You will become a spirit form. All of your actions/deeds that you have done while in this physical realm, will be counted for or against you. It doesn't "end" when you leave the physical world. That is why religion is so dangerous; it gives the false impression that it takes away accountability. It doesn't. No person nor animal can atone for your own actions. YOU PAY.

But you can visit your family members on the other side now, while you are in still alive in flesh form; I have visited my own Ahmma (Mother) on the other side. I visited with her not too long after she passed over. She was not very happy about having to transition, so our conversation was not long, but she will grow accustomed to it; she has no choice. I also saw others there who were friends of mine in my youth, but I didn't even know that they had passed over until I saw them there.

You will know that you are in the "right place" if you arrive there and the spirits are all dressed in white long garments. And the only ones who will converse with you are your own immediate relatives. The spirits are instructed to not communicate with the living, so if you are allowed to visit them, as I was, then only your immediate relatives will speak to you. The other spirits there, who I did not know in this life, treated me as though I was not there, even though I could sense that they were aware of my presence.

They also converse telepathically, so it will take a few seconds for them to realize that you can't hear them. Ha!Ha! My Ahmma realized that as well. But they can move their mouths if they choose too. They also move about over there freely. Murderers, etc. are sent to a different "place". Not a "hell" but a different type holding cell (that's the only way I know in English to describe it). We say it differently in my Indigenous American language.