I am married to a very hard working man who makes very little time for me.

I feel like I'm the very last thing on the list on the check off.

We have kids.

I feel like I am so far down the totem pole as to what his priorities are.

If you are married to a super busy/workaholic spouse, can you chime in?

When does it become a marriage that needs to be terminated?

I feel so insignificant to him.

I don't know what to think. I'm just so sick of being the only one to say "we need a date night" or, "we need to make sure to spend time together".When I say these things he makes them happen, but why isn't always me who has to say it?

I have told him that I need these things over and over. Honestly, I think he thinks I will always be there. I'm not sure.

Can anyone else relate?

Yes, I know I'm on a freaking conspiracy forum, but damnit, I need someone to relate to me.

This being the "supportive spouse" can become a very lonely place.