I realize what you have done here and it is unfortunately true.

Women want their cake and eat it too.

Men, they get tired of this crap and dump them if they have any backbone.

Welcome to the New Age of dating brought to you by a social culture that tells women they can have that cake and they can eat all of it. And, if a man says otherwise he is a masochistic pig and not worth your time.

I won't date a single female I feel is tainted by this current paradigm and havent.

Problem you run into is that many women have caught onto this reverse paradigm where good men are tired of it, so they put on a front that they are different. They will play the part as long as possible to get that wallet to commit to them for life. Then they have you. Divorce? Half. Half of everything as the courts are universally sympathetic to women.

So, you have to test them and test their patience in dating. I know one couple as we speak where the woman--woman whom I know is a fraud--is milking this poor soul as long as she can (3 years almost) for that commitment. He won't commit. I haven't told him how she really is--just wants the "western life" and will ditch his ugly butt as fast as she can if he ever gave her less. He has too much to lose to risk messing up.