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Dealing with psycho/stalker family...

 
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First let me just say that, I don't want to bash my grandma. I love the woman AS MY GRANDMA, but she is a crazy ass woman. Psychotic actually.

So today, I was washing the dishes, watching my son. When I saw a car pull int he driveway. I didn't recognize who it was but as it pulled in front of my house, it was my grandma. I said to myself "shit" getting my son, phone, and heading to my room. I watched out the window as she kept knocking, calling for me. I remembered the door was unlocked, so I crept real quiet to the door, being careful not to make the floorboards creak, and slowwwllyy locked it. She is the kind of woman that would come in wether you're there or not. So I waited and waited for her to leave, but not before she wrote me a note and slipped it on the door. 15 minutes later I came out from hiding, and read the note. It was innocent enough, her telling me she came by to visit at 2:35, leaving her number and what not.

Any person who doesn't know my family history would say "Why the hell did you hide from your grandma? that's messed up." But what you don't understand is who she is. She's a calculating, condescending, nosy, fake, sociopath of a woman. She's held guns to my fathers head when he was young, and treated him, along with me and my siblings as we got older, like shit. This is the same woman who locked me out of her apartment at night when I was about 6 for crying because I missed my parents. She waits till adults are out of the room and she attacks. Or she will pretend to be real sweet at first to suck you in, and BAM she attacks. I used to always try to go see my grandmother. Offering to bring her food and come to her apartment to see her. But she always promised things and came up with one bs excuse after another as to why she couldn't see me. She could see me, she just didn't want to. I would find out that she was seeing my dad all these days she told me she was "busy". Anyways I won't go into anymore detail about her, except for that when my mother and father were married, my father's mom would do the same thing to them. She would stalk them. She would show up unannounced, and if my mom didn't answer the door (she was scared of her, rightfully so) my grandmother would pound the door, yelling and shouting at my mom. That's the tip of the iceberg.

So I was in the process of cutting ties with her and my father. I finally gathered the strength to stop being used only when she needed me, and began to ignore her calls and texts. Well my father just moved out of the state, and he was her victim. Her supply, if you will. And now that he's gone, me and my family are her next victim..... OMG Help.... Me...
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First let me just say that, I don't want to bash my grandma. I love the woman AS MY GRANDMA, but she is a crazy ass woman. Psychotic actually.

So today, I was washing the dishes, watching my son. When I saw a car pull int he driveway. I didn't recognize who it was but as it pulled in front of my house, it was my grandma. I said to myself "shit" getting my son, phone, and heading to my room. I watched out the window as she kept knocking, calling for me. I remembered the door was unlocked, so I crept real quiet to the door, being careful not to make the floorboards creak, and slowwwllyy locked it. She is the kind of woman that would come in wether you're there or not. So I waited and waited for her to leave, but not before she wrote me a note and slipped it on the door. 15 minutes later I came out from hiding, and read the note. It was innocent enough, her telling me she came by to visit at 2:35, leaving her number and what not.

Any person who doesn't know my family history would say "Why the hell did you hide from your grandma? that's messed up." But what you don't understand is who she is. She's a calculating, condescending, nosy, fake, sociopath of a woman. She's held guns to my fathers head when he was young, and treated him, along with me and my siblings as we got older, like shit. This is the same woman who locked me out of her apartment at night when I was about 6 for crying because I missed my parents. She waits till adults are out of the room and she attacks. Or she will pretend to be real sweet at first to suck you in, and BAM she attacks. I used to always try to go see my grandmother. Offering to bring her food and come to her apartment to see her. But she always promised things and came up with one bs excuse after another as to why she couldn't see me. She could see me, she just didn't want to. I would find out that she was seeing my dad all these days she told me she was "busy". Anyways I won't go into anymore detail about her, except for that when my mother and father were married, my father's mom would do the same thing to them. She would stalk them. She would show up unannounced, and if my mom didn't answer the door (she was scared of her, rightfully so) my grandmother would pound the door, yelling and shouting at my mom. That's the tip of the iceberg.

So I was in the process of cutting ties with her and my father. I finally gathered the strength to stop being used only when she needed me, and began to ignore her calls and texts. Well my father just moved out of the state, and he was her victim. Her supply, if you will. And now that he's gone, me and my family are her next victim..... OMG Help.... Me...
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 68261503


Just be super blunt and direct with her and tell her to fuck off or you will restraining order her. With people like that, unless you are cold as ice and direct, you will always be their victim.

Time to pull of the mask and fight fire with fire.
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Matthew 10

34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

38 And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.

39 He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.
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First let me just say that, I don't want to bash my grandma. I love the woman AS MY GRANDMA, but she is a crazy ass woman. Psychotic actually.

So today, I was washing the dishes, watching my son. When I saw a car pull int he driveway. I didn't recognize who it was but as it pulled in front of my house, it was my grandma. I said to myself "shit" getting my son, phone, and heading to my room. I watched out the window as she kept knocking, calling for me. I remembered the door was unlocked, so I crept real quiet to the door, being careful not to make the floorboards creak, and slowwwllyy locked it. She is the kind of woman that would come in wether you're there or not. So I waited and waited for her to leave, but not before she wrote me a note and slipped it on the door. 15 minutes later I came out from hiding, and read the note. It was innocent enough, her telling me she came by to visit at 2:35, leaving her number and what not.

Any person who doesn't know my family history would say "Why the hell did you hide from your grandma? that's messed up." But what you don't understand is who she is. She's a calculating, condescending, nosy, fake, sociopath of a woman. She's held guns to my fathers head when he was young, and treated him, along with me and my siblings as we got older, like shit. This is the same woman who locked me out of her apartment at night when I was about 6 for crying because I missed my parents. She waits till adults are out of the room and she attacks. Or she will pretend to be real sweet at first to suck you in, and BAM she attacks. I used to always try to go see my grandmother. Offering to bring her food and come to her apartment to see her. But she always promised things and came up with one bs excuse after another as to why she couldn't see me. She could see me, she just didn't want to. I would find out that she was seeing my dad all these days she told me she was "busy". Anyways I won't go into anymore detail about her, except for that when my mother and father were married, my father's mom would do the same thing to them. She would stalk them. She would show up unannounced, and if my mom didn't answer the door (she was scared of her, rightfully so) my grandmother would pound the door, yelling and shouting at my mom. That's the tip of the iceberg.

So I was in the process of cutting ties with her and my father. I finally gathered the strength to stop being used only when she needed me, and began to ignore her calls and texts. Well my father just moved out of the state, and he was her victim. Her supply, if you will. And now that he's gone, me and my family are her next victim..... OMG Help.... Me...
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 68261503


Just be super blunt and direct with her and tell her to fuck off or you will restraining order her. With people like that, unless you are cold as ice and direct, you will always be their victim.

Time to pull of the mask and fight fire with fire.
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You're right. She doesn't get the hint. So i guess thats the only solution. Shes a very toxic woman.
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Matthew 10

34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

38 And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.

39 He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.
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I love it! Thanks.hf
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Was it because you were ignoring her calls and texts that she felt the need to leave her phone number on the note?

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First let me just say that, I don't want to bash my grandma. I love the woman AS MY GRANDMA, but she is a crazy ass woman. Psychotic actually.

So today, I was washing the dishes, watching my son. When I saw a car pull int he driveway. I didn't recognize who it was but as it pulled in front of my house, it was my grandma. I said to myself "shit" getting my son, phone, and heading to my room. I watched out the window as she kept knocking, calling for me. I remembered the door was unlocked, so I crept real quiet to the door, being careful not to make the floorboards creak, and slowwwllyy locked it. She is the kind of woman that would come in wether you're there or not. So I waited and waited for her to leave, but not before she wrote me a note and slipped it on the door. 15 minutes later I came out from hiding, and read the note. It was innocent enough, her telling me she came by to visit at 2:35, leaving her number and what not.

Any person who doesn't know my family history would say "Why the hell did you hide from your grandma? that's messed up." But what you don't understand is who she is. She's a calculating, condescending, nosy, fake, sociopath of a woman. She's held guns to my fathers head when he was young, and treated him, along with me and my siblings as we got older, like shit. This is the same woman who locked me out of her apartment at night when I was about 6 for crying because I missed my parents. She waits till adults are out of the room and she attacks. Or she will pretend to be real sweet at first to suck you in, and BAM she attacks. I used to always try to go see my grandmother. Offering to bring her food and come to her apartment to see her. But she always promised things and came up with one bs excuse after another as to why she couldn't see me. She could see me, she just didn't want to. I would find out that she was seeing my dad all these days she told me she was "busy". Anyways I won't go into anymore detail about her, except for that when my mother and father were married, my father's mom would do the same thing to them. She would stalk them. She would show up unannounced, and if my mom didn't answer the door (she was scared of her, rightfully so) my grandmother would pound the door, yelling and shouting at my mom. That's the tip of the iceberg.

So I was in the process of cutting ties with her and my father. I finally gathered the strength to stop being used only when she needed me, and began to ignore her calls and texts. Well my father just moved out of the state, and he was her victim. Her supply, if you will. And now that he's gone, me and my family are her next victim..... OMG Help.... Me...
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 68261503


Just be super blunt and direct with her and tell her to fuck off or you will restraining order her. With people like that, unless you are cold as ice and direct, you will always be their victim.

Time to pull of the mask and fight fire with fire.
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 14771203

You're right. She doesn't get the hint. So i guess thats the only solution. Shes a very toxic woman.
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I definitely know the type. I am so sorry, I hope every thing works out for you.
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Matthew 10

34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

38 And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.

39 He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.
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I love it! Thanks.hf
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 68261503


Cool

:)

It's happening all over the world, right now.
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Matthew 10

34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

38 And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.

39 He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 72257654


I love it! Thanks.hf
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 68261503


Cool

:)

It's happening all over the world, right now.
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Indeed the destruction of the family unit through social engineering and programming, and the destruction of morality in pop culture.
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Matthew 10

34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

38 And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.

39 He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 72257654


I love it! Thanks.hf
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 68261503


Cool

:)

It's happening all over the world, right now.
 Quoting: Deplorable Anonymous Coward 72257654


I know. Its crazy. Its a blessing in disguise though. Cause people show their true colors, and the suffering brings us closer to our reward
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