I'm curious.

I have no sex drive. I have no interest in sex or sexuality. I have been married twice to the same man and have two sons who are 19 and 21 years old.

When I was a young woman, I thought that romance and working together to create a better life for yourself and your children were the points to marriage. My husband and the other men I dated while we were divorced didn't seem to be able to see very far down the road. They tended to live for the here and now.

I did fornicate when I was younger outside of marriage.

Now, I am 42 and I have no sex drive. I have been disavowed of my romantic notions and I think that if I can survive long enough to reach 65 or 70, I will be extremely ready to die. I have been where I wanted to go home to live with Heavenly Father and Lord Jesus and Lord Holy Spirit now because of things that were going on that were beyond my control and were very grievous and scary to me.

I have no hunger for sex, no desire to have sex and no desire to be intimate with another person any longer. I do desire companionship still and I have that with my husband, but I think that a woman entering a relationship with a man expecting him to work with her to create a positive future for them both is most likely deceiving herself.

If your sex drive left you and you were no longer fueled by any kind of horniness, what would change about your thinking and your feeling about the world around you. I think that women are very lucky and that a lot of us do lose our sex drive a lot as we age. Then, we get this chance to see the world without the edge of desperation that comes with the sex drive. It's very liberating.

Men don't seem to be able to think these thoughts. They have their ego and their sexuality linked in a way that makes these kinds of thoughts scary to them and threatening to them. I think that's a mistake. It prevents you from being able to step into old age and be an elder. It keeps you trapped in some behaviors that do damage to both yourself and others and men don't seem to be intelligent enough to stop doing it.

How would you be changed if you stopped being driven by horniness?