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Anonymous Coward User ID: 52154903 United States 12/18/2017 11:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Interesting analogy. It's failure is that it does NOT consider the "Ladder Theory" in conjunction with it. Under "Ladder Theory" once a woman has her first "win" in the bank (boyfriend or even 1st marriage) she is continually (for some subconsciously - for others consciously) looking for an "UPGRADE". She may UPGRADE several different times before her upgradability potential bumps up against her declining SMV (sexual market value - which is determined to a large extent by age/fertility). Cougars are an interesting group in that usually they are independently financially secure - no need for a man to provide financial security for them any more - so they can let their barely contained carnal desires dictate their behavior and choices. Usually Cougars, because THEY are chasing after something they want badly - YOUTH - are the best looking women of their age group, ie: exercise all the time, keep young mentally wrt current trends in music /clothes /etc.. Men of their own age hold little appeal for Cougars, even though they could easily hook most men of their age precisely because they are the best looking women of their age group, because they are chasing after that Fountain Of Youth ie: the highly desirable YOUNGER good looking male. |
plus (OP) User ID: 75350131 Denmark 12/18/2017 11:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Interesting analogy. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52154903 It's failure is that it does NOT consider the "Ladder Theory" in conjunction with it. Under "Ladder Theory" once a woman has her first "win" in the bank (boyfriend or even 1st marriage) she is continually (for some subconsciously - for others consciously) looking for an "UPGRADE". She may UPGRADE several different times before her upgradability potential bumps up against her declining SMV (sexual market value - which is determined to a large extent by age/fertility). Cougars are an interesting group in that usually they are independently financially secure - no need for a man to provide financial security for them any more - so they can let their barely contained carnal desires dictate their behavior and choices. Usually Cougars, because THEY are chasing after something they want badly - YOUTH - are the best looking women of their age group, ie: exercise all the time, keep young mentally wrt current trends in music /clothes /etc.. Men of their own age hold little appeal for Cougars, even though they could easily hook most men of their age precisely because they are the best looking women of their age group, because they are chasing after that Fountain Of Youth ie: the highly desirable YOUNGER good looking male. The way you described Cougars is basically the way men act their entire lives. Maybe Cougars are just men in women's bodies who are liberated relatively late in life. |
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plus (OP) User ID: 75866661 Denmark 12/18/2017 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some of you guys are just plain insane. Quoting: LittleMissDictator But I love you all whackadilly or not. lol You be thinkin waaaaay into it too much in my opinion. But I guess it is somethin to do.. so who am I to judge. This is simple psychology. Knowledge is always power. If you think this is overthinking relationships, you should study psychology. The theory I presented here is kindergarten-level, but it's worth discussing because it's a new theory. When I'm trying to figure women out I feel like I'm studying wild animals in their natural habitat, and I frequently feel like this... (It's not a good thing, so I need understanding. ) [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] If you want see what overthinking looks like, look at this YouTube channel: [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] How about over 1,450 videos, 97,000 subscribers, and 42,533,825 views on one topic...how to understand and deal with women. That is overthinking it. Last Edited by plus on 12/18/2017 07:55 PM |
XJDUB User ID: 75365619 Canada 12/18/2017 08:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A woman's love is like the morning dew; just as apt to settle on a horse turd as a rose. Let the facts fall wherever, whenever, and however they may. INTP - The Logician. 'Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.' - Albert Einstein. |
plus (OP) User ID: 75866661 Denmark 12/18/2017 08:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A woman's love is like the morning dew; just as apt to settle on a horse turd as a rose. Quoting: XJDUB If the horse turd has what the woman wants (money, status, looks, desired citizenship, etc.), that's a possibilty. And then we've all seen things like this... [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] Last Edited by plus on 12/18/2017 08:52 PM |
plus (OP) User ID: 75454908 Denmark 12/19/2017 03:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some of you guys are just plain insane. Quoting: LittleMissDictator But I love you all whackadilly or not. lol You be thinkin waaaaay into it too much in my opinion. But I guess it is somethin to do.. so who am I to judge. Things are completely different for you because you're a woman. You may not even be aware that women act the way I described because not all women do, and you and your friends may be different. I get a lot of the small bets, and it's caused me a lot of grief. Understanding what's happening is essential for me to stay happy and (ironically) sane. Last Edited by plus on 12/19/2017 03:03 AM |
McFraggypants User ID: 75239825 United States 12/19/2017 04:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Roullette is probably the best analogy for what women do in romance. They have a stack of chips (the chips symbolize the time they're fertile) when they reach dating age. They make small individual bets on specific numbers, and they just keep doing that until they're almost out of chips (time). The way they make those small bets is to nudge the men they like toward asking them out and going beyond that. Quoting: plus If they've reached about 30 years old, and they've lost all their bets, they just go all-in on red or black (i.e. settling for the best that's available in that moment). Their biological clock is ticking after all. They become a lot more assertive, aggressive, and accepting in a race against time to get married before having children becomes a lot more difficult. I'm sorry, but that's an incredibly stupid strategy. Going all-in a lot sooner would lead to a much higher level of happiness throughout their lives on average. The way women approach romance is exactly the same way a dumb degenerate gambler approaches gambling. They use a reckless, ill-conceived strategy, and if they win, it's just because they were lucky. I know there are lots of exceptions to that, but the exceptions prove the rule. If we fuck you, you call us sluts. If we don't fuck you, you call us stuck up bitches or dykes. If we already have a partner, you call us whores. No matter what we do, there are men like you complaining about it or criticizing us for it. My word of advice to you is take a good long look at yourself in the proverbial mirror. See yourself for who you really are, warts and all. Then ask yourself why you have bad luck with women. Good luck! Find all you need in your mind. |
plus (OP) User ID: 75180426 Denmark 12/19/2017 04:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Roullette is probably the best analogy for what women do in romance. They have a stack of chips (the chips symbolize the time they're fertile) when they reach dating age. They make small individual bets on specific numbers, and they just keep doing that until they're almost out of chips (time). The way they make those small bets is to nudge the men they like toward asking them out and going beyond that. Quoting: plus If they've reached about 30 years old, and they've lost all their bets, they just go all-in on red or black (i.e. settling for the best that's available in that moment). Their biological clock is ticking after all. They become a lot more assertive, aggressive, and accepting in a race against time to get married before having children becomes a lot more difficult. I'm sorry, but that's an incredibly stupid strategy. Going all-in a lot sooner would lead to a much higher level of happiness throughout their lives on average. The way women approach romance is exactly the same way a dumb degenerate gambler approaches gambling. They use a reckless, ill-conceived strategy, and if they win, it's just because they were lucky. I know there are lots of exceptions to that, but the exceptions prove the rule. If we fuck you, you call us sluts. If we don't fuck you, you call us stuck up bitches or dykes. If we already have a partner, you call us whores. No matter what we do, there are men like you complaining about it or criticizing us for it. My word of advice to you is take a good long look at yourself in the proverbial mirror. See yourself for who you really are, warts and all. Then ask yourself why you have bad luck with women. Good luck! I am just pointing out how women behave. I wasn't complaining. |
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plus (OP) User ID: 75180426 Denmark 12/19/2017 04:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Roullette is probably the best analogy for what women do in romance. They have a stack of chips (the chips symbolize the time they're fertile) when they reach dating age. They make small individual bets on specific numbers, and they just keep doing that until they're almost out of chips (time). The way they make those small bets is to nudge the men they like toward asking them out and going beyond that. Quoting: plus If they've reached about 30 years old, and they've lost all their bets, they just go all-in on red or black (i.e. settling for the best that's available in that moment). Their biological clock is ticking after all. They become a lot more assertive, aggressive, and accepting in a race against time to get married before having children becomes a lot more difficult. I'm sorry, but that's an incredibly stupid strategy. Going all-in a lot sooner would lead to a much higher level of happiness throughout their lives on average. The way women approach romance is exactly the same way a dumb degenerate gambler approaches gambling. They use a reckless, ill-conceived strategy, and if they win, it's just because they were lucky. I know there are lots of exceptions to that, but the exceptions prove the rule. If we fuck you, you call us sluts. If we don't fuck you, you call us stuck up bitches or dykes. If we already have a partner, you call us whores. No matter what we do, there are men like you complaining about it or criticizing us for it. My word of advice to you is take a good long look at yourself in the proverbial mirror. See yourself for who you really are, warts and all. Then ask yourself why you have bad luck with women. Good luck! The funniest thing about your post to me is how you assume that I'm a failure with women because I'm pointing out negative things about them. It's just the opposite. I'm pointing these things out because of my success with women. I have to cope with how they act, and consequently you get threads like this from me. Lots of men who post stuff like this thread online were driven to it because of their success with women. A lot of times "winning" is losing. Last Edited by plus on 12/19/2017 04:56 AM |
plus (OP) User ID: 75741916 Denmark 12/19/2017 06:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Roullette is probably the best analogy for what women do in romance. They have a stack of chips (the chips symbolize the time they're fertile) when they reach dating age. They make small individual bets on specific numbers, and they just keep doing that until they're almost out of chips (time). The way they make those small bets is to nudge the men they like toward asking them out and going beyond that. Quoting: plus If they've reached about 30 years old, and they've lost all their bets, they just go all-in on red or black (i.e. settling for the best that's available in that moment). Their biological clock is ticking after all. They become a lot more assertive, aggressive, and accepting in a race against time to get married before having children becomes a lot more difficult. I'm sorry, but that's an incredibly stupid strategy. Going all-in a lot sooner would lead to a much higher level of happiness throughout their lives on average. The way women approach romance is exactly the same way a dumb degenerate gambler approaches gambling. They use a reckless, ill-conceived strategy, and if they win, it's just because they were lucky. I know there are lots of exceptions to that, but the exceptions prove the rule. This theory explains why women will actually get angry if a man they like doesn't respond the way they expected/wanted to one of their nudges. In their way of thinking, the nudge is a special event, and it's one of their limited number of bets. In a man's eyes, the nudge is just part of routine communication. Who's right? Both sides are right. The nudge is special and common simultaneously. A woman saying hello to a man could be the only bet they place for a whole day or a whole week, but only they know which hello is routine and which hello is special. I used to think that was crazy, but it's actually completely logical. |
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Daozen User ID: 76010779 Taiwan 12/19/2017 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would look at hypergamy, The Rational Male, Black Dragon and The Red Pill writings. You seem to have stumbled onto some of those truths. They opened my eyes. Daozen appears to be mentally impaired, but harmless. Attention! You are in a Private Universe. Simulation Terms of Service: h t t p s ://godlikemidnight . vercel . app The world is a feeling. "The syntactical nature of reality, the real secret of magic, is that the world is made of words." |
plus (OP) User ID: 75741916 Denmark 12/19/2017 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This "insane" thread has changed my life. I'm going to start approaching women I like as a game of roullette. Quoting: plus I think they're right. I want to add that their strategy works for me because I don't want to get married again. I have the rest of my life, and if nothing happens, it's no big deal. I don't think their strategy works for them because they're in a race against time. |
plus (OP) User ID: 75741916 Denmark 12/19/2017 08:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would look at hypergamy, The Rational Male, Black Dragon and The Red Pill writings. You seem to have stumbled onto some of those truths. They opened my eyes. Quoting: Daozen I've been studying that stuff for years. The immortal classic in that genre was written by a woman. [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75779173 United States 12/19/2017 08:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some of you guys are just plain insane. Quoting: LittleMissDictator But I love you all whackadilly or not. lol You be thinkin waaaaay into it too much in my opinion. But I guess it is somethin to do.. so who am I to judge. Of course men think about it, if one survive a bitten by a nasty snake wouldn't they naturally let others know how to avoid being bitten? ? |
plus (OP) User ID: 75741916 Denmark 12/19/2017 08:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you bet red Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75916023 And more than double each consecutive time after losing You will win one day We're falling into the pit of total stupidity. THE MOST STUPID MONEY MANAGEMENT STRATEGY (Martingale Strategy) [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
plus (OP) User ID: 75741916 Denmark 12/19/2017 08:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some of you guys are just plain insane. Quoting: LittleMissDictator But I love you all whackadilly or not. lol You be thinkin waaaaay into it too much in my opinion. But I guess it is somethin to do.. so who am I to judge. Of course men think about it, if one survive a bitten by a nasty snake wouldn't they naturally let others know how to avoid being bitten? ? They want us to be helpless victims. |
plus (OP) User ID: 75741916 Denmark 12/19/2017 08:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Roullette is probably the best analogy for what women do in romance. They have a stack of chips (the chips symbolize the time they're fertile) when they reach dating age. They make small individual bets on specific numbers, and they just keep doing that until they're almost out of chips (time). The way they make those small bets is to nudge the men they like toward asking them out and going beyond that. Quoting: plus If they've reached about 30 years old, and they've lost all their bets, they just go all-in on red or black (i.e. settling for the best that's available in that moment). Their biological clock is ticking after all. They become a lot more assertive, aggressive, and accepting in a race against time to get married before having children becomes a lot more difficult. I'm sorry, but that's an incredibly stupid strategy. Going all-in a lot sooner would lead to a much higher level of happiness throughout their lives on average. The way women approach romance is exactly the same way a dumb degenerate gambler approaches gambling. They use a reckless, ill-conceived strategy, and if they win, it's just because they were lucky. I know there are lots of exceptions to that, but the exceptions prove the rule. After all these years of not understanding this song...I get it. She is talking about what I described above. [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
jkm1864 User ID: 74933864 United States 12/19/2017 09:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Interesting analogy. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52154903 It's failure is that it does NOT consider the "Ladder Theory" in conjunction with it. Under "Ladder Theory" once a woman has her first "win" in the bank (boyfriend or even 1st marriage) she is continually (for some subconsciously - for others consciously) looking for an "UPGRADE". She may UPGRADE several different times before her upgradability potential bumps up against her declining SMV (sexual market value - which is determined to a large extent by age/fertility). Cougars are an interesting group in that usually they are independently financially secure - no need for a man to provide financial security for them any more - so they can let their barely contained carnal desires dictate their behavior and choices. Usually Cougars, because THEY are chasing after something they want badly - YOUTH - are the best looking women of their age group, ie: exercise all the time, keep young mentally wrt current trends in music /clothes /etc.. Men of their own age hold little appeal for Cougars, even though they could easily hook most men of their age precisely because they are the best looking women of their age group, because they are chasing after that Fountain Of Youth ie: the highly desirable YOUNGER good looking male. The way you described Cougars is basically the way men act their entire lives. Maybe Cougars are just men in women's bodies who are liberated relatively late in life. What ever cup cake. I like how You lump 100% of the men into a category that only 30% of the men actually fit in. If you did some research You would learn that 70% of the women out there chase 30% of the men and the other men have to settle for 30% of the women whom are looking for families. So in essence Your full of shit and what you accuse Men of actually fits the majority of women. Pussy Grabber Extraordinaire |