Is men's need for sexual variety conducive for a monogamous relationship?

no its not, men used to die from sleeping around because of disease, since we can cure that shit now, its brave new world soddam and gamorrah

Me too. It sucks craving so many flavors. It really does.

It must truly be a need and not a want.

Is this true for women too?

yup, thats why everything is fucked

No, they usually just want the dominate one.

Porn has solved the issue?

It's not really cheating. ..unless it's physical. Am I right?

Yes of course women are always extremely monogamous
and only men have the need in question, huh..?



What planet you from, OP?

Nope.

I am from Planet Baby Boomer.

we know, your the reason the world is in such a hell hole

All my fault?

A simple zoological review of why many (most) mammals have multiple mates will show that male mammals have an instinctual "need" to mate with as many females as possible in hopes that he impregnates one or more of them (so the species can live on).

In theory, you could equate this to why a tomato plant forms hundreds of seeds inside each and every fruit, yet you only need one seed to germinate for the species to survive.

It's because some seeds will be defective... others won't land on soil... other's won't get the proper moisture to germinate... even others will germinate but be eaten during seedling stage by animals or birds.

Back to the mammals, male mammals look for many mates to ensure species survival.

Homo-sapien males have those same instinctual urges, however, their natural need to sleep with many different females is vilified in modern society.

Female mammals, by contrast, tend to want to ONLY mate with the strongest males, to increase the chances of strong, healthy offspring.

In modern society, females subconsciously act on those instincts. This is likely the reason for the stereotype of "Girls always go for assholes/badboys". It's because those types read as Alphas to the female subconscious, and in turn, they can't help themselves.

The rational part of their brain tends to take over AFTER pregnancy...when they search out some nice guy cuck to offer her security and/or pay for said badboy's spawn (because he sure as fuck isn't dumb enough to stick around with a woman stupid enough to get pregnant by him) [/sarcasm].

The social constructs of "partners for life", monogamous marriage, and monogamy in general are simply relics of a bygone era where religion and fear were used to control the masses.

Now they just use digital screens.

Since I lived prior to the internet and indeed...the smartphone...

Many things have seriously changed.

Since when did all men have a need for sexual variety?

well your generation and the one before that and the one before that etc etc

Then why tie yourself down into a monogamous relationship?

there is only one thing that keeps men from having open relationships: the thought they would have to share their women. et voila you get what you have. a world in which people try their best to be monogamous. perfect in it's imperfection. it really isn't that confusing. :)

since communism took hold 104 years ago, its about 80% of men and only 20% actually germinate most of the whores in this world

some what true

you used to die from disease if you didnt, but the new tech makes the world a hell hole cuz ppl fuck around and no consequences

Sharing is what is expected from women.

lol wut?

girls will cheat if they know guys are bating, im sure guys dont like it when a girl bates but wont go out and cheat and shit, girls are just psychopaths, fuck and move on

youre an idiot if you think anything you hv written in this thread is correct

porn IS cheating

men are told not to be taken in by their eyes.....they dont need "different flavors," they are weak .... they are chromosomal mutants

no weaker then skanks fucking everything

bullshit

fuck your indoctrination

its what there taught, hes right

any human who behaves primitively in that manner is weak...agree

Hmm, my parents and their parents were all married until death parted them.

I'm sorry, it seems most of you had poor examples to follow in life that gave you fucked up perceptions.

If you don't believe there are people in the world still who know and understand and live what unconditional, faithful to commitment love is, you will never see it for what it is if you do encounter it because you won't believe it exists.