Husband not having sexual relations with his wife

I think god actually means well though because then wives don't need to pretend they're turned on by old farts who've turned repulsive and want weird hooker sex shit done to them.

lol

First of all, when did his dad stop sleeping with his mom? How old was he? How was their relationship?

When did her mom stop sleeping with her dad? How old? How was their relationship?

If there is nothing off there, then I would say 99.9 percent it has something to do with his hormones. He needs to go to his doctor and get some medication which would allow him to enjoy sex and initiate sex.

If she is the problem, then SHE needs to go her doctor and find out why she no longer enjoys sex.

The above will solve all problems.

while I admire what you say and your character.

I must confess, there is some confusion about you saying you had to lay down your life due to not having sex.

you equate not having sex to not having a life?

Didn't have them removed but I do fight with my balls tied behind my back and I can tell you I have no desire for sex while brawling.

erm, stopping sleeping with people forever is not normal.

Interesting -

I stopped wanting sex with my wife when she became over weight, started wearing yoga pants all day, was always unhappy and pestering me for sex constantly.

She did try to talk about it many times, but I knew it would hurt her if I told her the truth about how I viewed her, so instead we just argued until the subject was changed.

When I would bring up working out, clothing changes, personal happyness, etc when we where not discussing "sex", she would get all defensive and nothing changed..

I no longer viewed her as "clean" and was more disgusted by it all..

I filed for Divorce..

Now, oddly.. After the divorce she cleaned up, lost weight, became happy again (she had to in order to live her life single) and I now find her very desirable.

The above advice of working out, new clothing, being happy etc etc will go along way to get her husband interested in her again..


Also, I never cheated on my wife, wasn't addicted to porn.. I valued our family and would no betray that value, but just stopped finding her desirable because of her personal self neglect..

So she got defensive in conversations about the problem which can only mean that she knew it was the problem, or else she wouldn't have been defensive about it.

meaning she was fully aware the whole time.

Good Point - wasn't until this post that I actually really gave it any thought.. We are not together any more and I only see her when we exchange kids.. So was really no point in dwelling on it..

divorce

definitely a case of depression coupled with the cancer\radiation\removal of testes ... probably he is needing testosterone, serotonin, and thyroxine ... and therapy ... and maybe a blue pill ...

Yes she is thinking on the same lines low testosterone but he clams up when she brings anything up and dismisses it all

She has put on weight but is clean and still attractive, he's put on a lot of weight too

'my friend's husband'

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Maybe a lull idk about the testes cancer yikes Mine is getting breakfast in bed with coffee then

good advice from the Russian

he is maybe also embarrassed about 'shooting blanks' i.e. not producing any semen .... but definitely sounds like depression probably due to endocrinological reasons ...

more to life than sex....

^^^THIS.

It happens.

It's a cruel joke indeed. Everyone has needs. There's nothing worse than a sexless marriage hurting all the time and watching your youth tick away.

Indeed. After my father had cancer he was never the same. Especially if this woman's man is the strong provider type. Having a brush with mortality can really fuck with your head. If she is sure he isn't cheating, he may need some cancer survivor's therapy to help him work through the severe emotional toll.

loan her yours

Some of y'all are boiling down the sexual issues to "just sex" as if it is much ado about very little.

My opinion is that you are mistaken.

Sex, especially an orgasm between two people who love each other, is truly a spiritual connection and a profound experience.

Denying one's partner those incredible feelings of belonging and shared love is a whole lot like torture for them.

And, they feel its absence incessantly.

your a millennial and he is a gen-x

millennials are boomers kids, they think like boomers, you don't see anything but yourself in everything. Gen-x sees everything and everyone but after time millennials in a gen-x will wear them down due to not looking after them they way they do you.

that means loss of interest, the same way you treated them.

OP is clearly a delusional women.

My ex girlfriend kept gaining wieght. I tried to get her to workout. I tried to get her to eat right. She thought i was all a big joke. I quit fucking her at about +40 lbs and she gained about another 20lbs!

Then she tried to tell me Im gay. How desperate do fat snoring cows get??!!!

No you are a fucking stupid bufalo and you are disrespecting yourself, me and our relationship. Adios!

why do women get all fat and sigusting and then get all surprised when their man leaves them?! Makes no sense!

...and no I nver ever cheated!