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Remember, Tradition is shit. If you have an abusive family, detach from them this Holiday season - and for good.

 
ItSeesThroughEyes
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Remember, Tradition is shit. If you have an abusive family, detach from them this Holiday season - and for good.
The holidays bring out the covertly aggressive people we feel sick around. Those of you with a conscience knows what I'm talking about, those of you without a conscience, well, you are the fuckers I'm talking about.

Narcissist's love Christmas even though they will be the first to deem themselves exempt from the 'common' man. Christmas is stupid, beneath them...etc. But in reality, they love it because they know how your (a healthy) conscience works. They know you want to be civil, have a good time, make the best of it. And throughout this season they prey on that healthy conscience to get supply. They know how you work and what makes you tick. This is were the true meaning of 'gifts' are born in a person without a conscience.

Mothers, fathers, sisters and brothers. Everyone has that family member that ruins everything while they get off on the supply of attention, position, and focus on themselves. These aren't people that love you, these are people that use you. They use you for the simple desire of position and supply. They are sick and they know full well what they are doing. The key is....looking good while doing it. That's why you rarely can pinpoint something abusive.

They don't do these things because they are insecure or afraid, they don't do them because they are hiding feelings of shame and pain. They do it because they like to see your emotional state ruined. If they get a reaction...they win. Plain and simple. When someone acknowledges this it's life changing, but when someone chooses the family tradition and just goes with it, it contradicts everything this time of year is supposed to represent. Funny isn't it. Tell me this, if your family member isn't 'insane' why is every year a disaster? It's because it's the reason for the season. Themselves.

That's why Narcissists love Christmas.

Merry fucking Christmas, and do yourself a favor. Stay away from these people.

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ItSeesThroughEyes  (OP)

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ItSeesThroughEyes  (OP)

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For those interested, and curious because you know what I'm talking about. George Simon is the leading expert in this field of manipulators. He brings a no bullshit approach to this.

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Thanks :-) i can go on a bit more.just bring it on. Sorry i interrupted.
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Christmas is the best. Even without people.

Wtf are you smoking OP?
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Oooohhhh.

I get it. I do.
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"Tradition is shit"

You just summed up why we're screwed.
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Hosts. Always the hosts.
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Great advice
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...and die alone, thrown in a box and flushed.
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Thanks :-) i can go on a bit more.just bring it on. Sorry i interrupted.
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this "al magus" has some great threads
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It's been years since I've seen my soul sucking genetic family.

I'm so at peace.
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Re: Remember, Tradition is shit. If you have an abusive family, detach from them this Holiday season - and for good.
For those interested, and curious because you know what I'm talking about. George Simon is the leading expert in this field of manipulators. He brings a no bullshit approach to this.


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George Simon's books are good. I've read two of them, plus a bunch of his blog posts.

The only criticism I have is that he seems to think that "covert agressives" could stop if they wanted to stop. Well, maybe, but the vast majority of them do not want to and WILL NOT STOP because it gets them what they want. There is nothing you can do to make them stop except to go no contact.
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For those interested, and curious because you know what I'm talking about. George Simon is the leading expert in this field of manipulators. He brings a no bullshit approach to this.


 Quoting: ItSeesThroughEyes


George Simon's books are good. I've read two of them, plus a bunch of his blog posts.

The only criticism I have is that he seems to think that "covert agressives" could stop if they wanted to stop. Well, maybe, but the vast majority of them do not want to and WILL NOT STOP because it gets them what they want. There is nothing you can do to make them stop except to go no contact.
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I personally haven't seen him say that, I have seen him say that they can change with the right help. That help obviously is not with traditional therapists, but more-so someone like him (or himself) He uses benign confrontation which is basically calling them out on their behavior. Everyone with a deficiency in character lies along a spectrum, and of course those that the extreme end will never change.

I myself am a strong believer in my own experiences of these individuals is that they'll never change. I'm right there with you on that. We are not clinicians, we are the ones putting up with this shit. It's not our job to heal them (especially when they go back to family that encourages their behavior) It's our job to manage our own behavior, and in that...no contact is the exact way to do that. So yes, I do agree with you 100% I just haven't seen him say they can change on their own, in that video he says the opposite.
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Why they still have space in your head?
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