If you only want women to have sex with them that is a problem also. I am not saying it is always mental but it is not healthy if you are obsessed. Yes, I know Americans think it is funny and a big thing to see very beautiful women naked in pornography - this was on "This is America!" - but this is no way for a society to live because it is corruption.

There are better ways. It is good to see women as ladies and mothers who love their children and their men. This way you get a better quality in life and people are happier.

Here it is complicated to teach, because these ideas are cultural and you may not understand them.