this is an illusion of idolatry, imo…

your focus is idolizing women, as in objectifying them, and using them for some erroneous method of self-pleasing…

the actual plan, as if it needs to be said, is for men and women to marry one partner, become one, and procreate, which leads to much more profound realizations and awarenesses than spinning your wheels whoring…

aside from producing life, eventually we learn to value love beyond the physical as we age together…raise grandchildren… prepare for and experience death...