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Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 54968843  United States07/08/2017 03:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74887868 United States07/08/2017 04:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? So say if some random guy from India or Pakistan sends her a barely comprehensible instagram message that is clearly trying to say "you very sex for me" etc, she'll respond with a simple "thank you lol" or something like that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54968843 Same thing with if a random ugly black guy says "yo yo check your dm", or some white beta mark zuckerberg looking guy sends her something she checks it and replys "thanx" or something like that. She never ignores the thirsty guys on social media even if they are very bad looking and she doesn't find them attractive. Now i know that most taken women DO ignore messages from random desperate men they don't know so i was wondering is this is the sign of someone who is easy and ready to give it up to any chad that comes along? or is she simply being polite by replying to these kind of guys? for the purpose of the thread the woman i'm seeing is a mid 30s mother of children, she isn't a young teenager with thousands of social media friends and young horny guys added. She may just be polite. I respond a lot to people because I'm polite. I respond whether they're hot or not. I don't get into details a lot but I will chat sometimes. I'm single though. Does she know that you're serious with her? If she doesn't know this, she may be keeping her options open, or she may be lonely and bored. I typically do this out of boredom and that's it. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74887868 United States07/08/2017 04:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? Sometimes it just feels good to feel wanted. Maybe she had some self esteem issues. If tins of ugly chicks were writing you would you respond? You may if you didn't feel very good about yourself. I would worry more about her self esteem issues. She could also just like the attention and nothing more. It's kind of like whenI go out in a pretty dress. I want to be checked out and if nobody checks me out, I feel kind of ugly..I have self esteem issues though. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72004387 United Kingdom07/08/2017 04:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? P.S. Regardless if it is her or not, this is typical behaviour of someone who has borderline personality disorder. It's just a destabilization and manipulation tactic they use to constantly get under your skin. You have to understand, that while you're chilling and just wanting a peaceful relationship with her, she's plotting in her mind against you 24/7. You might not believe me about this, but this is the modus operandi of a borderline; they are constantly strategizing your downfall, and never stop until you are destroyed. If you have moved in with her, then enormous mistake. Soon you will be so fucked up, then kicked out, you'll become a smack head selling The Big Issue (despite your good intentions). |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54968843 United States07/08/2017 04:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? I mean i don't necessarily have an issue with it. If a random woman sends me a compliment i'll reply usually just to be polite, but i was just wondering considering that most women make a point of stating that they ignore desperate or needy guys if this was unusual in any way. |
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| Larry D. Croc User ID: 70736097 United States07/08/2017 04:50 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? So say if some random guy from India or Pakistan sends her a barely comprehensible instagram message that is clearly trying to say "you very sex for me" etc, she'll respond with a simple "thank you lol" or something like that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54968843 Same thing with if a random ugly black guy says "yo yo check your dm", or some white beta mark zuckerberg looking guy sends her something she checks it and replys "thanx" or something like that. She never ignores the thirsty guys on social media even if they are very bad looking and she doesn't find them attractive. Now i know that most taken women DO ignore messages from random desperate men they don't know so i was wondering is this is the sign of someone who is easy and ready to give it up to any chad that comes along? or is she simply being polite by replying to these kind of guys? for the purpose of the thread the woman i'm seeing is a mid 30s mother of children, she isn't a young teenager with thousands of social media friends and young horny guys added. She's simply an internet addict. Becoming more and more common. "Socialism only works in two places: Heaven where they don't need it and hell, where they already have it." Ronald Reagan The trouble with our liberal friends is not that they're ignorant; it's just that they know so much that isn't so." Ronald Reagan |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54968843 United States07/08/2017 04:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? P.S. Regardless if it is her or not, this is typical behaviour of someone who has borderline personality disorder. It's just a destabilization and manipulation tactic they use to constantly get under your skin. You have to understand, that while you're chilling and just wanting a peaceful relationship with her, she's plotting in her mind against you 24/7. You might not believe me about this, but this is the modus operandi of a borderline; they are constantly strategizing your downfall, and never stop until you are destroyed. If you have moved in with her, then enormous mistake. Soon you will be so fucked up, then kicked out, you'll become a smack head selling The Big Issue (despite your good intentions). OH MY GOD I just looked up the symptoms of this Borderline Personality Disorder and she matched for almost all of them. What the fuck am i gonna do now? |
| TlvmmCpoft User ID: 74830845  Malta07/08/2017 04:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? Now think about it, what's starting to look more appealing, jumping high or catching that nice low-hanging fruit you have over there? Quit bitching about the ones that put up with you. I don't know what lies they told you, but I can promise they were lies. There's a fine line between training, trauma, and torture. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72004387 United Kingdom07/08/2017 05:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? P.S. Regardless if it is her or not, this is typical behaviour of someone who has borderline personality disorder. It's just a destabilization and manipulation tactic they use to constantly get under your skin. You have to understand, that while you're chilling and just wanting a peaceful relationship with her, she's plotting in her mind against you 24/7. You might not believe me about this, but this is the modus operandi of a borderline; they are constantly strategizing your downfall, and never stop until you are destroyed. If you have moved in with her, then enormous mistake. Soon you will be so fucked up, then kicked out, you'll become a smack head selling The Big Issue (despite your good intentions). OH MY GOD I just looked up the symptoms of this Borderline Personality Disorder and she matched for almost all of them. What the fuck am i gonna do now? Yep, bro, I advise you to get the fuck out of the r/s immediately, otherwise you will be a totally broken shell of a man within a year. I can't explain to you how bad the damage is that they cause you, and nor would I wish it on anyone. Many guys on here have fallen victim to a borderline, and lived to regret it (myself included). Understand this: they are psychopaths who plot in their minds against you 24/7. It is the closest thing to demonic possession you will ever come across. Don't be the sucker in thinking you can ride it out with her until she gets cured. They never want to be cured and enjoy reveling in their psychopathic natures. After you've dumped her, expect your phone to be on fire with suicidal texts / voice messages, but just ignore... it's all a ruse to get you back so she can finish YOU off. Yes, they are that fucked in the head. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 54968843 United States07/08/2017 05:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? P.S. Regardless if it is her or not, this is typical behaviour of someone who has borderline personality disorder. It's just a destabilization and manipulation tactic they use to constantly get under your skin. You have to understand, that while you're chilling and just wanting a peaceful relationship with her, she's plotting in her mind against you 24/7. You might not believe me about this, but this is the modus operandi of a borderline; they are constantly strategizing your downfall, and never stop until you are destroyed. If you have moved in with her, then enormous mistake. Soon you will be so fucked up, then kicked out, you'll become a smack head selling The Big Issue (despite your good intentions). OH MY GOD I just looked up the symptoms of this Borderline Personality Disorder and she matched for almost all of them. What the fuck am i gonna do now? Yep, bro, I advise you to get the fuck out of the r/s immediately, otherwise you will be a totally broken shell of a man within a year. I can't explain to you how bad the damage is that they cause you, and nor would I wish it on anyone. Many guys on here have fallen victim to a borderline, and lived to regret it (myself included). Understand this: they are psychopaths who plot in their minds against you 24/7. It is the closest thing to demonic possession you will ever come across. Don't be the sucker in thinking you can ride it out with her until she gets cured. They never want to be cured and enjoy reveling in their psychopathic natures. After you've dumped her, expect your phone to be on fire with suicidal texts / voice messages, but just ignore... it's all a ruse to get you back so she can finish YOU off. Yes, they are that fucked in the head. I must have fell asleep when she texted me last night and i haven't replied so far this morning. Now on instagram she is posting about how everything she likes are either too expensive or don't text her back. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72004387 United Kingdom07/08/2017 05:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72004387 P.S. Regardless if it is her or not, this is typical behaviour of someone who has borderline personality disorder. It's just a destabilization and manipulation tactic they use to constantly get under your skin. You have to understand, that while you're chilling and just wanting a peaceful relationship with her, she's plotting in her mind against you 24/7. You might not believe me about this, but this is the modus operandi of a borderline; they are constantly strategizing your downfall, and never stop until you are destroyed. If you have moved in with her, then enormous mistake. Soon you will be so fucked up, then kicked out, you'll become a smack head selling The Big Issue (despite your good intentions). OH MY GOD I just looked up the symptoms of this Borderline Personality Disorder and she matched for almost all of them. What the fuck am i gonna do now? Yep, bro, I advise you to get the fuck out of the r/s immediately, otherwise you will be a totally broken shell of a man within a year. I can't explain to you how bad the damage is that they cause you, and nor would I wish it on anyone. Many guys on here have fallen victim to a borderline, and lived to regret it (myself included). Understand this: they are psychopaths who plot in their minds against you 24/7. It is the closest thing to demonic possession you will ever come across. Don't be the sucker in thinking you can ride it out with her until she gets cured. They never want to be cured and enjoy reveling in their psychopathic natures. After you've dumped her, expect your phone to be on fire with suicidal texts / voice messages, but just ignore... it's all a ruse to get you back so she can finish YOU off. Yes, they are that fucked in the head. I must have fell asleep when she texted me last night and i haven't replied so far this morning. Now on instagram she is posting about how everything she likes are either too expensive or don't text her back. She might be hot and give you porn star sex, but once your dick is hooked on that pussy, she will just up the ante with all the mind games. Because your dick gets so addicted to her, you'll put up with all of her sadistic psychopathic shit, then, bro, then she starts the cheating and fucking with your head. I could tell you to just keep dumping her, and when she keeps begging you to take her back, you could just get your rocks off and dump her again. But doing that with a BPD comes with a huge price. If she can't win the game, she'll resort to even more extreme psycho shit like accuse you of rape / assault, vandalize your home / car, vilify you to absolutely everyone, esp on social media, etc. The list goes on. And when you're fucking her, she's likely been getting nailed by many other guys, and could be carrying herpes or HIV. I escaped a bullet big time, and I hope you do the smart thing and move on and find a decent girl who respects you. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75178257 United States07/08/2017 05:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Woman i'm seeing responds to ANY message she gets on social media from a guy. Red flag or just being polite? So say if some random guy from India or Pakistan sends her a barely comprehensible instagram message that is clearly trying to say "you very sex for me" etc, she'll respond with a simple "thank you lol" or something like that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54968843 Same thing with if a random ugly black guy says "yo yo check your dm", or some white beta mark zuckerberg looking guy sends her something she checks it and replys "thanx" or something like that. She never ignores the thirsty guys on social media even if they are very bad looking and she doesn't find them attractive. Now i know that most taken women DO ignore messages from random desperate men they don't know so i was wondering is this is the sign of someone who is easy and ready to give it up to any chad that comes along? or is she simply being polite by replying to these kind of guys? for the purpose of the thread the woman i'm seeing is a mid 30s mother of children, she isn't a young teenager with thousands of social media friends and young horny guys added. Get out now. NOW. Trust me. |
