8 years with the love of my life, all gone. Suddenly She's Dead @ 27 | |
MaybeTrollingU User ID: 73115228 Brazil 11/30/2016 12:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | facebook link provided doesnt match up with the age of the children he gave. drowned in a glass of sprite and gone before she was in your arms but claim it happened as you held her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73272949 BS BS BS BS BS BS BS BS BS BS Think of this: If OP is trolling, it would be so mean and harsh that a ban would not be enough. If he is not you are being such an asshole that is impossible not to call you an idiot. In the end, if he is doing wrong, he is an asshole. Otherwise its you. So giving at least the benefit of the doubt here is the least a smart person would do. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73476660 United States 11/30/2016 12:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to obits.mlive.com] Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12169142 Andrakowicz, Rachel Lynn Rachel Lynn Andrakowicz, age 28, of Grand Rapids, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, November 14, 2016. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Chester and Matilda Door, Walter Andrakowicz; aunts, Christy Herrera, and Kathy Door. Surviving are her children, Mason and Emma; parents, Dan and Patricia Andrakowicz; siblings, Matt and Maria Andrakowicz (their children Jaden, Daniel, Marissa), Kyle Andrakowicz; grandmother, Alice Andrakowicz; numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and extended family. Rachel was a loving mother to her children and adored them above all. She will be greatly missed by all those who knew her. To know her was to love her. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated Friday, Nov. 18 at 11 am at St. Pius X Catholic Church, 3937 Wilson Ave. SW, Grandville, with Fr. Chris Rouech Celebrant. Interment Holy Cross Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, those who wish may make memorial contributions to the Fred and Lena Meijer Heart Center. Condolences may be sent online at www.mkdfuneralhome.com. Title of thread says she's dead at 27. So OP didn't know the age of his kids or the "love of his life". |
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Sir France's Beercan User ID: 70323952 11/30/2016 12:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to obits.mlive.com] Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12169142 Andrakowicz, Rachel Lynn Rachel Lynn Andrakowicz, age 28, of Grand Rapids, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, November 14, 2016. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Chester and Matilda Door, Walter Andrakowicz; aunts, Christy Herrera, and Kathy Door. Surviving are her children, Mason and Emma; parents, Dan and Patricia Andrakowicz; siblings, Matt and Maria Andrakowicz (their children Jaden, Daniel, Marissa), Kyle Andrakowicz; grandmother, Alice Andrakowicz; numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and extended family. Rachel was a loving mother to her children and adored them above all. She will be greatly missed by all those who knew her. To know her was to love her. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated Friday, Nov. 18 at 11 am at St. Pius X Catholic Church, 3937 Wilson Ave. SW, Grandville, with Fr. Chris Rouech Celebrant. Interment Holy Cross Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, those who wish may make memorial contributions to the Fred and Lena Meijer Heart Center. Condolences may be sent online at www.mkdfuneralhome.com. Title of thread says she's dead at 27. So OP didn't know the age of his kids or the "love of his life". Yep and also no mention of him. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 44928858 United States 11/30/2016 12:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to obits.mlive.com] Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12169142 Andrakowicz, Rachel Lynn Rachel Lynn Andrakowicz, age 28, of Grand Rapids, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, November 14, 2016. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Chester and Matilda Door, Walter Andrakowicz; aunts, Christy Herrera, and Kathy Door. Surviving are her children, Mason and Emma; parents, Dan and Patricia Andrakowicz; siblings, Matt and Maria Andrakowicz (their children Jaden, Daniel, Marissa), Kyle Andrakowicz; grandmother, Alice Andrakowicz; numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and extended family. Rachel was a loving mother to her children and adored them above all. She will be greatly missed by all those who knew her. To know her was to love her. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated Friday, Nov. 18 at 11 am at St. Pius X Catholic Church, 3937 Wilson Ave. SW, Grandville, with Fr. Chris Rouech Celebrant. Interment Holy Cross Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, those who wish may make memorial contributions to the Fred and Lena Meijer Heart Center. Condolences may be sent online at www.mkdfuneralhome.com. there's nothing about Sprite in this. . |
Taz User ID: 64014218 United States 11/30/2016 12:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'll give the OP the benefit of the doubt. 5 years ago I posted when I lost someone and I'm a StarTard. So I feel like this is real and OP I am totally at a loss for words and sorry for you and your loss. This place can be a source of streignth in its own way I get it. It's crazy and thought provoking but at the same time it's constant, and you know what to expect. GLP is comforting and don't listen to these people doubting. Quoting: Taz TY for sharing, Taz. I have a pretty good feeling you have always had a big heart, but I think compassion should be your middle name. Heartbreak is a very painful teacher. Kudos to you for continuing to shine your love and compassion. Lol. You know shit like this is why I usually lurk in these forums and avoid posting. Haha. I'm a GLP introvert. But Thank you. Thing is totally did not want this post to be about me. I'm telling the OP I get it. Shared my story. My Gram died I came here. I found it comforting. Most people here are nice if you are being real about something and assuming Doom is down. I was saying OP is legit in my opinion and I feel his pain. :( |
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Munsoned User ID: 51111974 United States 11/30/2016 12:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She dies at 27 years old. Love of my life. I'm a complete mess.. sorry world, but I am having trouble dealing with this, my plans to live happily everafter,. Gone Quoting: Michigan Man Wasn't meant to be this way. Why is life so cruel. This woman was more beautiful than anyone I have ever met in 33 years. We were soulmates, we adventured around North America together. We shared everything, our love grew only stronger. How do I kill this pain? How do a carry on with our two beautiful children. 4y/o boy 19 m/o baby princess. GLP I need guidance, I need a miracle. From your past karma comments, why do I think you're trolling? Not trolling idiot! What cause he has reds? Are the people on his FB page in on it? Shut the hell up! Who would make this up? Freedom requires breathing room, the Constitution presupposes that there will be some crazies among us so that the rest of us can enjoy freedom. - Judge Andrew Napolitano A huge shit cloud is coming! |
nd5ip3pomu User ID: 72280768 United States 11/30/2016 12:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First Name: RACHEL Last Name: ANDRAKOWICZ Middle Name: LYNN Gender: Female Race: White Arrest Number: 00283897 Arrest Date: 2016-03-14 12:00:00 Age: 28 State: Michigan County: Kent Eye Color: Hazel Hair Color: Blonde Or Strawberry Weight: 130 Height: 503 Agency: GRAND RAPIDS POLICE DEPARTMENT Dob: 1988-02-19 00:00:00 Booking Date: 2016-03-14 00:00:00 Birth Year: 1988 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72720958 United States 11/30/2016 12:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not well off by any means, but was running a successful painting company for the last 5 years painting New Construction Interior. Quoting: Michigan Man I quit work and Drained all my funds over the last six months, Decked the house out with all the little things. Plush furniture, televisions, full Comcast cable/wifi,. Huge bed, all wooden antique furniture. Leased her favorite car, etc. Etc. She died in my arms last week Monday morning on the floor in the family room. I'm haunted over and over of the scene as i slump my head over hers whilst I mudders "baby baby baby no, please don't go..." We sit under the Xmas tree until EMS Arrives,. It all becomes a blur. You had the tree up BEFORE Thanksgiving? Sorry but this is a red flag for me, something is off. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73419890 United States 11/30/2016 12:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She dies at 27 years old. Love of my life. I'm a complete mess.. sorry world, but I am having trouble dealing with this, my plans to live happily everafter,. Gone Quoting: Michigan Man Wasn't meant to be this way. Why is life so cruel. This woman was more beautiful than anyone I have ever met in 33 years. We were soulmates, we adventured around North America together. We shared everything, our love grew only stronger. How do I kill this pain? How do a carry on with our two beautiful children. 4y/o boy 19 m/o baby princess. GLP I need guidance, I need a miracle. fucking liar asshole |
Sunshyne nli User ID: 55303780 United States 11/30/2016 12:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'll give the OP the benefit of the doubt. 5 years ago I posted when I lost someone and I'm a StarTard. So I feel like this is real and OP I am totally at a loss for words and sorry for you and your loss. This place can be a source of streignth in its own way I get it. It's crazy and thought provoking but at the same time it's constant, and you know what to expect. GLP is comforting and don't listen to these people doubting. Quoting: Taz TY for sharing, Taz. I have a pretty good feeling you have always had a big heart, but I think compassion should be your middle name. Heartbreak is a very painful teacher. Kudos to you for continuing to shine your love and compassion. Lol. You know shit like this is why I usually lurk in these forums and avoid posting. Haha. I'm a GLP introvert. But Thank you. Thing is totally did not want this post to be about me. I'm telling the OP I get it. Shared my story. My Gram died I came here. I found it comforting. Most people here are nice if you are being real about something and assuming Doom is down. I was saying OP is legit in my opinion and I feel his pain. :( I hear ya, Taz...so do I. :( : grouphug: |
Munsoned User ID: 51111974 United States 11/30/2016 12:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She dies at 27 years old. Love of my life. I'm a complete mess.. sorry world, but I am having trouble dealing with this, my plans to live happily everafter,. Gone Quoting: Michigan Man Wasn't meant to be this way. Why is life so cruel. This woman was more beautiful than anyone I have ever met in 33 years. We were soulmates, we adventured around North America together. We shared everything, our love grew only stronger. How do I kill this pain? How do a carry on with our two beautiful children. 4y/o boy 19 m/o baby princess. GLP I need guidance, I need a miracle. Stop trolling and grow up. Dude you are an asshole! How dare you! Hope you never feel his pain jerk! Freedom requires breathing room, the Constitution presupposes that there will be some crazies among us so that the rest of us can enjoy freedom. - Judge Andrew Napolitano A huge shit cloud is coming! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73419890 United States 11/30/2016 12:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She dies at 27 years old. Love of my life. I'm a complete mess.. sorry world, but I am having trouble dealing with this, my plans to live happily everafter,. Gone Quoting: Michigan Man Wasn't meant to be this way. Why is life so cruel. This woman was more beautiful than anyone I have ever met in 33 years. We were soulmates, we adventured around North America together. We shared everything, our love grew only stronger. How do I kill this pain? How do a carry on with our two beautiful children. 4y/o boy 19 m/o baby princess. GLP I need guidance, I need a miracle. fucking liar asshole go suck ur mom and u feel better liar ass |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73419890 United States 11/30/2016 12:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She dies at 27 years old. Love of my life. I'm a complete mess.. sorry world, but I am having trouble dealing with this, my plans to live happily everafter,. Gone Quoting: Michigan Man Wasn't meant to be this way. Why is life so cruel. This woman was more beautiful than anyone I have ever met in 33 years. We were soulmates, we adventured around North America together. We shared everything, our love grew only stronger. How do I kill this pain? How do a carry on with our two beautiful children. 4y/o boy 19 m/o baby princess. GLP I need guidance, I need a miracle. Stop trolling and grow up. Dude you are an asshole! How dare you! Hope you never feel his pain jerk! anyone lost a loved one sure wouldnt as hell be on here posting it.. so fuck you too.... believe anything u read. u moran |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 40701961 United States 11/30/2016 12:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Troll patrol, I see your point about being naive and that being a vulnerability in life. But I detect a low threat level here. Kindness is good for the giver in so many ways. That doesn't mean I frolic around in vails and hug homeless people. Hey op. You are very handsome and seem like a nice man. I wish you all the best. If you came here for connection and comfort I hope you found some here. Let the mean stuff roll off. It's just glp. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 34398756 United States 11/30/2016 12:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | facebook link provided doesnt match up with the age of the children he gave. drowned in a glass of sprite and gone before she was in your arms but claim it happened as you held her. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73272949 BS BS BS BS BS BS BS BS BS BS Think of this: If OP is trolling, it would be so mean and harsh that a ban would not be enough. If he is not you are being such an asshole that is impossible not to call you an idiot. In the end, if he is doing wrong, he is an asshole. Otherwise its you. So giving at least the benefit of the doubt here is the least a smart person would do. ERRRMMMM HOW BOUT NOOOOOOOOOOO? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73067285 United States 11/30/2016 12:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Op says 27 obit says 28......kids not the same.....head back but drowned in a glass of spite? Did she have a three foot straw in that sprite or was there a 5 gallon bucket of sprite. So if she "drowned" wouldn't that be the cause of death? C'mon Maaaaaan!!!!!! |
Sir France's Beercan User ID: 70323952 11/30/2016 12:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She dies at 27 years old. Love of my life. I'm a complete mess.. sorry world, but I am having trouble dealing with this, my plans to live happily everafter,. Gone Quoting: Michigan Man Wasn't meant to be this way. Why is life so cruel. This woman was more beautiful than anyone I have ever met in 33 years. We were soulmates, we adventured around North America together. We shared everything, our love grew only stronger. How do I kill this pain? How do a carry on with our two beautiful children. 4y/o boy 19 m/o baby princess. GLP I need guidance, I need a miracle. From your past karma comments, why do I think you're trolling? Not trolling idiot! What cause he has reds? Are the people on his FB page in on it? Shut the hell up! Who would make this up? Well to be fair in the OP he said she was 27 and the obituary said she was 28, there's no mention of him in the obituary and he gave the ages of the kids as the boy 4 and the girl 19 months but the Facebook page clearly shows the girl is older than the boy. People are allowed to be skeptical. Last Edited by Sir France's Beercan on 11/30/2016 12:48 AM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 44545778 United States 11/30/2016 12:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Please forgive my ignorance but how does one drown in a glass of sprite when ones head was tilted BACK? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 44545778 And I forgot to mention another obvious thing so EDIT..... Please forgive my ignorance but how does one drown in a GLASS of sprite when ones head is tilted BACK? What size glass we talkin here hmmmmm? |
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R... User ID: 72033323 Netherlands 11/30/2016 12:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Remember you'll see her reflected in your kids every moment and she wishes for you to be their best dad you can be. All her love is forever yours, the kids' is yours and yours is for them. Ever connected. Despite the hurt, loss of the physical connection can never change that eternal bond. Looooots of strength to you...get help from friends for support and keep on keeping on for your soulmate and your kids. R. "A strange game. The only winning move is not to play." - 'Wargames' "This world is more like a mystery, trapped in a conundrum, spun by a paradox." - AC1118155 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73272949 United States 11/30/2016 12:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Did she drown in a glass of sprite or did you spend everything you had filling the house with televisions, gifts and leasing a new car? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64437530 she drowned in a glass of sprite and the passed away a second time while in his arms after he got there. I'm not sure if it was before or after he attempted cpr that he was holding her as she passed. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72720958 United States 11/30/2016 12:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Please forgive my ignorance but how does one drown in a glass of sprite when ones head was tilted BACK? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 44545778 And I forgot to mention another obvious thing so EDIT..... Please forgive my ignorance but how does one drown in a GLASS of sprite when ones head is tilted BACK? What size glass we talkin here hmmmmm? I am picturing a waterboard type scenario. Maybe the carbonation in the lungs blocks the airways? |
Glaber User ID: 32141474 United States 11/30/2016 12:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First I felt very bad for the beautiful young woman who died too young, and her supposed ex, the OP. Then I re-read things, and it does not seem right. The obit makes it sound unexpected. If that is true, why quit your job to shower her with creature comforts. Why no mention of OP in obit or in the sympathy messages attached to the obit, especially after taking care of her for six months (which is implied by OP)? Also, she did not die "last Monday," it was the 14th of November, which is more than 2 weeks ago. The other thing is supposed OP is not FB friends with her family, except for a cousin of hers, unless I am missing someone. If he was as close as he says, and took care of her for the last 6 months, why is it like he does not exist in her family's world? Who the heck would post here, then post links to pictures of their dead ex, and your minor children? Who would do that? Something does not seem right. "A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still" |
nd5ip3pomu User ID: 72280768 United States 11/30/2016 12:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like she spent time in the county jail........ Offense Date Date Closed Offense Description Disposition Disposition Date 01/28/2009 02/27/2009 Minor In Poss of Alcohol Diversion-MIP 02/12/2009 10/15/2009 10/15/2009 Probation Violation Guilty 10/15/2009 Probation violations, drinker, larceny, wrong age from OP, children don't match and hes not mentioned in the obituary. CASE CLOSED. |