What word do white people have that justifies violent?

Who? ~ What? ~ Where? ~ When? ~ How? ~ Why?

When I was really little, I tried to stand up and pee like my dad did. I remember the moment vividly, my dad laughing, my mother saying that I wanted to be just like him.
It was funny the first time, but I didn't much like the pee running down my legs. I was a girl, now a grown woman. I grew up to be very much like my father, but I learnt to pee sitting down, or squatting.That's how it works. I'm female, and nothing will change that.