that The Guardian actually posted this. Reality. So he's bitching and moaning that he's a man and doing what he is supposed to be doing? His wife gave him children. He has clean clothes. Wonder why? He has a clean house I'm sure. Wonder why? He has dinner on the table when he gets home probably. Wonder why? If him and his wife never met or she didn't exist, he would still be working! WTF is wrong with some men? I just don't understand Exactly. Men think all this comes for FREE. Well, just having a baby guarantees that you will work the equivalent of 2 1/2 full times jobs right there - for 3-4 years until the kid can get somewhat self-sufficient and in preschool. Then they get more on top of that. Screw this guy. Hope he has a heart attack and his wife rakes it all in after he goes. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75232000 Netherlands 01/13/2020 11:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Husband is working his butt off while his wife goes and does as she pleases. That's not how you compromise or sacrifice in a successful marriage. If she is going to be a housewife, then she needs to be taking care of the kids and things around the house with exception to certain things such as major home repairs. And take care of her husband to take stress off of him. No reason he should be working, and then coming home to take on more. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78321438 I'm a housewife, cook daily, clean, laundry, take care of kids, pets, husband. I love it. My family loves it. I push mow an acre in 100 degree weather just so my husband doesn't have to after working all day. Because I love him and appreciate him for being a provider. He definitely needs to explain to her instead of writing a useless letter that either she starts helping financially or their way of living will be changing dramatically. Smaller house, less savings, no going out with her friends or unnecessary trips, no eating out, no vacations, no new/expensive clothing, electronics, etc etc... most times people in this man's situation live well above their means and are elbow deep in debt and consumerism. Shame on them both. Useless letter? Shame on them both? Are you retarded? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72364422 United States 01/13/2020 11:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to www.theguardian.com (secure)] Quoting: Huh 68596526 I can't believe that The Guardian actually posted this. Reality. Wow...great letter. As a married woman, I understand completely. Women’s Lib has always been rubbish. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78321438 United States 01/13/2020 12:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Husband is working his butt off while his wife goes and does as she pleases. That's not how you compromise or sacrifice in a successful marriage. If she is going to be a housewife, then she needs to be taking care of the kids and things around the house with exception to certain things such as major home repairs. And take care of her husband to take stress off of him. No reason he should be working, and then coming home to take on more. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78321438 I'm a housewife, cook daily, clean, laundry, take care of kids, pets, husband. I love it. My family loves it. I push mow an acre in 100 degree weather just so my husband doesn't have to after working all day. Because I love him and appreciate him for being a provider. He definitely needs to explain to her instead of writing a useless letter that either she starts helping financially or their way of living will be changing dramatically. Smaller house, less savings, no going out with her friends or unnecessary trips, no eating out, no vacations, no new/expensive clothing, electronics, etc etc... most times people in this man's situation live well above their means and are elbow deep in debt and consumerism. Shame on them both. Useless letter? Shame on them both? Are you retarded? If you considering me thinking that the man should be a man and lay out how it is, and handle his stuff instead of writing a letter describing his feelings about her working will make him feel loved all the while enabling things to get to the point it did makes me retarded then yes, I am in fact retarded. |
VV User ID: 78341983 Germany 01/13/2020 02:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What this guy has to do is plan an exit from the parasite. And plan it so well that the parasite may actually have to do that icky "work" stuff to keep cramming cake into her face. You don't have to be a victim to a lazy, exploitive parasite (i.e. a housewife). Change it. Change your name and move to a different country if you think that family court is going to award her everything just because she's a woman (and they may well do it). I have to laugh at the parasites here who are asking, "what is wrong with that man". Can you get any more egotistical and selfish? Can you only see your own point of view (me, me, me, I want some man to pay for me while I am free to structure my life like I want to - so I am against this stuff). Unbelievable. |
VV User ID: 78341983 Germany 01/13/2020 03:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And for the real "he-men" posting about how supporting a lazy parasite is just a man's job in life ... are you moronic? Why would you think that supporting some little POS is in any way heroic. You are just getting manipulated. I have seen men with wives who say the nastiest things about them behind their back. Who sleep with the tennis instructor. Who do whatever they want while making fun of stupid because he just plods along to work. Why would you want that? Why don't you just find a piece of dog poop and then guard it with your life. You'll get the same sense of heroism. You are truly a Real Man for guarding that piece of dog poop. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76538212 United States 01/13/2020 03:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've never had kids, I'm 61 now female. Worked most of my younger years in low wage jobs. Husband is also low wage/hard labor(Dock work). A lazy housewife is one thing, boot her to the curb. A real housewife with kids or without will tell you they hardly ever sit down, from dawn to hours after their husband has fallen asleep in his lounge chair she toils. There is ALWAYS a dish to wash, a meal to cook, a floor to clean, laundry to be done, toilets to scrub, porches and lawns to care for, sewing, prepping food for storage, gardening, I have chickens and turkey to feed and gather eggs and wash eggs and date them for the fridge. I can sit here and list another 100 or so tasks that require attention well after husband has dozed off. Your so tired by midnight or 2am that you fold down the bed and make him go to bed properly then you slip quietly into bed not to disturb him as your body aches and then heavens forbid you wake him an are up for another 30 minutes doing the nasty, when all you crave was sleep. 8am starts all over again. You don't even get to slow down on the weekend like he does, and if he's home on the weekend he will make more mess for you to clean up. I love my husband, we are old now and have been married 30 years, but really by Sunday night I do find myself thankful that his weekend mess making stops and on Monday he goes back to work. Having even one husband is exactly like a kid underfoot most days. If you both get sick, your up on your feet trying to make sure he gets better without regard to your own health. Lots of you men keep putting down females like we are exact copies of each other, we are NOT. You maybe have never met a real woman or real devoted housewife before. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78343227 Austria 01/13/2020 04:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And for the real "he-men" posting about how supporting a lazy parasite is just a man's job in life ... are you moronic? Quoting: VV 78341983 Why would you think that supporting some little POS is in any way heroic. You are just getting manipulated. I have seen men with wives who say the nastiest things about them behind their back. Who sleep with the tennis instructor. Who do whatever they want while making fun of stupid because he just plods along to work. Why would you want that? Why don't you just find a piece of dog poop and then guard it with your life. You'll get the same sense of heroism. You are truly a Real Man for guarding that piece of dog poop. If a woman behaves like shit, her partner simply is to weak to control her. Women are fine if you are no weakling. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76984449 United States 01/13/2020 04:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you guys really think he is going to be loved better if his wife is tired from a job? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72503606 Obviously the marriage is in crisis but the wife working will not make it better. Teenage children are more exhausting than babies but in a different way. Looking after families is not so easy to quantify as a paid job. It is because it is a caring situation......and we all know caring is not worth anything in the modern world. After my third child went to school I thought to get work .I would have earn't a reasonable amount but my husband took off the cost of running the car and other expenses and said it was not worth it. I concluded he would rather I was at home cooking him lunch,looking after the home ,family and answering the phone continually. I went along with this and we had another child instead. You may as well get used to it as muslim countries prefer their wives at home and remember you will have to drive them to the shops. In other words stop whining and love your wives and trust in the Good God to provide. The husband once asked me what I did all day ? I replied sleep in a lay-bye like you do. Yeah. She’d be even more tired if he expected her to work and take care of the kids and house. Only way it would work is if they split everything down the middle. He had better be able to cook and clean and take off from his job when the kids get sick. And they are always sick when they start school. If they have a maid and cook then no problem. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76984449 United States 01/13/2020 04:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some of the most petty, childish, greedy and superficial people I have known in my life were housewives. They don't seem to care what people think, as long as they don't have to work. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64897417 Honestly who cares. It’s between the husband and wife. Why not care about welfare leeches who we all have to support. I don’t care about housewives because I don’t have to support them. And they leave jobs for others who actually need them. |
beeches User ID: 77354011 United States 01/13/2020 04:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've never had kids, I'm 61 now female. Worked most of my younger years in low wage jobs. Husband is also low wage/hard labor(Dock work). Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76538212 A lazy housewife is one thing, boot her to the curb. A real housewife with kids or without will tell you they hardly ever sit down, from dawn to hours after their husband has fallen asleep in his lounge chair she toils. There is ALWAYS a dish to wash, a meal to cook, a floor to clean, laundry to be done, toilets to scrub, porches and lawns to care for, sewing, prepping food for storage, gardening, I have chickens and turkey to feed and gather eggs and wash eggs and date them for the fridge. I can sit here and list another 100 or so tasks that require attention well after husband has dozed off. Your so tired by midnight or 2am that you fold down the bed and make him go to bed properly then you slip quietly into bed not to disturb him as your body aches and then heavens forbid you wake him an are up for another 30 minutes doing the nasty, when all you crave was sleep. 8am starts all over again. You don't even get to slow down on the weekend like he does, and if he's home on the weekend he will make more mess for you to clean up. I love my husband, we are old now and have been married 30 years, but really by Sunday night I do find myself thankful that his weekend mess making stops and on Monday he goes back to work. Having even one husband is exactly like a kid underfoot most days. If you both get sick, your up on your feet trying to make sure he gets better without regard to your own health. Lots of you men keep putting down females like we are exact copies of each other, we are NOT. You maybe have never met a real woman or real devoted housewife before. congratulations on having the egg layers. A woman's work is never done, you are right. another time of day for love would be better, but my goodness, you are doing so much right! bless you and him. Liberalism is totalitarianism with a human face – Thomas Sowell |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76984449 United States 01/13/2020 04:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have small children, so working would only pay for daycare, so I raise my children and take care of the house. Quoting: WickedWitch To make money just to help out I watch a couple other children during the day. Its income and I get to be home with my kids. That’s awesome. So many people having children and letting daycare raise them. Why even have children? Live a simple life so one can stay home. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76984449 United States 01/13/2020 04:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I could never understand why the state gives women such a huge club to use on the man. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68565380 Morally, she should give him some help. Legally, she can just destroy him and take his money and he will even pay for her attorney to do it. If women are such children then maybe they shouldn't get the advantages of grown-ups (like being able to vote). I personally believe that women are capable of taking responsibility, so I can only shake my head at court practices that exist. I read another article from the womans perspective that being out of the work force for so long is like having no resume at all, so she probably feels like its too late. How bout they simplify their life and downsize when the husband chooses a position he likes more. If you don't have young expensive kids in the house anymore, then theres not much two adults need and he can tell her to clip coupons and to stop eating out, Its not the end of the world to be frugal Downsizing is the answer. |