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Deplorable Publican (OP) User ID: 73112840 United States 10/03/2016 07:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | good for you! Quoting: johnsnow I'm sure your dad continues to love you and will be very happy to restore the relationship. don't fuck it up, again. It's a lot of pressure but they say insanity is doing the same thing over and over and over but expecting different results. This time I'm really committed to my job and to my sobriety. I have a ton of people who believe in me and want the best for me. Little by little I'm seeing my family come around. My dad even told me he was proud of me for the first time since I can even remember. I'm scared because I know I always screw it up but I have to trust in God to keep me on the right track; but I also have to act accordingly too. visit my blog die spammeroAz9cP |
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The Deplorable GLP Effect User ID: 71619033 United States 10/03/2016 07:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I hope things work out for you OP. I have a cousin who's struggled with drugs for years as well. Pray this prayer to blind Satan: [link to flameoflove.us (secure)] |
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Deplorable Publican (OP) User ID: 73112840 United States 10/03/2016 07:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They all wait for that day too. Send sincere letters of amends from the heart. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72360356 I have tried this before when I did some jail time. Maybe now would be different though since I'm not in jail but out working and doing what I'm supposed to do. It's easy to attempt to draw close to family in times of adversity but just to surprise them with a kind letter, that might be a good idea! visit my blog die spammeroAz9cP |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73046117 Canada 10/03/2016 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They say time heals all wounds but I'm trusting in the Lord that if I keep doing what I'm supposed to be doing that maybe I can eventually have a relationship with my family again. Quoting: Deplorable Publican If you're the praying type, please pray for me. I believe time can heal. You just keep doing what you're doing to better yourself. If you stick to that consistently, they will eventually see, and believe, that you've turned over a new leaf. I really hope everything works out for you. |
upyoursnwo User ID: 56232949 United States 10/03/2016 08:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Congrats to you on your new, healthier life! Trust and pride will come back as you continue to remain sober and living responsibly. Trust me when I say your parents only want you to be OK! Is there anything they could have done to reach you when you were in the midst of the drug haze? We have a nightmare going with my 17 yr old. We've tried everything and she continues to fuck up school, jobs, trust at home, etc. At this point, I'm out of ideas and at the end of my rope. |
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Deplorable Publican (OP) User ID: 73112840 United States 10/03/2016 08:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm honored and touched that my post was able to move you so. Last Edited by Publican on 10/03/2016 08:44 PM visit my blog die spammeroAz9cP |
Deplorable Publican (OP) User ID: 73112840 United States 10/03/2016 09:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They say time heals all wounds but I'm trusting in the Lord that if I keep doing what I'm supposed to be doing that maybe I can eventually have a relationship with my family again. Quoting: Deplorable Publican If you're the praying type, please pray for me. I believe time can heal. You just keep doing what you're doing to better yourself. If you stick to that consistently, they will eventually see, and believe, that you've turned over a new leaf. I really hope everything works out for you. Thank you so much, AG. visit my blog die spammeroAz9cP |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71372748 United States 10/03/2016 09:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I seriously recommend learning meditation. When I stopped using drugs this was an especially essential tool to gaining control and eliminating those urges. You'll become very aware of your thoughts and patterns that lead to drug use. It's an amazing thing to have on your tool belt!! Also Meditation is totally compatible with a life committed to Christ You got this! |
deplorablesnark Forum Administrator 10/03/2016 09:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | T For Texas, T For Tennessee! The virtue of courage is a prerequisite for the practice of all other virtues, because otherwise one is virtuous only when virtue has no cost. There are times when something needs to be done, and yet we know that if we step up and do this needful thing, we will pay a heavy personal price. -C.S. Lewis |
Deplorable Publican (OP) User ID: 73112840 United States 10/03/2016 09:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Praying you will have the reconciliation and closeness with your family that you desire. This is an honorable hope for you to have and I am asking the Lord to bless you with it, and to show you the best ways to become closer to your family. Quoting: deplorablesnark Thank you so so so much! visit my blog die spammeroAz9cP |
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Larry D. Croc User ID: 70736097 United States 10/03/2016 09:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Trust is earned, it takes time, and it is very fragile. Keep that in mind and do the best you can. Best of luck to you, sounds like you've figured some important things out. "Socialism only works in two places: Heaven where they don't need it and hell, where they already have it." Ronald Reagan The trouble with our liberal friends is not that they're ignorant; it's just that they know so much that isn't so." Ronald Reagan |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73046117 Canada 10/03/2016 10:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They say time heals all wounds but I'm trusting in the Lord that if I keep doing what I'm supposed to be doing that maybe I can eventually have a relationship with my family again. Quoting: Deplorable Publican If you're the praying type, please pray for me. I believe time can heal. You just keep doing what you're doing to better yourself. If you stick to that consistently, they will eventually see, and believe, that you've turned over a new leaf. I really hope everything works out for you. Thank you so much, AG. |