Beware the Narcissists Sociopaths Psychopaths!

Ann Barnhardt's video on diabolical narcissists talks nothing about romantic or spousal relationship, but touch on a much wider epidemics of zombie apocalypse of demonic possession in the form of diabolical narcissism that's widespread through the whole goverment, the vaticans, the homosexual world, libtardism, feminism, Islam, and how many (you can see in GLPers too) are what she called Beta diabolical narcissists who seek to be extreme loyal followers of alpha diabolical narcissist.

Ann Barnhardt's video is more nearer to the conspiracists' theories except when she told that JFK was a diabolical narcissist which will offend many beta diabolical narcissist conspiracists here who worship JFK.

Ann Barbhardt's Diabolical Narcissism:

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always this

. For the empaths out there... ALWAYS ALWAYS trust your intuition!!

Yeah but a lot of these posts are implying that narcis are soulless evils who wander the universe looking to feast on the emotions of their victims.

Again, people are looking at the front burner only and totally ignoring the back burner.

How this situation arises is there is a person, then a trauma of some sort, then narciville. The narci creates a fake self or persona to hide the damaged self. The person in back is still behind the fake front.

Getting past the front burner and to the back burner is key.

If you can get a narci to accept the old self as cool then the new self will go away.

When you meet a narci, you are dealing with someone who has survived a soul crushing blow.


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Or just continue to smash people who are already injured because thats the cool thing to do.

tricky dicky fo sho

the truth is you know shit , you can't put every person in the same small category

While you emphatize with narcissists, you must also realize that plenty of people also have traumatic childhood but not all just grow to be a narcissist.

Childhood trauma is no excuse to be a devil incarnate and destroyer of others.

"If you can get a narci to accept ..." is a hypothetical if, have you change or cured a narcissist? If you have solution to cure and exorcise demon from narcissist, then share them. There's no joy in destroying a narcissist, but when there's no apparent solution, destroying a narcissist is a much better option for society than letting them roam and bring destruction in their path. That's why if you have a better solution rather then just a hypothetical if, share them. I bet plenty would choose curing if it's possible.

This page is jam packed with info on characteristics of a narcissistic mother, but these traits can be applied across board:

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Narcissists want to control. Some will do this by financially crippling their target, whether through theft, slander, fraud, nefarious manipulations, or all of the above. Then they will be there to "help" you. This is how they enslave others.

Kind of sounds like the government too, huh?

It describes every male I've ever met.

Very true and insightful.

What can a person do when they were charmed by one of these people, then have become totally isolated from others because the narcissist perceives everyone else as a potential threat?

It can be hard for such people to find help, especially if they are women over 40.

I’ll offer an analogy to illustrate the underlying cruelty of psychopathic behavior. Imagine the following scenario: a boy who gets a puppy for Christmas. He pets him, feeds him, cuddles him, plays with him and even sleeps next to him at night. Then, six months later, after the puppy has bonded most with him and expects only nurture and affection from him, the boy takes a knife and slaughters him just for fun. That’s exactly what a psychopath does, at the very least on a psychological level, to every person who becomes intimately involved with him. He carefully nurtures expectations of mutual honesty and love. Then he sticks a knife into her back through a pattern of intentional deception and abuse.
Let me now offer a second, even more poignant, example. I remember many years ago being horrified when I read in the news about the rapes of Bosnian women by ethnically Serbian men. What troubled me most was a true story about a Serbian soldier who “saved” a Bosnian girl from gang rape by fellow Serbs. He removed her from the dangerous situation, fed her, protected her and talked to her reassuringly and tenderly for several days. Once he secured her trust, gratitude and devotion, he raped and killed her himself. Afterwards, he boasted about his exploits on the international news.
This degree of psychological sadism exceeds that of the brutes who raped and killed women without initially faking niceness and caring. What he did to her was more insidious, duplicitous and perverse. All psychopaths behave this way towards their partners, at the very least on an emotional level. They gain your love and trust only to take sadistic pleasure in harming you. Each time you forgive their behavior and take them back, they enjoy the thrill of having regained your confidence so that they can hurt you again. Psychopaths engage in psychological torture for the same reason that totalitarian regimes do: to crush you body and spirit; to have you entirely at their mercy and under their control.

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very good description of my cat feeding stalkers.
they have no shame.no problem killing harming scamming to gain acess.
simly subhumans.

The narcissist talkshow interviewer:

"Enough about me. Let's talk about you. So, what do you think of me?"

it makes you ever not trust another human

Agreed, not everyone who has a childhood trauma grows up to be a narcissist.

The solution is to bring the back person to the front. Make the original person cool.

I said if because its difficult to do and not everyone is cut out to do it. Like the phrase, "If you can kick a fieldgoal, you can get 3 points."

Hello Earth, read your thread in its entirety. Thanks for all of the information you, and others, have posted including your personal experiences.

I'm so sorry you went through this. If there's anything at all I can do just let me know.

Take the very best of care, my friend.

Thank you Haun! Doing this is helping me heal... Even if I can help 1 person it is worth it...
I learned self love thru this and a newfound awareness of God...

Code word for mind controlled zombie puppet useful idiot nazi facist thick rimmed spectacle wearing SJW's

With a sociopath, the best thing to do is to make the breakup seem like it was his or her choice. Like with ticks or other parasites, you want to poison the well so the sociopath willingly leaves. Become a helpless, emotionless, reactionless burden. Start being contrary, without being openly defiant. If the sociopath likes to go out, develop a preference for staying in. Stop bathing. Focus on work. Pretend you're tired, sick, depressed, say you forgot your keys, you forgot to feed the goldfish, be incompetent but make everything seem like an accident. If the sociopath gets mad, say sorry, but don't fight back. Say "I don't know what's come over me." Have long phone conversations with your mother or other people the sociopath hates. In general, let yourself go completely and be as intolerable to live with as possible without being confrontational. This may seem very passive-aggressive, but after about three months (give or take), the sociopath will be out of your life. You should be in the clear after your sociopath has been gone three to six months. By that time the sociopath will not need you to satisfy any of his basic needs, and will see you instead for what you really are--probably a weak-willed whining sissy.
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Diabolical Narcissism As Explained By Doc Holliday


Johnny Ringo: After I’m done with Wyatt Earp, take your Cowboys and finish off Creek Johnson and Texas Jack. You burn ’em, Ike. Burn ’em all.

Ike Clanton: Hell, Johnny, he ain’t even gonna show.

Johnny Ringo: He’ll show.

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Wyatt Earp: I spent my whole life not knowin’ what I wanted out of life. Just chasin’ my tail. Now for the first time I know exactly what I want, and who. That’s the damnable misery of it. What makes a man like Ringo, Doc, what makes him do the things he does?

Doc Holliday: A man like Ringo has a great empty hole right through the middle of him. He can never kill enough, or steal enough, or inflict enough pain to ever fill it.

Wyatt Earp: What does he need?

Doc Holliday: Revenge.

Wyatt Earp: For WHAT?

Doc Holliday: Being born.



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So, how do we escape this parasitical leech without triggering his vindictive rage? Gray Rock is primarily a way of encouraging a psychopath, a stalker or other emotionally unbalanced person, to lose interest in you. It differs from No Contact in that you don’t overtly try to avoid contact with these emotional vampires. Instead, you allow contact but only give boring, monotonous responses so that the parasite must go elsewhere for his supply of drama. When contact with you is consistently unsatisfying for the psychopath, his mind is re-trained to expect boredom rather than drama. Psychopaths are addicted to drama and they can’t stand to be bored. With time, he will find a new person to provide drama and he will find himself drawn to you less and less often. Eventually, they just slither away to greener pastures. Gray Rock is a way of training the psychopath to view you as an unsatisfying pursuit — you bore him and he can’t stand boredom.

What it’s for:

Making a psychopath go away of his own volition is one application of Gray Rock. One might say that Gray Rock is a way of breaking up with a psychopath by using the old, “It’s not you, it’s me.” excuse, except that you act it out instead of saying it and the psychopath comes to that conclusion on his own.

Another reason to use Gray Rock is to avoid becoming a target in the first place. If you find yourself in the company of one or more narcissistic personalities — perhaps you work with them or they are members of your family — it’s important to avoid triggering their ENVY. By using Gray Rock, you fade into the background. It’s possible they won’t even remember having met you. If you have already inadvertently attracted their attention and they have already begun to focus in on you, you can still use Gray Rock. Tell them you are boring. Describe a boring life. Talk about the most mundane household chores you accomplished that day — in detail. Some people are naturally lacking in dramatic flair. Find those people and try to hang around them when the psychopath is nearby.

If you must continue a relationship with a psychopath, Gray Rock can serve you as well. Parents sharing joint custody with a psychopathic ex-spouse can use Gray Rock when the ex-spouse tries to trigger their emotions. I acknowledge that any threat to the well-being of our children is overwhelmingly anxiety provoking. Here is where Gray Rock can be applied selectively to draw attention away from what really matters to you. In general, show no emotion to the offending behaviors or words. The psychopath will try different tactics to see which ones get a reaction. With Selective Gray Rock, you choose to respond to the tactic which matters least to you. This will focus the psychopath’s attention on that issue. Remember, the psychopath has no values, so he doesn’t understand what is valuable to us — unless we show him. Selective Gray Rock shows him a decoy. When protecting our children, we can take a lesson from nature: Bird parents who have fledglings are known to feign a broken wing when a predator is in the vicinity. They fake a vulnerability to detract the cat’s attention from their real vulnerability, their babies. In this example, Selective Gray Rock fades all emotions into the background except the ones you want the predator to see.
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chose the words Gray Rock because I needed an object for us to channel when we are in an emotionally charged situation. You don’t just practice Gray Rock, you BECOME a Gray Rock. There are gray rocks and pebbles everywhere you go, but you never notice them. None of them attract your attention. You don’t remember any specific rock you saw today because they blend with the scenery. That is the type of boring that you want to channel when you are dealing with a psychopath. Your boring persona will camouflage you and the psychopath won’t even notice you were there. The stranger in the sushi bar showed great insight when he advised me to “be boring.” He struck at the heart of the psychopath’s motivation: to avoid boredom.

In nature, there are many plants and creatures that show us how to survive in a world of predators. Among others, birds feign injury to protect their babies and mice play dead until the cat loses interest. Both of these tactics can be useful and they can be channeled when applicable. Yet, it’s difficult to calculate each and every move that a psychopath will make and to determine the best course of action each time. Instead of trying to out-think him, channel the gray rock. This simple, humble object in nature has all the wisdom it needs to avoid being noticed, it’s boring.
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Narcs hone in on high sensitivity and are both attracted to it and despise it. The vulnerability of an HSP and the Narc’s ability to bully them temporarily makes them feel better about themselves (the only way they can feel good about themselves is by putting others down because they know they have no “true self”–more on this later), but they also hate it and envy it, because it’s this very quality of high sensitivity and empathy they know they do not possess, and worse yet, they know it’s possible the HSP could one day use that quality to expose the narcissist. Narcissists do not feel anxiety the way most people do, but the prospect of being “outed” one day for the monsters they actually are behind their mask of normality and sanity is incredibly terrifying to them.

But why is the psychopathic narcissist living in such terror of being exposed? After all, they think they’re better than everyone else, so why would it bother them?

The answer is horrifying. If they are exposed or “outed,” they are forced to look into the mirror–and what looks back at them in that mirror is not a monster, not an ideal self, not a demon, but something worse: a black, endless void of nothingness. There is nothing there, under the mask they wear. In effect, the masks they wear are what they have become, because inside they don’t exist. And yes they are evil. Evil isn’t badness; it isn’t the opposite of good. Evil is the opposite of somethingness; evil is pure black nothingness. In their desperate attempts to fill the void, they take on superficial behaviors and attitudes they think they “should” show the world–but they are fake. There is no real self there. Ergo, everything they think they are and everything they say is a lie. They are the People of the lie.
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This thread is changing my life. Ive sought out some other resources and found what youve said to be true: its nearly all from a females perspective and is even the perspectives of the psychs, mostly women, suffer the sane feministic and solipsistic blind spot to the female narcissist.

If psychopathic narcissists were ever confronted with what they really are–a fake “person” without a true self–I believe it would drive them insane or even to suicide. They would not be able to face the horror of knowing in a sense they really are dead. They are vampires who must stay alive by sucking the lifeblood from the living. HSPs, by feeling everything as deeply as they do, and having the ability to tap into the life force and zero in on the inexplicable like a psychic laser beam, are extremely “alive” and thereby more powerful than the narcissist. The malignant narcissist hates that. He wants those abilities and powers for himself–so badly he is willing to destroy those qualities in those who have them, even slowly killing people they observe possess these coveted qualities they both envy and know may expose and destroy them.
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They tear your mind out by cruelly playing with your head using the whole bag of narcissist tricks: gaslighting, projecting, lying, projecting their faults onto you, triangulating, hoovering, blame-shifting, invading your mental, emotional and physical boundaries and generally making you doubt your own reality. Constant gaslighting in particular can drive a person to think they’re insane, and it’s possible that actual insanity could be the end result.

In your weakened emotional and mental state, you may suffer Stockholm Syndrome and begin to identify with your abuser. You may begin to do things that go against your morals and ethics in order to please them. They may force you to engage in illegal or immoral acts, and because you dare not disobey them and you doubt your own reality, you will go along with what they want.

Many victims of abuse have been arrested for heinous acts they were coerced into by their abuser. Going against one’s own morals eventually will turn a person evil. See my post Stephen’s Story (“The Choice”) for a description of how a victimized person can turn evil when attempting to pacify evil people. M. Scott Peck also described this phenomenon in his book, “People of the Lie.”
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The reality is it is no way gender specific and so much time is spent defining male narcissist traits being presented as universal narcissistic traits that female traits are not nearly as well know even though female narcissist are every bit as prevalent in society as male. Expecially in America and Europe proper.

This is not only extremely bad for men obviously but women also because as has already been pointed out narcissist use their schemes on all genders and ages, not just the ones they are romantically involved with.

Women can run right from the arms of a narcissistic man into the arms of a narcissistic women pretending to be a caring and understanding friend because they have essentially been taught women are not narcissist if they realize it or not. Giving female narcissist an open road to destroy at will without being identified by society.

A common trait of narcissistic women I never hear discussed is their proclivity to encourage women to get divorced and cause strife in everyones relationships. That way when the divorce that was carefully orchestrated by the narcissist happens the target goes running to her right into her trap. They often do this to women more so than men. Destroying the lives of not only the couple but their children if they have any.

All so they can be in control of someone else's life without taking any responsibility for the messes it makes and people it hurts.

This is a subject that makes people very uncomfortable. Which means you know you are on the right track.