Warning : Relationships where female is primary bread winner is destined to fail.

Maybe you should tell my wife of 26years.....lol....go back to your cave fuckface

You have to excuse him OP

He is

I knew my ex five years before marriage and was married for 25 years. Supported her dream of becoming a doctor only to dump me after the kids graduated.

Op is a troll. Only man with fragile ego or woman with control issues will damper this relationship. That is why intelligent humble people should be willing to get councelling

Sorry to hear that

Not all women are like that

She was a Child Psychiatrist and extremely over worked at the time . We had 3 counseling periods during our 25 years of marriage. My son was addicted to adderral that she did not prescribe but condoned even after a a drug overdose.

High earning real estate executive female here.
I blame the failure of my 2 marriages on the fact that my making more money than husband hurt his masculinity.

My daughters learned from my mistake, neither makes more than husband and they both have happy marriages for over 20 years.

Money isent everything.

I wouldn't take a man that contributed nothing, but if that guy's contribution was taking care of the kids and house, I would be happy about that, as long as he was a good man with a good heart.

Believe me I was not at all threatened but proud of her success. We were in agreement that family came first and I gave up my carer to support her " our " commitment to family. I was a stay at home dad for 18 years and now I am having problems getting a decent even with my Business Degree.

" decent job "

You say that but a woman wants to feel protected from a man. Its hard to feel that way from Mr. Mom. He becomes the woman because that is the role he is playing while it silently destroys him and you. The woman gets board looking for a protector and provider. From a top earning woman, its hard to play the role of wife when you provide all the bread.

Yes, they are.

I also was working part time , substitute teaching , at the time of the divorce. I gave up a tax practice in Montana and other career choices following her around country due to herbeing passive and not placing limits on her employers.

Don't make excuses

You either have it or you don't

I was the breadwinner most of my years. I raised a family and now my wife can support me.

Most psychiatrists have mental issues themselves. It's not fiction, look into it.

Chances are she had this little bubble in her head that randomly popped once the kids fled the nest.

She was abused by her grandfather as a kid,told mom and she chose to ignore incident . Dad was a violent alcoholic that lead to their divorce.

Doesn't matter if she earns more than you or not. An unemployed house wife can still divorce you and take your shit in court.

A woman is never yours. It's only your turn.

That has nothing to do with her being the bread winner, maybe she just got sick of you... and you failed to see it coming?

Bingo... Sge said she just did not love me any,ore.

How do you become high earning real estate executive? Are you in commercial real estate?

Perfectly explainable through thousands of years of evolution.

Intellect is a more recent phenomenon, women battle with some very old conflicting forces of nature, especially their discontent gene.

YOU MAY HAVE HIT THE B'UTTON ON THAT ONE BUDDY! M.Y SUGGESTION, BY NO MEANS INSULT HER THAT A VACATION IS NECESSARY WITH SAYING SHE ISNT CAPABLE, INSTEAD GIVE HER THE BEST PRESENT EVER! THAT IS RELATIVE TO YOU, SPOIL HER THEN!

Most are.

Look pal.
I am my wife's security guard, mechanic, plumber, electrician, yardman, dog walker and shit I could go on forever. She can't afford to replace me.

Perhaps, but at this point, I have no intention of ever giving up my job, so he would complement me.

I cleared about $600,000 this year between my job and a small pub I own. My wife is a stay at home mom. She couldn't be happier. And I get my stick serviced just about every night.

The way it should be.